Stray thoughts of a travelling hobbyist

[tantalizeme]

The following are some uncensored thoughts from my vacation diary. If you`re not interested, please ignore this post.

Jotting down such observations was part of my way of trying to keep my wits about me on the "battlefront"—to get perspective, to deal with pitfalls and anxieties, and to draw some useful lessons. I hope a few brothers may find them useful too.

I`m in the process of reviewing my vacation poons in another thread. https://perb.cc/vbulletin/showthrea...travel-report-2012-Savoring-the-spice-of-life Of course, this kind of thread gets far too long to have many readers.

But I find it fun to write, and sharing my experience may encourage the occasional homebody here to get off his butt and go pooning abroad.

1. It`s hot in HK even in November. The streets are crawling with scantily-clad hotties packing impressive sexual capital, without seeming to know it. Amazing how in HK, even the most virginal of schoolgirls often wear outfits ending right near their crotch and revealing the lower rim of their buttocks. I find most Chinese ladies (below a certain age) have sufficient erotic appeal to make me want to have sex with them.

2. I also see lots of Western tourists around—mostly Caucasian couples, but also surprisingly many Western women in groups or alone. More often than not, as they plough through HK crowds, their faces are contorted with stress.

As a travelling hobbyist, I experience HK very differently from run-of-the-mill tourists. For the non-pooning tourist, HK`s greatest attraction is probably the fabulous food. Tourist guidebooks are filled with restaurant recommendations. Indeed, for those who haven`t cultivated a high degree of eroticism, food usually becomes life`s most important pleasure.

3. But here, by contrast, am I—experiencing endless bliss in a city so rich in erotic possibilities. Here I am, tapping into a huge pool of eager hotties for $20—$60 a pop. Here I can give myself over to sensuous impulses without worries about going broke. It`s quite a different feeling when the limiting factor for sex isn`t my wallet but only my desire. I always enjoy sex vastly less if it costs me a lot.

4. I find I can enjoy both sweetly bashful newbie SPs and hardboiled hooker-types. Sex with these stunning lovelies is by far life`s sweetest treat for this former altar boy. It amazes me to no end how readily a minor sum of money unlocks the gate to all those treasures even for an older guy—where romantic seduction efforts would be utterly hopeless.

5. When I ask Thai or Chinese SPs why they`re doing this job, I keep hearing the same reasons: paying medical bills for a sick mum or dad; and the goal of owning real estate. Decent housing in Asian cities tends to be insanely expensive relative to median income levels—a huge motivation for pretty women to enter the field of sex-for-pay.

 

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Stray thoughts of a travelling hobbyist, Part II

6. I definitely prefer cheap SPs who deliver the goods without fuss. I like it when sex is easy to come by, free from needless drama. Anything that complicates or mystifies the process of getting laid puts me off.

That's the way I like to spend my modest resources: on getting laid, economically, with a never-ending variety of hotties. I should definitely plan to retire in a place where cheap sex is not in short supply.

7. I've certain strengths as a pooner. I project a friendly, cheerful, communicative persona. I find a wide range of female faces and body types attractive. And I can reliably mobilize passion, which many SPs seem to find contagious.

8. Because of the availability of affordable sex with young hotties here, it has almost come to seem as no more of a big deal than my daily cup of coffee. As a result, I've even had a few motivational lapses recently: golden opportunities to poon, but my mood just wasn't right. Perhaps it's actually healthy to lose some of my obsessive interest in sex so I can move on to other pursuits.

9. Absolutely staggering, the quantity of play-for-pay available on HK's Kowloon peninsula. But it can be maddening when I see all these Chinese signs—and websites—evidently advertising juicy possibilities. Someone who can't read Chinese characters is obviously able to access only a fraction of these possibilities.

For example, I live near a highrise called "Fun City" with a karaoke brothel on almost every floor. Stepping out of the elevator and trying to make things happen, with my non-existent Cantonese and limited Mandarin, seems discouragingly awkward. I also fear I'll be ripped off and charged a foreigner premium.

10. But the most common pitfall for Westerners wanting to cavort with local SPs aren't outright ripoffs. In my experience, the main problem is that, due to the language barrier—and because of anxieties about being with a big hairy white guy—these girls tend to make only a minimal effort, and an encounter easily degenerates into a rushed, soulless, slightly awkward unloading.

