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Saraphina said:
sweet yummy gooeyness inside
I've been thinking of a pithy yet tactful reply to that but am drawing a blank.....so I'll have to leave it with just a sincere thanks :)

As for the beer, I'll let you know when I'm back in lotus land.
 

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Cock Throppled said:
I think things will work out for everyone, we just have to believe. Warm thoughts to all our brothers and sisters.
hommmmmmmmm - although it remains to be seen whether Perb will see fewer of the "this fucktard needs to be culled" type threads
 

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OTBn said:
needs to be culled
There are some people (i.e. child molesters, rapists, serial offenders, etc.) who simply need to have their hall pass revoked. How in the holy fuck can you defend them?


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Ta' hell with tact, talk dirty to me baby!!!:D
I'll see if I can put my finger on something ;)
 

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gravitas said:
There are some people (i.e. child molesters, rapists, serial offenders, etc.) who simply need to have their hall pass revoked. How in the holy fuck can you defend them?
Let’s be clear – are you talking about the assorted accused perpetrators before they’ve been given their due process, or just your general broad stroke culling call?
 

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totally feel for the people from that building in surrey thats for sure but to get back to the topic of donor fatigue, what the hell is up with the people on the street that ask "do you have time for amnesty int.?" or "do you have time for the bcspca?" or "do you have time for green peace?".

like what the fuck is up with that shit. all of those organizations do work that i support and i'm glad that they exist but i mean c'mon. if i'm walking on the street i'm walking with a purpose. i'm going to work or i'm meeting a friend or i'm late for something and don't have time.

don't fucking bug me on the street and make me feel guilty for not giving you my credit card number on the street so you can take monthly donations off of it. i actually did have time one day before i started working 7 days a week, and took the time to talk to one of these people cause like i said i am interrested and support an organization such as amnesty and i was going to make a donation but they can't accept cash, so fuck it.

when i'm walking on the street late for something or going somewhere don't bug me cause no i don't have time for whatever and this is coming from a self professed liberal person.
 

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OTBn said:
before they’ve been given their due process
No, everyone (even the most loathsome fuckers like pickton) need to be afforded legitimate due process with the courts. My complaint with our judicial system is that the judges have stopped judging and rather have started to define the laws with their interpretation of sentencing guidelines. If there's only one change that could be made it would be give the electorate the right of judicial recall.


OTBn said:
just your general broad stroke culling call?
As much as I may occasionally rant about how we need to flush a huge number of our planet-mates its purely conjecture. In reality I'm solely indifferent to 99% of the population and don't wish them anything good, bad or otherwise.


smackyo said:
totally feel for the people from that building in surrey thats for sure but to get back to the topic of donor fatigue, what the hell is up with the people on the street that ask "do you have time for amnesty int.?" or "do you have time for the bcspca?" or "do you have time for green peace?".
we're practically the same! ;)
 

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imrokhaard said:
The thing that is so nauseating when you hear well-to-do people take this position is that they feel that they achieved their position soley out of their own hard work, smarts, etc. without benefit from the social systems (and our Canadian society as a whole) in place. Its as if they believe they got to where they are in a vacuum with no help from anyone.

Make no mistake. These social systems that are in place benefit the wealthy FAR MORE than they do the poor.
Bullshit they do. 90% of them I do not qualify for based on income. Those few that I do, are rated down so that if I TRULY was dependent on them I would self adjust my income to get the most benefit.

imrokhaard said:
There is far more than "welfare" in our social systems. Courts, Canadian law and legal systems. Government hard and soft infrastructure systems. School and university systems.
Bullshit again. The ONLY place I use more than those on 'welfare' is the roads. And even then, looking back to when I was 12 and 13 years old and delivering newspapers, I remember that a lot of my subscribers who were on welfare had new vehicles and entertainment systems, and it was the kids who had to make do with less than ideal clothing, especally in winter, and it was the newspaper bill that did not get paid, never the cable TV bill.

imrokhaard said:
It translates and leverages to exponentially higher than 1/10th in wealth differential while the poor go further and further into that bottomless pit called debt - debt which, of course, is also owed to the wealthy.
Flat out lying bullshit. Are you truly that stupid? No one HAS to go into debt, no matter what they earn. I spent 5 years working for 20k a year and I emerged from that LESS in debt than I started. Give yourself a slap for achieving new heights in monumental stupidity.

