Taking an SP out socially, off the clock: any experience you want to share?

tantalizeme

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Had a session recently with a topnotch Asian SP. As we lay chatting afterward, she mentioned she was bored and lonely in Vancouver.

I've an altruistic streak in my personality and suggested, on the spur of the moment, "Why don't you come dancing with me sometime?"

To my surprise, she asked me to punch my number into her phone. Two days later she calls me and asks whether I'm still up to taking her dancing.

"Sure," I say. "I pick you up at 7.30 tonight."

Most micro girls are socially isolated in Canada, so going to a dance in the company of a friendly client is probably a welcome escape for some of them. I don't really mind playing a good Samaritan for a hot Asian MILF—especially if I can practice my Mandarin.

Shortly after 7.30 PM I call to tell her I'm parked outside her place. Minutes later she comes out dressed in jeans and a colorful sweater, wearing barely any makeup.

It's only a short drive to the dancehall. Before we enter the hall, I sneak us into a disabled washroom. After a bit of groping I quickly change into my dance gear while letting her brush blue eye shadow on her eyelids. Makes her look a whole lot sexier to guys like me.

I pay the admission for the two of us. Would have been a classy gesture—and make her seem less like the typical female leech—if she had offered to buy her own ticket. But she doesn't.

As I anticipated, she's unfamiliar with standard dance steps, posture or lead and follow. Initially she's like a wild pony on the dance floor, but full of goodwill to learn. She's catching on amazingly quickly after dancing with me and several other guys.

One guy even asks me, "Where do you find these girls?" People probably don't suspect she's my SP, but even if they do, I don't give a rat's ass.

A few older Western guys show initial interest in her, but soon get discouraged by the language barrier. Learn a bit of Mandarin, fellows!

She eagerly chats with several Chinese dancers present, who clearly make her feel more at ease. And best of all, she's not clingy but smilingly watches me dance with other ladies. There're lots of civvies out dancing tonight.

But unlike civvies, she's far more willing to be lasciviously smoochy with me during a dance. She's just a sex machine, this girl—and her reflexes switch on automatically.

Usually I stay until closing time. But my charming companion, who's tireless in bed, isn't used to dancing and tells me she feels tired. I'm easy and agree to leave 45 min early.

It's the second time in my pooning career that I've taken an SP out socially, off the clock. The first time I did—over a year ago—was a major disappointment. The lady felt badly self-conscious and, probably out of defensiveness, spent most of her time on the phone rather than dancing with me or anyone else.

Compared to the SP I took out last year, this one was a lot more fun. The good times we shared in the dance hall translated into an especially wonderful late-night romp back at her place afterwards—though of course I paid full rate.

If she calls and asks me to take her out again, will I? Probably not.

There'd be too much predictability about doing so; we don't really have enough in common for a "meaningful" date; and even this time taking an SP to a dancehall full of civvies seemed a little like carrying snow to the North Pole.
 

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I think that micro girls would make fantastic dates, and would even be good gf material. I don't think that most of them view this as a lifelong career, and are pretty lonely in a strange land. The one I saw today (I wrote up a review)... I would give my left nut to see her socially - I'm totally besmitten. (Linguistic side track - besmitten's not a word. Who woulda thunk.)

But tant, you don't seem like the besmitting type. While some thrive on becoming besotted (aha, a real word), you are averse. Here you have a gal who 1. you find attractive, 2. Seems to like you, 3. Accepts your lifestyle, 4. Knows that you accept hers, 5. Is sexually compatible, and 6. Is willing to try new things - in this case dancing for the first time in a room of strangers.

Yet you don't think you have enough in common. See now the babe I saw today - I would accept it as being compatible if we just had the same taste in air.
 

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Danchall @ 7:30 with admission didn't get any google results...
7:30????? For real?
 

sevenofnine

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yeah.
Its not reallly a big deal. But yeah.

The lady I see, I asked her if we could keep in professional. Just kick me out, when my time was up, Im married, and would appreciate it if we kept it like that.

We were good for years and years. But eventually it was obvious we kind of liked each other, we were talking and texting every day. Several times a day.
I kind of felt this is stupid, Im having sex with her were talking like daily, whats the big deal about asking her out, so I did, I guess just to see if she would, but she said yes.
After that she started asking me out actually.

Its no big deal, but yeah we go for supper drinks coffee, walks. We have even got together and baked bread, I told her I made pizza with my own sauce and dough, she wanted to know how I made bread. We burnt the bread the top part the broiler was on so the top burnt. We cut it off and ate it with butter, we kind of got distracted.

