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hossa81

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Has anyone had experience with both? I feel like a sugar baby might be cheaper and you might get a better selection of younger girls/prettier girls than you would with SP because of the "taboo" around being an SP. Whereas sex isn't guaranteed with a sugar baby, I'm sure most "relationships" have it heavily implied in their first meeting.

Curious to see your guys thoughts on this? I know SeekingArrangement is a popular site in Vancouver for it.
 

hossa81

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Thanks for the advice guys. I think I''ll try finding a SB for $300-400 for a couple hour 'hangout' and see if I am charming enough to smash hahah
 

wintersurfer

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Has anyone had experience with both? I feel like a sugar baby might be cheaper and you might get a better selection of younger girls/prettier girls than you would with SP because of the "taboo" around being an SP. Whereas sex isn't guaranteed with a sugar baby, I'm sure most "relationships" have it heavily implied in their first meeting.

Curious to see your guys thoughts on this? I know SeekingArrangement is a popular site in Vancouver for it.
For me the amount I was spending per month was similar either way, the main difference was with a “SB” there is more social time (I was seeing 3 and had sex with each by date 2), I wouldn’t say one is better than the other...
 

Edward Lei

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Since most of the comments are coming from those that have experience in both pools, most of the responses have been a bit misleading. For one, on a per date basis with the end goal being to "smash" said lady, SBs are almost always MORE expensive than the typical SP on LL. And if you develop a connection and see a SB long term, there will be other associated costs like dinners, drinks, occasional gifts and the obligatory, "I'm a little short this month for XYZ, can you help Daddy?"

Yes, if you consider the social time aspect of a SB date then it would be "cheaper" as most aren't charging by the hour like a pro SP would. But seriously, why would you pay to have dinner with an SP when all you want to do is fuck? Pro SPs charge anywhere from 250 - 350 per hour with the lower end and amateurs going as low as 150 for a wham, bam, thank you in 30 mins or less. But for SBs, the going rate is between 300 - 500 per date plus dinner/drinks, etc. if you both agree to go that route. Keep in mind, there are plenty of SPs masquerading as SBs on most of these sugar dating sites. It used to be more clear cut but nowadays, the lines have been blurred.

In the end, I'd have to agree with wintersurfer, one isn't better than the other. Just different strokes for different folks. Just make sure you have plenty of paper in your wallet.
 

Addison Cortez

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I get paid just to go to dinner....as an SP.....also get things as a SB

definitely is about different strokes for different folks
 

wintersurfer

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One month I kept track of what I was spending via the “SB” dates (everything included), I had dates with “SP’s” usually 15-20x per month 1.5-4hrs and similar amount of dates with “SB’s” (way more hrs though), the difference in cash spent was less than $1000...
 

Edward Lei

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One month I kept track of what I was spending via the “SB” dates (everything included), I had dates with “SP’s” usually 15-20x per month 1.5-4hrs and similar amount of dates with “SB’s” (way more hrs though), the difference in cash spent was less than $1000...
Good for you but the majority of pooners on here aren't pooning 15-20 times a month. You're not exactly what I would call representative of the general pooner population. Most ppl on here aren't even spending $1000 per month on pooning!
 

wintersurfer

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Good for you but the majority of pooners on here aren't pooning 15-20 times a month. You're not exactly what I would call representative of the general pooner population. Most ppl on here aren't even spending $1000 per month on pooning!
If guys aren’t spending more than $1000 per month, the “SB” world prob isn’t a good fit, the girls I was seeing weren’t interested in a 1 off date or “pay as you go” long term (but I am no expert)...
 

hossa81

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If guys aren’t spending more than $1000 per month, the “SB” world prob isn’t a good fit, the girls I was seeing weren’t interested in a 1 off date or “pay as you go” long term (but I am no expert)...
I agree with this. Most girls want $300-500 multiple times a month. Would be hard finding a $300-500 for a once of month type arrangement, unless you are good looking...
 

wintersurfer

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I agree with this. Most girls want $300-500 multiple times a month. Would be hard finding a $300-500 for a once of month type arrangement, unless you are good looking...
I don’t think “looks” has anything to do with it, most are looking for financial help/independence or extra spending cash...
 

Edward Lei

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If guys aren’t spending more than $1000 per month, the “SB” world prob isn’t a good fit, the girls I was seeing weren’t interested in a 1 off date or “pay as you go” long term (but I am no expert)...
I totally agree which is why I chimed in. The SB world simply doesn't work for MOST pooners. Only those that are willing to spend and most aren't willing/able to spend 5K and up on pooning. I have to disagree with your second assessment though - plenty of SBs willingly do long term PPM.
 

wintersurfer

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I totally agree which is why I chimed in. The SB world simply doesn't work for MOST pooners. Only those that are willing to spend and most aren't willing/able to spend 5K and up on pooning. I have to disagree with your second assessment though - plenty of SBs willingly do long term PPM.
Ya there most likely is, I only saw 3 then deleted my profile
 

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Interesting topic.

I gotta ask, since I haven't had any experience in this field of "fun", Sugarbaby.
Whats the difference between a sugar baby and a sugar daddy?
Doesn't a sugar daddy do the same thing paying a girl for fun, frolic, help her out with bills, etc?

Thanks.





......................QM'r
 

Edward Lei

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I agree with this. Most girls want $300-500 multiple times a month. Would be hard finding a $300-500 for a once of month type arrangement, unless you are good looking...
Not every SB expects it but I'm sure it's definitely appreciated so long as there's some level of chemistry. Every pooner wants to believe looks aren't important but it always is. Everything matters - how much you spend on her, how old you are, how attractive/unattractive you are, your living situation, even what car you drive. You're paying hard earned cash for an attractive girl to bang and spend time with so she'll be doing the same in assessing her options.
 

wintersurfer

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Most girls prob wouldn’t be into dinner at Joe Fortes with “Jed Clampett”, so looks in a social setting prob do come into play...
 

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Whats the difference between a sugar baby and a sugar daddy?

Sugar-daddy pays.

Sugar-baby plays.

You're basically paying to be in a relationship with a high-maintenance girlfriend.

Just bypassing the usual courting processes of being a potential suitor by throwing money at the typical hurdles.
 

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Whats the difference between a sugar baby and a sugar daddy?

Sugar-daddy pays.

Sugar-baby plays.

You're basically paying to be in a relationship with a high-maintenance girlfriend.

Just bypassing the usual courting processes of being a potential suitor by throwing money at the typical hurdles.
A perfect explanation.

The worst thing for a SB relationship is your SB might spend your hard earned money with her pimps or boyfriend!
 
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