Swing Clubs....

[looking4alady]

Has anyone ever gone to a swing club?

I've been to a couple...and came up dry !!! There are two in my city and one that now allows single males (I heard of it through a yahoo group). They sent out news that this one club now has new ownership and would allow single males.

I get all excited and since it's a Friday night, I thought I would go and check it out. Admission is only $15, so it's not a lot of money spent. I go and there's only about 12 people in attendance.....5 other couples, one other single guy..and me. Needless to say, the couples only want to do couple things....and not include a second guy for their woman. I leave after a few hours of sitting around, talking with nothing happening. They do allow onsite "activities" as they have an upstairs private area.

Just wondering if anybody else in PERB land has tried out a swing club and what their experience has been.....

Looking

 

[curvy_nympho]

Swing clubs

Unfortunately, as a single male, you will always find it hard to find events that allow single men and find people to play with.

I know that when I have attended events in the past, I have to admit that I found single men just hanging around watching a little bit creepy sometimes.

I would advise finding a female play partner (or even just a female friend) to go with you to events. You will be much more well received.

Contrary to what people think, swingers clubs aren't a free for all orgy. (Unless that's what the specific event is!) A lot of people in the "lifestyle" want to make connections as well as have sex.

Don't get me wrong, there are orgies and gang bang situations where single men are welcomed. You will just have to do some research!

Bella

 

[dirtydan]

There are a couple of places in Winnipeg that have co-ed nights, otherwise these are gay bath houses. Been to one twice with a lady friend and the first time was very creepy. We looked around, talked to a few people, sat in the steam room for a bit, and ended up going back to our room by ourselves. The second time we hooked up with a single guy and had a great threesome. No doubt there were other single guys wanting to watch us, but we were more comfortable closing the door. Everything is consentual. No means no.

 

[looking4alady]

The club in question that I went to is in Edmonton.....from talking to people there, it previously allowed only a couple of "select" males on a Friday night..It's now been taken over by new owners and they will be allowing single males on Friday nights. They do have Saturday night parties, but that's only strictly for couples.

 

[necko]

Went to one years ago in Montreal,Went has a couple, the famous Carol Cox was there she sucked a friend of mines cock for about 20 seconds along with about 20 others, and gave my then gf a wicked kiss. My gf said she had penis breath and thought she was all a act. This was in the early 90's and cost then was 50bucks a couple.