 

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Stray thoughts of a travelling hobbyist, Part III

11. My role model Thommo describes Chinese SPs as "flat," compared to Filipinas and Thais. Indeed, practically all my Chinese Indy SPs in walk-ups and from the street—and even some brothel girls—delivered rather shoddy service, rightly thinking a "gwailo" (foreign devil) like myself was highly unlikely ever to return.

I see only one way around this pitfall. Avoid Chinese Indies and go only to establishments with a manager that has a vested interest in seeing a customer return and see different girls. That's in large part why K-pressure is successful: the mamasan asks each customer at the end whether he is satisfied with the service he got.

12. That's also why most SWs and sex141 girls deliver shoddy service, often at inflated prices: they're not accountable to anyone. After a dozen disappointing tries, I won't patronize SWs or walk-ups any more. These girls don't seem to understand that one SP's bad service will likely make other SPs of the same type lose business in the future.

13. There're essentially 3 types of SPs, and usually I can identify quickly which type I'm dealing with. There're many who don't like sex with strangers but need money badly enough to do it anyway.

There're others—possibly the majority—that don't really mind sex with a clean, polite stranger like myself. And then there're a few that positively enjoy sex with someone like me, who takes an interest in their pleasure as well.

14. It's the first time I brought my vibrator along on an overseas trip. And sure enough, it often became the magic ingredient for receiving great service. A vibrator can arouse a woman the way a tongue cannot, and frankly I don't always feel like diving down into those bushes.

Whether an SP agrees to use my vibrator—and succeeds to arouse herself with it—is almost a sure sign of whether she'll turn out to be a quality lay.

15. Would I recommend HK or China as a pooning destination? Yes and no.

Yes—because erotic offerings abound.

But if you're a budget pooner or if you don't speak any Chinese, then probably no. High-quality service is scarcer in HK and China than what exists in the Philippines or Thailand. Add the fact that most SPs here aren't that cheap and scams are quite common. And very few of the more budget-friendly SPs speak much English.

Personally, if I didn't like HK and China for other reasons, I'd probably practice this hobby elsewhere in Asia.

Another issue in all Chinese cities—in spite of impressive pockets of glitz—is the crowded squalor, the constant roar of traffic, and especially the sooty air. I clearly wouldn't want to stay permanently in such a badly polluted place.

Sometimes this jam-packed, noisy, frenetic, environmentally degraded monster country strikes me as one gigantic insane asylum, albeit one blessed with more than its share of beautiful women. But the best pussy in the world can't compensate for air that's unfit to breathe.

 

[lenny]

15. Would I recommend HK or China as a pooning destination? Yes and no.

Yes—because erotic offerings abound.

But if you're a budget pooner or if you don't speak any Chinese, then probably no. High-quality service is scarcer in HK and China than what exists in the Philippines or Thailand. Add the fact that most SPs here aren't that cheap and scams are quite common. And very few of the more budget-friendly SPs speak much English.

Personally, if I didn't like HK and China for other reasons, I'd probably practice this hobby elsewhere in Asia.

Another issue in all Chinese cities—in spite of impressive pockets of glitz—is the crowded squalor, the constant roar of traffic, and especially the sooty air. I clearly wouldn't want to stay permanently in such a badly polluted place.

Sometimes this jam-packed, noisy, frenetic, environmentally degraded monster country strikes me as one gigantic insane asylum, albeit one blessed with more than its share of beautiful women. But the best pussy in the world can't compensate for air that's unfit to breathe.

I am quite curious as to what these "other reasons" would be, as almost all your points point to PI or Siam as preferable destinations.

The following was recently posted in the General section of ISG's Thailand forum re preferred retirement destinations:

Its interesting that you like Hong Kong. I really hated it 30 years ago and never wanted to return. It has awful culture or lack of it. Rubbish everywhere, everyone in such a hurry pushing and shoving, and very curt when speaking, or just plain rude. Gun fights in the streets not considered too strange.

What a contrast Singapore is, or even Thailand for that matter.

Hong Kong would be last on my list. I just don't like the attitudes of the people there.

 

[Sucre]

I am pleased to read of your adventures and observations. Thank you for sharing
I had been to Hong Kong myself a few years back and saw a few girls around temple market area, apparently independent at $500 to $700 HK dollars and every experience was good, and their attitudes were good, so I guess there are exceptions to every rule. Of course I never saw any establishments with a manager as you reccommend as I feared they would be less interested in service; so maybe next time