Tease and Denial to the Extreme:)

[MissJasmine]

Tease and Denial techniques not only set the stage for some of the sexiest scenerios, but they also are a great way to introduce the bdsm side of things to "vanilla" players. I've always thought of lapdancing as a politically correct form of T&D, with the guy looking and not touching, getting very aroused, but not getting any at the end.

Heres an actual recent T&D session taken to "my kind of level":

I'm wearing my ultra tight schoolgirl top, short plaid skirt, white lace top stockings and nice black heels. I give you a soft kiss on the cheek, and while running my hands over your back, I say "Now I want to see you naked"

On the bed I tie your hands over your head and ankles tightly together with soft rope, making sure you are completely immobilized, but still circulating

I turn the music on and while maintaining eye contact and dancing over you I slowly take my top off "I cant wait to straddle your cock" I say, and I do. At this point I lean into your face (now nestled between my breasts), and reaching for my blindfold, I cover your eyes.

You feel my hair brush all over you, weight on you now as I straddle you in my panties and press my hard nipples against you, moving my hips up and down. I slowly wriggle myself upwards, until my crotch is in your face "mmm my pussy is so wet want a taste?"

All you hear is the sound of me fingering myself over your face, my moans and the sweet unmistakable scent of sex..."I dont need panties on now do I?"
you feel a few square inches of soft satin drop against your now raging hard on, and my thighs press against your shoulders again.

I take off your blindfold and give you a close up view of my naked body and especially my very wet pussy "I know you want it, but you have to wait your turn...its "ladies first" around here understand?" I strap your face in my "head harness" with a big dildo attached to it. With my body facing your cock, I ride the dildo sticking out of your face until you hear me cry out and see my cum ooze out my pussy...

"My goodness your cock is so juicy and yummy looking" I take your head harness off...your tongue cant reach my dripping juices but I smear some on your lips with my fingers while blowinghot air all over your cock and tickling it with my hair.

You are gyrating your hips like mad now. "Darling I know you wanna fuck me so badly and I'm going to break all the rules and let you inside my tight little pussy...but you have to promise not to tell anyone...I'm so horny I want you badly...do you promise not to tell?"

I turn around to face you, reach for a condom and slowly put it on you, touch my pussy against the head of your cock and looking into your desperate eyes, with my back arched, breasts bouncing in your face, move in synch with you. You see me riding you, but you cant feel me because youre not quite inside... I grind hard against you with my hips back just far enough for you to touch my pussy lips with your covered cock head.
After what seems like an eternity of being "on the edge" I ask "should I let you fuck me or should I send you home with blueballs?"

At this point I burst out giggling "Not a fucking chance...and you thought I was serious?"
Our session was only beginning and needless to say there is no "happy ending" to the story

 

[trackstar]

See, I've always had a lot of concern for sp's that offer tease and denial sessions to newbies. When you get someone out of their mind horny, bad things can happen. For someone in the lifestyle, they are accustomed to certain realities, whereas a newbie maybe not so much. Too many rapes have occurred by sick men saying that his victim wanted it, or she told me she wanted it. She said stop, but she didn't really want me to. I really hope that if you do this, especially with a newbie, you have adequate protection VERY nearby. Have fun, but be careful!

 

[JordanJules]

See, I've always had a lot of concern for sp's that offer tease and denial sessions to newbies. When you get someone out of their mind horny, bad things can happen. For someone in the lifestyle, they are accustomed to certain realities, whereas a newbie maybe not so much. Too many rapes have occurred by sick men saying that his victim wanted it, or she told me she wanted it. She said stop, but she didn't really want me to. I really hope that if you do this, especially with a newbie, you have adequate protection VERY nearby. Have fun, but be careful!

Did I just really read this? WTF?

 

[Sit_on_my_face]

See, I've always had a lot of concern for sp's that offer tease and denial sessions to newbies. When you get someone out of their mind horny, bad things can happen. For someone in the lifestyle, they are accustomed to certain realities, whereas a newbie maybe not so much. Too many rapes have occurred by sick men saying that his victim wanted it, or she told me she wanted it. She said stop, but she didn't really want me to. I really hope that if you do this, especially with a newbie, you have adequate protection VERY nearby. Have fun, but be careful!

Thats ridiculous Track. I mean totally! First of all this sort of act would be discussed by the Domme and her client, so he would know what the situation is.
Second........there's always that road that she can get him to release himself towards the end of the session.

Third.....In Miss Jasmine's case, she's a pro Domme. I pretty well think she knows what she's doing and have that covered!


A senario like that, would be next to none.

 

[Sit_on_my_face]

Tease and Denial techniques not only set the stage for some of the sexiest scenerios, but they also are a great way to introduce the bdsm side of things to "vanilla" players. I've always thought of lapdancing as a politically correct form of T&D, with the guy looking and not touching, getting very aroused, but not getting any at the end.

