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Kamloopsbc

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I have been thinking about this for a couple months already.
But have come to ask you all as a group for suggestions.
How is a good way to word it so that ladies get what i mean, but i don't sound like a pervert?
And where is a good place to start is it Craigslist or BP or..?
And I guess really a third question to, how much is a fair amount to pay for a 4 month trip away.
Obviously I am covering her expenses and not just meals and travel, but activities and tours to. So she would be only paying for things she buys for herself.
The trip would be a great time, and a vacation with fun and adventure, seeing the sights and doing more than just sitting on the yacht screwing.
I'm basically looking for a GF experience from sex to walks on the beach, to exploring towns, tours, lunches in restaurants, kayaking, snorkeling etc.
And can or should i be specific to what type of lady I like, or just have all apply and weed out the ones that don't interest me after.
And say we agree on 60k or whatever it is, would it be half as we are about to leave and pay the other half when the trip is over or..?

Thanks for any advice.
I'm not leaving for a few months but not sure how long it will take to find the right person so plan to start sooner rather than later to look.
 

westwoody

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Hatrick is right!

Picking some from an ad to spend four months with is asking for trouble.
Four months is a very long time. You will need a lot of good chemistry for that long.

You need to stop and think about her needs not just yours. Most ladies do not like being regarded as a pet on a leash, no matter how good your intentions. They need their own freedom and minimum of two hours personal time per day. Your activities might not appeal to her, and she might want to do things you do not. Will you have separate bedrooms? Does she have an exit strategy if she gets sick of you?

I've been on week long trips with ladies I have known for decades and that is about the maximum.
And that was with someone I got along with really well.
 
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^^^Best answer. Thread closed.^^^

But seriously, I would NOT recommend doing this.
 

Cock Throppled

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Echo everyone else. Bad, bad, bad idea.

I traveled for two months through Europe with a life-long friend I grew up with. We ended up hating each other half way through and it ruined the rest of the trip for both of us, and our friendship. We ended up not talking to each other for 7 years. Being together 24 hours a day for four months would kill any relationship, let alone an arranged one.
 

honda761

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Echo everyone else. Bad, bad, bad idea.

I traveled for two months through Europe with a life-long friend I grew up with. We ended up hating each other half way through and it ruined the rest of the trip for both of us, and our friendship. We ended up not talking to each other for 7 years. Being together 24 hours a day for four months would kill any relationship, let alone an arranged one.
Damm! that is why I don't make friends easy or at all. No body can stand me for more than 2 hours.
 

badbadboy

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I have been thinking about this for a couple months already.
But have come to ask you all as a group for suggestions.
How is a good way to word it so that ladies get what i mean, but i don't sound like a pervert?
And where is a good place to start is it Craigslist or BP or..?
And I guess really a third question to, how much is a fair amount to pay for a 4 month trip away.
Obviously I am covering her expenses and not just meals and travel, but activities and tours to. So she would be only paying for things she buys for herself.
The trip would be a great time, and a vacation with fun and adventure, seeing the sights and doing more than just sitting on the yacht screwing.
I'm basically looking for a GF experience from sex to walks on the beach, to exploring towns, tours, lunches in restaurants, kayaking, snorkeling etc.
And can or should i be specific to what type of lady I like, or just have all apply and weed out the ones that don't interest me after.
And say we agree on 60k or whatever it is, would it be half as we are about to leave and pay the other half when the trip is over or..?

Thanks for any advice.
I'm not leaving for a few months but not sure how long it will take to find the right person so plan to start sooner rather than later to look.

I suggest you take baby steps first by going away for a weekend, then longer up to a week or so. You never know, you may find a suitable parter for a four month trip but odds are really against it.

I traveled for nearly two years and came across couples who had been with each other 24/7 for months and some were barely talking to one another. A few couples got along great though. Totally unscientific, flip a coin.

I got to hand it to you considering taking a SP for a four month adventure.
 

papillion

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I suggest you take baby steps first by going away for a weekend, then longer up to a week or so. You never know, you may find a suitable parter for a four month trip but odds are really against it.

I traveled for nearly two years and came across couples who had been with each other 24/7 for months and some were barely talking to one another. A few couples got along great though. Totally unscientific, flip a coin.

I got to hand it to you considering taking a SP for a four month adventure.
BBB has wise words here.
Since the big trip is a few months away, use that ttime take a few girls out for overnights and weekends, find one that's good to travel with.
Then if you can find one who has chemistry, take her for a 1 month trip.
 

JimDandy

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BBB has wise words here.
Since the big trip is a few months away, use that ttime take a few girls out for overnights and weekends, find one that's good to travel with.
Then if you can find one who has chemistry, take her for a 1 month trip.
And whatever you do, when you are taking them out for day trips, weekends, etc, DO NOT tell them you are considering taking them for a 4 month trip. This is likely to influence greatly how they behave with you on the shorter trips. And when you do go on the trip, make sure you see their passport before you give them a dime. Then buy ticket in your name so that if they try to cash it in they don't get the money. And then give them a a small advance (2K at most) and then give them what you agreed to at the end of each week. That way if they decide to exit on you, they can use the 2k you gave them at the beginning to buy a ticket home but don't get to pocket a large sum they have yet to earn.

All of the above is only if you choose to ignore the excellent advice Hatrick gave you.