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gravitas said:
As much as I may occasionally rant about how we need to flush a huge number of our planet-mates its purely conjecture. In reality I'm solely indifferent to 99% of the population and don't wish them anything good, bad or otherwise.
Thanks - now, all we need is some way to decipher the 1% of your posts where you really mean it :D
 

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jjinvan said:
I made a post a while ago explaining why we had welfare and how it benefited the rich but no one took me seriously.

I'll spell it out again here, shorter and more to the point:

If we didn't have welfare, all those people who don't want to work for stuff and feel entitled would be beating up rich people and stealing their stuff. Welfare at least discourages some of them (unfortunately not all) from stealing shit.

It's like a bribe, if they are less hungry or cold or whatever, they will be less desperate and less likely to kill you to steal your wallet.
As long as we have cable TV, the rich are completely safe.

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TheRater said:
Flat out lying bullshit. Are you truly that stupid? No one HAS to go into debt, no matter what they earn. I spent 5 years working for 20k a year and I emerged from that LESS in debt than I started. Give yourself a slap for achieving new heights in monumental stupidity.

- TR
Why is an opinion a lie? Whether anyone "needs" to go into debt... thousands do... and the disproportionate number that typically follow the debt spiral are not "the rich".
 

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OTBn said:
Why is an opinion a lie? Whether anyone "needs" to go into debt... thousands do... and the disproportionate number that typically follow the debt spiral are not "the rich".
It was not expressed as an opinion. It was expressed as "the rich get richer and the poor get deeper in debt." Just because people CHOOSE to be mindless spending drones has nothing to do with income. And if you actually follow the math, the most heavily in debt are the 'middle class' or do we have to redefine them again since it is so unfair that not everyone makes 100k a year without getting off their ass to earn it?

- TR

P.S. The above reply is not directed at you personally, just at the mindset a few people have expressed that any disparity in wealth is somehow wrong.
 

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Wow , what a thread. I guess Christmas is officially over and we can go back to being the stingy, mean bastards we are 51 weeks a year.

The problem most of us have with charity is the huge rip offs that occur and the bloodsuckers who prey on the good will and charity of others when they do not need it.

I know very little about the specific incident that touched off LK, but it sure sounds like there was some innocent victims in the building and maybe even children who by default are innocent victims.

For any incident of this nature society needs to have a 2 part response.

The first part is immediate assistance to help those who need it and deserve it. It is very difficult to identify those who need it and deserve it without delaying a response, so I am prepared to see half of the relief or assistance provided go to waste.

The second part is longer term assistance to give the person an opportunity to get themselves back on there feet. To me that is not handing out huge amounts of cash (i.e. 9/11 victims), it is tailoring the response to meet each individuals needs. So if a mechanic lost his tools, they should receive help in getting their tools back so they can go back to work. An interest free loan may be the appropriate response.

For me the big challenge is the vehicle that delivers this response.

The Red Cross and Sally Ann seem to be very efficient at the immediate response and I gave last year to both of those organizations.

The big hole is the delivery vehicle for the long term response. I know it is not government, I also paid a significant amount of payroll taxes last year, nothing that approaches LKs contribution, but significant. I do not believe more than a few dollars went to an effective program for long term assistance ( a hand up, not a hand out).

I think a major failure of our society is our lack of an organization that effectively provides opportunity to help people down and out get back on their feet.
 

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imrokhaard said:
Well, I suppose if you were so dim as to believe that the only benefits people receive from a social system are those that send you a cheque directly, then I can see your point.

What your stunning ignorance clearly demonstrates is that you refuse to acknowledge that there are tremendous subsidies (either direct subsidies, or indirectly through government infrastructure and programs, legal systems, etc.) enjoyed by the business community that protects their interests and is supported off the backs of the taxpayer - benefits not enjoyed by those that don't have the means or ability to take advantage of them.



No...you probably wouldn't know what benefits you recieve from our systems because you apparently don't have the cognitive ability to recognize that simply receiving a cheque from the government isn't the only means of being supported by them.



"Flat out lying bullshit" huh?!? You truly live in a world with rose-coloured glasses where everything goes according to plan and every decision made is a good one.

So what were the circumstances when you earned 20K per year and emerged in LESS debt than when you started?

Were you single? Living at home? You said you had debt - what was your monthly obligation?

20K per year = $1666/mth
after tax - what, maybe $1300/mth

Rent in Vancouver = $500/mth
Food/supplies = $300/mth
Car/transportation = $200/mth
Other - in general = $100 - $200/mth
Debt??? = remainder

But then what happens if you earn $20k per year as a single mom, and you have 2 children???

Rent goes up to $800 to $1000/mth
Food at least doubles
Add daycare
and it keeps adding up and up and up.