Heres an actual recent T&D session taken to "my kind of level":

I'm wearing my ultra tight schoolgirl top, short plaid skirt, white lace top stockings and nice black heels. I give you a soft kiss on the cheek, and while running my hands over your back, I say "Now I want to see you naked"

On the bed I tie your hands over your head and ankles tightly together with soft rope, making sure you are completely immobilized, but still circulating

I turn the music on and while maintaining eye contact and dancing over you I slowly take my top off "I cant wait to straddle your cock" I say, and I do. At this point I lean into your face (now nestled between my breasts), and reaching for my blindfold, I cover your eyes.

You feel my hair brush all over you, weight on you now as I straddle you in my panties and press my hard nipples against you, moving my hips up and down. I slowly wriggle myself upwards, until my crotch is in your face "mmm my pussy is so wet want a taste?"

All you hear is the sound of me fingering myself over your face, my moans and the sweet unmistakable scent of sex..."I dont need panties on now do I?"
you feel a few square inches of soft satin drop against your now raging hard on, and my thighs press against your shoulders again.

I take off your blindfold and give you a close up view of my naked body and especially my very wet pussy "I know you want it, but you have to wait your turn...its "ladies first" around here understand?" I strap your face in my "head harness" with a big dildo attached to it. With my body facing your cock, I ride the dildo sticking out of your face until you hear me cry out and see my cum ooze out my pussy...

"My goodness your cock is so juicy and yummy looking" I take your head harness off...your tongue cant reach my dripping juices but I smear some on your lips with my fingers while blowinghot air all over your cock and tickling it with my hair.

You are gyrating your hips like mad now. "Darling I know you wanna fuck me so badly and I'm going to break all the rules and let you inside my tight little pussy...but you have to promise not to tell anyone...I'm so horny I want you badly...do you promise not to tell?"

I turn around to face you, reach for a condom and slowly put it on you, touch my pussy against the head of your cock and looking into your desperate eyes, with my back arched, breasts bouncing in your face, move in synch with you. You see me riding you, but you cant feel me because youre not quite inside... I grind hard against you with my hips back just far enough for you to touch my pussy lips with your covered cock head.
After what seems like an eternity of being "on the edge" I ask "should I let you fuck me or should I send you home with blueballs?"

At this point I burst out giggling "Not a fucking chance...and you thought I was serious?"
Our session was only beginning and needless to say there is no "happy ending" to the story

WOW, Nice write up Jas. You wanna get in tears Don't you????

Jas.............you killing me again!!!!


ANY MERCY FOR ME ?????????????

 

[Aeiyah]

The Blood Still Hasn't Returned to My Brain.


In response to Trackstar's post, the level of trust between the domme and sub will dictate the intensity in the scene. A scene like this wouldn't happen unless you've played a together a few times. While I've had tease & denial with this type of intensity level with a few different dommes, it was only after we had gotten to know each other a bit before.

 

[lotusstrange]

Thats ridiculous Track. I mean totally! First of all this sort of act would be discussed by the Domme and her client, so he would know what the situation is.
Second........there's always that road that she can get him to release himself towards the end of the session.

Third.....In Miss Jasmine's case, she's a pro Domme. I pretty well think she knows what she's doing and have that covered!


A senario like that, would be next to none.

I do not know Mistress Jasmine I have not had the pleasure my own internal struggles I suppose, and it is wonderful to read such a fantastic imagination or fantasy.

To me that is what seperates the good from the bad is the details regardless of what industry you work in (Accountant Construction Worker whatever). As such I'm sure Mistress Jasmine works on the principles of BDSM "Safe Sane Consensual."

Track has a valid concern and I read that he has a valid concern for the safety of Mistress Jasmine. However, I'm sure when dealing with a Newbie as Mistress Jasmine repeated in her story that Safe Sane Consensual not just for the submissive but as well for herself. We all need to remember that hard and soft limits are also in place for the Dom/me and that this would have been discussed. Although, this is simply a crazy world as well so I too want nothing more than safety for A/all. Stay safe everyone and enjoy remember it is only our imaginations that prevent us from achieving greatness!

 

[trackstar]

Thats ridiculous Track. I mean totally! First of all this sort of act would be discussed by the Domme and her client, so he would know what the situation is.
Second........there's always that road that she can get him to release himself towards the end of the session.

Third.....In Miss Jasmine's case, she's a pro Domme. I pretty well think she knows what she's doing and have that covered!


A senario like that, would be next to none.

After what seems like an eternity of being "on the edge" I ask "should I let you fuck me or should I send you home with blueballs?"

At this point I burst out giggling "Not a fucking chance...and you thought I was serious?"

I tink you should read that again.

We are not talking about sessions with people that she has gotten to know and trust, she is talking about breaking someone in from the vanilla lifestyle, which means she can not say for sure how he will react to the denial aspect of endless teasing.