JD
 

johnsmit

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Your talking relationship .A four month trip is something you would do with done one that you were in a long tern stable relationship. No someone you found in back page or even a dating site and saw a few time .
AND even for some one you know well , no one can be with each other 24 /7 . You each need your own space and time for your self ..
But I will echo the same as everyone that's given advice.Itis not a good idea to take an escort on a 4 month payed excursion. Beside unlikely to end well or even get started,remember they have their own lives and are not going to drop everything just for you

Sounds like you want a girl friend and that takes time and chemistry , not just money .
 

UhOh

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That won't be a very long list to weed through. SP's have lives also, how many girls can just disappear for 4 months?
Is this a serious topic or just a fantasy?
 

Kamloopsbc

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Thanks for the advice from all.
I'm wanting GF ish without the drama and heart ache and BS many GFs like to give.

I will maybe just travel and see what happens.
 

resercher

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I have been thinking about this for a couple months already.
But have come to ask you all as a group for suggestions.
How is a good way to word it so that ladies get what i mean, but i don't sound like a pervert?
And where is a good place to start is it Craigslist or BP or..?
And I guess really a third question to, how much is a fair amount to pay for a 4 month trip away.
Obviously I am covering her expenses and not just meals and travel, but activities and tours to. So she would be only paying for things she buys for herself.
The trip would be a great time, and a vacation with fun and adventure, seeing the sights and doing more than just sitting on the yacht screwing.
I'm basically looking for a GF experience from sex to walks on the beach, to exploring towns, tours, lunches in restaurants, kayaking, snorkeling etc.
And can or should i be specific to what type of lady I like, or just have all apply and weed out the ones that don't interest me after.
And say we agree on 60k or whatever it is, would it be half as we are about to leave and pay the other half when the trip is over or..?

Thanks for any advice.
I'm not leaving for a few months but not sure how long it will take to find the right person so plan to start sooner rather than later to look.



remember reading an advertisement by one escort forget her name who was offering travel packages and to be your traveling partner as well think her all inclusive packages where quite expensive and they where
for a week or so

At about $5000 and she was the one who planned everything

I cant see this as being a good idea. what would your plan be if the woman agreed to your idea. Then you woke up the next day after having paid her the 30000 and she is gone the next day . Even if you tracked her down you most likely could not get your money back . How exactly would you tell for example to a police person .That if she says you where trying to kidnap her and force her in to prostitution . Unfortunately it is very easy even if you have her on a boat for her to suddenly leave. Or she could do things that would make you want to stay away from her like screaming at you for three hours etc.
I read somewhere on this board from a man who did try a similar thing to what you where planning and it was a complete waste of money the women in question had sex with him I think about 3 times in the week and she spent his money on liquor and stayed in the hotel with the door to her adjoining room locked.


When you see an escort you are paying for a service. Part of that service is to put on an look and act that makes you want to go back to see her . Human being's both male and female are consumers of goods and services and producers of waste. Both physical IE shit and other types of waste and psychological personal problems etc. Part of the reason that some escorts are good a Is they know how to hide and get rid of there own waste before you see it . If you are with a person almost 24/7 . You are at some point going to have to see or hear about there personal waste before they have a chance to get rid of it.
 

sevenofnine

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you should be a regular with a lady, so you know where you stand in terms of chemistry and trust between you.
if that is what you want mention it to her from the beginning that you want to travel somewhere down the road.
get to know her and her give her a chance to know you.

like most people say baby steps.

look around there are several ladies and sites that mention travel for weeks or more, they didn't seem cheep to me, but I guess money is not an issue for you, you mentioned four months, its going to be expensive,

if you know a lady and she likes you she might give you a deal if she is interested, but most likely a stranger will not and it will cost you.

but it is doo able

my self an example. me and my long time sp.
I won't go into details, but yes it is quite doable, even for those on a modest budget. like I said, me and my sp have known each other over a decade,

so yes enough said but it is quite doable. for anyone.
but you have to have some chemistry.
 

CanineCowboy

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A few years ago I was seeing an escort regularly for over a year, I was planning on going to a less travelled region in South East Asia to do a six week backpacking trip which would involve both wilderness and rural cultural experiences. While I knew my fitness exceeded hers, I also knew from her past experiences that she was able to rough it and I was ready to slow to her pace if required. When I asked if she would be interested she told me it would cost me $12000 plus expenses for the six weeks, which seemed very reasonable.
I thought we were pretty compatible based on the time we had spent together, but approximately three months before the trip, what I thought was a rather innocent comment enraged her. The stream of abuse I received made me reconsider her companionship for the trip and after I returned from my solo adventure, our relations stopped altogether.

I think I would heed the advice already given and go solo or have a shorter trip. The bedroom is not the right environment to gauge real life compatibility.
 

Kamloopsbc

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Jun 20, 2015
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Thanks again to you all.
I'm reading them all and taking it all into consideration.
If i go ahead with it at all i might ask for say 2 weeks and fly them home from wherever I am then.
If we really clicked andnit was great leave the option open for her to come back later on.
I'm pretty easy to get along with.
Its not roughing it by any means with great meals, nice amenities on board.
Fun stuff to see and do in ports from kayaking and exploring towns, to probably some tours and more.
The crew are nice....and they are discreet to.
 

1nitestan

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Travel alone. Meet exciting foreign women. Fuck. Leave for the next town. Repeat. What could be better?

Or you might meet a woman who's travelling alone and hit it off.
 

Kamloopsbc

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Someone besides crew to go explore towns, kayak, hangout with was the bonus on top of just sex.
But the fact is you guys are probably right.
If she is grumpy or nutso, its not going to be fun.
 

1nitestan

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^ Get to know a crew member and have him/her be your wingman. Those guys/gals probably know the good places to meet people anyway.
 
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