What you describe is not a tease & denial session. It's kinky sex, undeniably, but not BDSM. If you want a true t&d experience, you need to give complete control to your top to decide if, when and how you have an orgasm.
Sounds like Tease and Delay, or Tease and Deliver. Denile is just a river in Africa. Doesn't do much for me. I like your T&D experience though--nothing like a good cowgirl milking.