I pay, for the food and drinks. Over the years she has offered but I won't let her.
She doesn't go out with clients. Her incall is close to the pubs and places we have been she doesn't want to be seen with anyone. She says it just feels forced or not natural. Maybe because guys are all over her pawing her, or think they can control her when there in a bar, or show her off, hey guys she is mine. Or something. I don't know.

But I sit respectfully don't touch her when were out in public. Were just two people having a drink it doesn't at all look sexual or romantic I keep it as neutral as possible.
We have actually ran into her next door neighbor's and stuff at the bar. And we keep going back so its not a big deal,

Its nice I think for both of us.
For a women in this I think at some point they want to be like and respected just for them not for sex. They want to be liked and enjoyed for who they are.

And for guys its at some point you wonder, would or could I get a women if I didn't pay, Does she just want my money.

Just a comment on another thread. Some guy was involved with an sp, and it all fall apart, and he groaned and bitch what do you expect she was using me like every other women. He was in love with her and helped her out.
It is so in mature, that kind of thinking,

You love a women your friends you give with no expectations of anything in return.
You do it because it feels good it feels right, It is actually nice to be in love and to care about some one, and you do it with no expectation or demands of anything in return.
you hope ya but if it doesn't work out you don't turn around and call her a gold digging bitch.
She used you and you used her.
Love is hard, its scary, you but yourself all out there, with the risk of that person just laughing at you, scary as hell.

Even friendship with an sp. People have said well she is not your friend if you don't know were she lives her phone number etc.
When your friends with an sp all of things privacy respect etc just become more important.
Or unimportant.
I mean the sp I see was stalked and researched some former client found out where she lives her real name etc etc, and showed up at her house.

Me, If she doesn't tell me something I don't need to know it, Its obviously not important. No curiosity what so ever on her personal life, though she has told me a lot,
its just on a need to know basis.
Sorry my rant is over,
 
If I meet a client I have connected with on a different level, I would certainly not hesitate to accompany him out for a fun time of dancing and/or drinks/dinner, so long as there was no "expectations" on my part.

Of course, I would wait for her to initiate anything sexual if ya'll are "off the clock". otherwise

"After a bit of groping I quickly change into my dance gear while letting her brush blue eye shadow on her eyelids. Makes her look a whole lot sexier to guys like me.

I pay the admission for the two of us. Would have been a classy gesture—and make her seem less like the typical female leech—if she had offered to buy her own ticket. But she doesn't."
That happens.:)
 

Caramel

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I'm not sure if I'm the only one who sees through your eloquent words and sees a man who has some real issues with women from this statement alone. But it's not even just this but the way you reference women in your reviews, it's crude and shows an utter lack of respect, but all wrapped up in some pretty words and phrasing so I think most people just don't really notice.
I completely agree with every word you said, its been exactly what I've been thinking. So you're not alone.
 

Caramel

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To be honest it totally creeps me out when guys like him bring outfits to "dress the girls up in" in my mind it's like when serial killers on those TV crime dramas dress their victims up to play out a fantasy. If you want them to wear stockings then just tell them before you go there and I'm sure they will, it's pretty standard fare for most!!
this is gold ....:pound::clap2:

exactly what i was thinking too about how its so creepy...but then he only sees micro girls and I doubt they have anything on hand at their incalls - and he mentioned that he ripped the stockings, so i dont think girls would want their own clothing ripped. Hope it was brand new though tant!
 

Caramel

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Aw... what if it's something that is an uncommon outfit like a Boba Fett costume and she doesn't have it but you ask in advance? Is that still creepy?
I had to google that...lol

I've heard a lot of instances in upscale encounters where the client would bring the escort a lingerie gift and she would wear it for him, or a dress.
 

tantalizeme

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Thanks for your perspective

I`ve never paid for social time in my life, with one rule, I don`t brag about it or talk about it. Unlike you Tant, I only spend social time with ladies I have a connection with, something in common and I treat them with respect and friendship and if something romantic or otherwise happens, that`s between us. Your review has a complete undercurrent of disrespect for her. not sure if it`s intentional, but your posts do seem to follow a theme.
Hey haymitch,

I assure you, I treat all my SPs with utmost respect. As my faithful reader you`ll have noticed, for example, that I often speak out against the denigration of mature Asian SPs.

You and I obviously patronize different types of SPs, according to our respective budgets and predilections. Please don`t fault me for not living up to standards of pooning correctness that may be appropriate in your segment of the market.

You seem to be well-informed about the higher-end offerings in this hobby both here and in Toronto, and you`ve written admirable reviews like this one (though they`re unfortunately few and far between): https://perb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?183022-Lavinia-New-playmate-TOFTT

We clearly have different experiences and reviewing styles, and you`re as entitled to yours as I think I`m to mine. I don`t mind critical feedback, though my hope for this thread is that we can keep focused on sharing off-the-clock experiences with SPs among those who care to share.