What's really pissing me off here is how you two are coming at me when I am discussing a woman's safety and raising concerns. I'm going to hold the rest of what I have to say to you two back right now before I really fucking lose it. I'm gussing any other stupid comments you make from this point on have little to do with her safety and everything to do with trying to piss me off further like a rat faced little weasel. I know people pretty well and am pretty sure you won't disappoint

 

[Sit_on_my_face]

After what seems like an eternity of being "on the edge" I ask "should I let you fuck me or should I send you home with blueballs?"

At this point I burst out giggling "Not a fucking chance...and you thought I was serious?"

I tink you should read that again.

We are not talking about sessions with people that she has gotten to know and trust, she is talking about breaking someone in from the vanilla lifestyle, which means she can not say for sure how he will react to the denial aspect of endless teasing.

What's really pissing me off here is how you two are coming at me when I am discussing a woman's safety and raising concerns. I'm going to hold the rest of what I have to say to you two back right now before I really fucking lose it. I'm gussing any other stupid comments you make from this point on have little to do with her safety and everything to do with trying to piss me off further like a rat faced little weasel. I know people pretty well and am pretty sure you won't disappoint

Im not down playing track. Your taking this a little to far now. Relax.
Im as concerned for the safety of these ladies as much as you are.

And good for you to be concerned. Awesome I think.
Im just saying that Im sure Miss Jasmine would have that covered.

Thats all.

Be safe and cheers

 

[MissJasmine]

What's really pissing me off here is how you two are coming at me when I am discussing a woman's safety and raising concerns.

Thanks for bringing up the issue of safety...its something we rarely talk about here unless its after something bad happens. Anyone who works as an sp or domme needs to constantly be aware of what is going on and trust their instincts from the very first point of contact with their client whether its email or phone.

The above scenario may sound like a really disappointing date to a reader, but tease and denial is something that my clients specifically request in advance, and know I will deliver it in a way that is "cruel". Clients asking for T&D are taken to the edge, stopped, and that is exactly the kind of intensity they want whether they are a beginner or not. Also, every tease/denial session is done with the client completely bound because a) it intensifies the "denial" aspect and b) it prevents him from touching/entering me. If I havent played with the person before than I am less "cruel" and there is less physical contact...but this is true about all my services.

I agree with Trackstar that that there are lots of sickos..but they are that way before they walk through the door...they usually prey on the easiest targets, and dont asked to be tied up beforehand.

This is a whole other topic but do you think the average pro domme is at a higher risk of attack and rape offering T&D than the average escort is offering GFE? Keeping in mind that escorts have limits too, and have the right to refuse service just like anyone else.

 

[stressrelease]

one word...

got one word for your posting Miss Jasmine,
WOW!

 

[subgrant]

Jesus... I cannot wait until You visit our wonderful city Miss Jasmine.

 

[sonoman]

I just saw this thread... that made for shit-hot reading Miss J... wow. [Mouth agape]

 

[MissJasmine]

Glad you enjoy! Having been on the receiving end of "teasing-to-near-death" with previous lovers I know how hot it can be. I'll be sharing some naughty highlights of this Calgary/Edmonton trip after I'm home

 

[Aeiyah]

Having been on the receiving end of "teasing-to-near-death" with previous lovers I know how hot it can be.

I wonder how many out there would survive that intensity level?

 

[MissJasmine]

I wonder how many out there would survive that intensity level?

Someone did at 9am this morning...and then some! Rather accidentally, he was my first prostate milking experience!

 

[Aeiyah]

Someone did at 9am this morning...and then some! Rather accidentally, he was my first prostate milking experience!

Methinks he could use some lessons on orgasm control. I take it he was begging you to stop when you were finished. At least that's what I would make a greedy subbie do if he/she came without permission. And yes I have done it to someone, after she asked me to use a magic wand on her when she was tied up. Consider it a hazard of topping from the bottom.

 

[MissJasmine]

Methinks he could use some lessons on orgasm control. I take it he was begging you to stop when you were finished. At least that's what I would make a greedy subbie do if he/she came without permission. And yes I have done it to someone, after she asked me to use a magic wand on her when she was tied up. Consider it a hazard of topping from the bottom.

Not exactly...I used a prostate toy on him and was kind enough to allow him to play for the grand finale. Turns out he ruined it for himself. Oh well...
By the way I'm looking for an Edmonton pet

 

[Aeiyah]

Nice Cage

By the way I'm looking for an Edmonton pet

I lived in Edmonton for 5 years. That was a long time ago. The last time I was there was 4 years ago.

 

[minos]

Miss Jasmine, wow, you really have a way with words. If the reality of that T & D session is even close to your description I have to get to "your kind of level"! Then there's your photos...... I'd gladly swap places with the suspended guy, or the one in your cage. Hopefully the day of opportunity will come.....