Does anyone know what real tantric massage is? I see ads everywhere for tantric this and tantric that, but from reviews I've read it just seems to be a euphemism for a HJ. Is there more to it? Can we all become Sting with the right teacher or is it a scam?
Tantric Shmantric
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Tantric massage involves the whole body and not just the sex organs. The purpose is to keep aroused and very close to coming for prolonged periods. Full benefits are acheived when connecting not only on a physical level but also on a mental and spiritual level in a loving relationship. Erogenous zones all over the body are massaged to attain this sensation until eventually, after all the salivating, you do release.
Some adult massage providers may be successful at offering this minus the "mental and spiritual level in a loving relationship" part. In which case, I agree it is a handjob but, a very long, slow, hopefully deeply satisfying one.
Probably bring a tear to your eye wishing you had someone to enjoy the "mental and spiritual level in a loving relationship" part.
Tantric Massage.
Sydney xo
Some adult massage providers may be successful at offering this minus the "mental and spiritual level in a loving relationship" part. In which case, I agree it is a handjob but, a very long, slow, hopefully deeply satisfying one.
Probably bring a tear to your eye wishing you had someone to enjoy the "mental and spiritual level in a loving relationship" part.
Tantric Massage.
Sydney xo
Sydney said:
Being mental isn't all it's cracked up to be. As for spirits - make mine a double.
Basically, you're saying it works, but not on a "pay per view" basis.
I have visited with Shakti in the past and part of the theory is an increased sense of sexuality as a result of an increased awareness of the whole body. Shakti is very good at promoting this, since she offers the most unique massage experience I have ever had. It included all of the senses and the entire experience was pleasant and sensual. The orgasm that was acheived at the end of the hour and a half of massaging, touching, rubbing, contact, etc, with all parts of my body was one of the most powerful of recent memory.
We had not begun to explore the area of increased sexual stamina, but I have no doubts that there is great benefit to be had towards the ends of: staying hard and aroused longer, increase the intensity of orgasm and controlling ejaculation. I wish I had the time to explore this with Shakti. I am also unsure if she is even in Vancouver right now. I hear she winters in CA.
We had not begun to explore the area of increased sexual stamina, but I have no doubts that there is great benefit to be had towards the ends of: staying hard and aroused longer, increase the intensity of orgasm and controlling ejaculation. I wish I had the time to explore this with Shakti. I am also unsure if she is even in Vancouver right now. I hear she winters in CA.
As I understand it there is also the ability to orgasm without ejaculation, therefore allowing men the pleasure of multiple orgasms. Has anyone experienced this? Is there anyone on town that teaches it, if Shakti isn't available?
the orgasm without ejaculation is very common and not a big deal ... its just that the two typically coincide for most men.Cock Throppled said:
some men that have prostate surgery will have orgasms without ejactulate and men who have had testicles removed experience the same thing.
you can even have an orgasm and ejaculation without an erection per se ...
for the 'tantric' part, just mastrubate until you near the 'orgasm/ejaculation' and slow down or stop ... once the feeling passes, start up again ... eventually you will start feeling little 'pulses' like you want to ejaculate but again you stop -- those are the beginnings of the orgasm you want to intensify.
takes a bit of time, but gives you a valid excuse for playing with yourself at work!
In actual fact Tantra is not just about sex & sexuality. It is an Eastern practice that attempts a realization of the wholeness, or singularity, of life. ie. all is oneness.
There are three paths of Tantra. White Tantra, Red Tantra and Black Tantra.
White Tantra is the Tantra of purification. It involves intense yogic practice, diet etc. It is effective, but not so interesting for most people as it takes years of effort. And most people hate effort.
Red Tantra is the most closely associated with sex. It is not, however, just a sexual practice. In fact, in a traditional Tantric school you may not even be permitted to see a woman for the first 10 or so years. Red Tantra makes use of the polarities (female/male, ying/yang) to bring about the realization of wholeness.
This is the Tantra whose techniques have been farmed and marketed to the western public. The techniques work and they will give you good orgasms, but this is not what they are about.
Black Tantra is the Tantra of Death. Most of it's practices would probably get you arrested here in the West. Little is known about the actual details as the Black Tantric Practitioner moves beyond the law and what 99.9% of the population would find acceptable. They therefore don't talk about it very much.
In the west Tantra has become a way of marketing a particular type of massage. As mentioned above it is a more holistic approach to massage/sex and involves the whole body, breathing, sharing feelings etc. It can be helpful and pleasurable to go to a practitioner (I have seen some good ones myself) but ultimately a long term partner is ideal.
There are three paths of Tantra. White Tantra, Red Tantra and Black Tantra.
White Tantra is the Tantra of purification. It involves intense yogic practice, diet etc. It is effective, but not so interesting for most people as it takes years of effort. And most people hate effort.
Red Tantra is the most closely associated with sex. It is not, however, just a sexual practice. In fact, in a traditional Tantric school you may not even be permitted to see a woman for the first 10 or so years. Red Tantra makes use of the polarities (female/male, ying/yang) to bring about the realization of wholeness.
This is the Tantra whose techniques have been farmed and marketed to the western public. The techniques work and they will give you good orgasms, but this is not what they are about.
Black Tantra is the Tantra of Death. Most of it's practices would probably get you arrested here in the West. Little is known about the actual details as the Black Tantric Practitioner moves beyond the law and what 99.9% of the population would find acceptable. They therefore don't talk about it very much.
In the west Tantra has become a way of marketing a particular type of massage. As mentioned above it is a more holistic approach to massage/sex and involves the whole body, breathing, sharing feelings etc. It can be helpful and pleasurable to go to a practitioner (I have seen some good ones myself) but ultimately a long term partner is ideal.