In this connection, I want to thank sevenofnine for his excellent, on-topic contribution.
 

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OK so it's not just me. I read some of the things he writes and I'm completely taken aback but then reading guys responses it makes me wonder if I'm the only one who has noticed.
I assume other guys notice as well, we just dont comment on it anymore. As long as he's happy and doesn't hurt anyone what does it matter? It's not like he's ever going to, or should, change because of what people here say.

To be honest it totally creeps me out when guys like him bring outfits to "dress the girls up in" in my mind it's like when serial killers on those TV crime dramas dress their victims up to play out a fantasy. If you want them to wear stockings then just tell them before you go there and I'm sure they will, it's pretty standard fare for most!!
As Caramel said he visits micros and rips the stockings, so bringing them is really the only option. I agree with everything you said when it comes to having a standard operating procedure like that, but I dont see it as odd to give an outfit you would like to see on a particular sp, unless you took it home with you afterwards, or bought the same one every single time... :)
 

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Or just compensate the girl for them...
That's what I would do personally, and seems to be the most reasonable option. Even if I had a similar penchant for ripping stockings off asian girls, and saw as many SP's as tant, I just couldn't bring myself to hit up the ladies section to buy an assortment of stockings every couple of weeks.

I assure you, I treat all my SPs with utmost respect. As my faithful reader you'll have noticed, for example, that I often speak out against the denigration of mature Asian SPs.
Haymitch wasn't talking about SP's on the clock... I don't think anyone would ever accuse you of being a poor client.

Unpaid social encounters are completely different, and your post has an "undercurrent of disrespect" for the woman who you saw socially, who happens to be an SP.
 

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And obviously if you wanted someone to dress as something as obscure as Boba Fett then it certainly wouldn't be creepy to provide the costume. However asking a girl to dress as Boba Fett could be creepy in and of it's self lol. But to each their own...




..........but is it still creepy if he's dressed as Princess Leia...............?
 
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luvtolick

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I have to agree on bringing things to dress the ladies up is a little creepy. If you have a request just ask I have never had a problem in having them fulfill my request for outfits. Then again I don't ask for crazy freaky shit lol. If you want to bring a present then do it but making them wear it? If you are bringing something maybe request them to wear it the next time. That's how I roll. Just my opinion.
 

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I don't mind critical feedback, though my hope for this thread is that we can keep focused on sharing off-the-clock experiences with SPs among those who care to share.
Indeed, back on topic for me then.

I seek out sp's that I feel I might have more of a social or emotional connection with, I'd rather see someone with a strong mental connection that I'm less physically attracted to, than someone I feel nothing for, who is inexplicably hot. With most encounters the two of us dont have all that much in common, we still have fun of course, but never meet socially.

A few times though, I've found myself meeting with someone who I enjoy hanging around with as a person, or who could use my help in some trivial way, and we end up meeting off the clock. However, I don't like to ask about off the clock encounters, and almost never bring it up even if I feel a connection, because if she is not interested in meeting as friends, just asking to meet could make things really awkward for her as a client/sp.

One underlying theme for all my off the clock encounters is a lack of expectations sexually, whether we are meeting to try out a new restaraunt, attending an event, or practicing accupressure.

The only exception is if we happen to be taking the same courses and get together socially to study or proofread term papers. ;)


Theres not much else to say about my off the clock encounters, its just two people getting together and doing stuff. Pretty boring for a third party to hear about, except maybe the accupressure... I had spent the whole day running around downtown and probably smelled horrible, she never commented though. :p
 

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Isn't the point of seeing SPs to ask for crazy freaky stuff that you might have to look far and wide in your personal life for? I mean if I wanted to dress up like chewbacca and have a girl dress up in a princess leia bikini and then give her a spanking for kissing her brother, I think a sp or someone on the internet is the quickest way to go...
LOL, I dont think you'd have to look far and wide for that. I've lots of female friends who would totally go for something that hilariously awesome.
 

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I'm not sure if I'm the only one who sees through your eloquent words and sees a man who has some real issues with women from this statement alone. But it's not even just this but the way you reference women in your reviews, it's crude and shows an utter lack of respect, but all wrapped up in some pretty words and phrasing so I think most people just don't really notice.

So because I let my date pay my admission to a movie I'm a leech? Good grief.

You are not alone, as you could also see by haymitch's comments.

I agree re: the leech comment. Going dancing was his idea, asking her if she would like to go with him sometime, also his idea. Picking her up, not just meeting her there, his idea. Making her wear blue eyeshadow? Again, his idea.

Assuming she should pay her own way after all that? priceless.
 
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