"Don't have to go in debt no matter what they earn"? Well, since I'm "monumentally stupid" and you're the rocket scientist, please tell me how the single parent earning minimum wage gets by?

NOT EVERYONE HAS THE SAME GOOD FORTUNE AS US. I SHOULD BE GIVING YOU A "SLAP" FOR FAILING YOUR GRADE 8 MATH CLASS!
i see the point you are making and agree with it but just to let you know, i was looking for a new place last summer and i was hard pressed to find anything for under $800 a month and those were bachelors and if lucky one bedrooms.

this was if you were in east van or west side. the neighborhood hardly makes a difference anymore its pretty much the same price across the board.
 

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I must be on some kind of list too. I was overwhelmed this past week by these charity cash calls. In the beginning, I was politely telling them that I had already reached my annual budget for charitable donations which I had. Then some of them start laying on the guilt trip. By mid week, I was telling them that I had taken a vow of poverty and that I had nothing to give. By the end of the week, I was screaming for them to leave me the fuck alone as well.

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Homeless people uses the streets the most as they live on them and all. So they should pay the most taxes according to your made in an ivory tower user pay theory?:rolleyes: Please!


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imrokhaard said:
Oh please. How quickly are they going to wear those six blocks of sidewalk on East Hastings out with their running shoes? When is the last time you saw a complete revamping of the downtown sidewalks anyways?

And guess what - when's the last time you looked at the downtown core and noticed no one walking on those sidewalks during the weekday? Funny thing - they do go relatively quiet when 6:00pm rolls around.

Its not the same as running 18 wheelers on our roads. I don't see the homeless traipsing up and down the Lions Gate Bridge or through the Massey Tunnel every day.

And this isn't necessarily about the homeless - although I know you like to distract from the real issue and focus in on the less relevant ones.

Get a grip.
So now we are talking about who causes the most wear and tear for the roads? That is different than who uses the road the most. I am not distracting the real issue but rather pointing out the glaring cracks in your lovely theory.

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imrokhaard said:
I believe that those that use our systems should be paying for it in the proportions that they use it.
So your 'poor' should be paying more than they are right? Because the numbers do not support your point of view. The 'wealthy' pay for 90% of the social institutions, and use less than 10% of them, by taxes. Remind me again what circular argument you used to get here?

imrokhaard said:
So what were the circumstances when you earned 20K per year and emerged in LESS debt than when you started?

Were you single? Living at home? You said you had debt - what was your monthly obligation?
Single, living on my own in an 'economy' single room apartment for $450 a month. Food (no alcohol, no smokes, nothing but essentials) 200$ a month. Bus pass 45$ a month. Other expenses, 100$ a month. Total - 800$ a month. Sure it was not a great life, but I was paying off 600$ a month or so in debt.

imrokhaard said:
But then what happens if you earn $20k per year as a single mom, and you have 2 children???

Rent goes up to $800 to $1000/mth
Food at least doubles
Add daycare
and it keeps adding up and up and up.
Not my issue in any way. I am not responsible for others inability to make good decisions. Just because you CAN breed, does not make it the rest of societies responsibility to support you because you (and, optionally) your s/o decide to spawn without a clue as to what it is going to do to your life.

imrokhaard said:
"Don't have to go in debt no matter what they earn"? Well, since I'm "monumentally stupid" and you're the rocket scientist, please tell me how the single parent earning minimum wage gets by?
Read above. Not my responsibility to bail others out when they do something like that. Now, you PROVE why a new color TV and a new car are REQUIREMENTS for people and then maybe I might have more sympathy for your complaint on debt.

imrokhaard said:
NOT EVERYONE HAS THE SAME GOOD FORTUNE AS US. I SHOULD BE GIVING YOU A "SLAP" FOR FAILING YOUR GRADE 8 MATH CLASS!
Now don't you feel stupid for jumping to conclusions like that? Hard work and a refusal to go into debt is now 'good luck' and that same failing to spend like a wastrel is also 'good luck' ... have you even read anything anyone has posted or are you just complaining and trying to come up with more ways to say 'I am entitled to my entitlements and all the proof in the world won't change my mind, now give me more money!" ?

- TR
 

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imrokhaard said:
But let's get real. Our businesses are subsidised immensely
Replace 'are subsidized' with 'are paid for by taxes, direct and indirect' and then you are closer to the truth. And until you are a business owner with a successful business, you have no idead how much you do pay.

- TR
 

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imrokhaard said:
No...the glaring cracks are in your logic. Use of an asset, in financial terms, is typically determined by what causes the depreciation of the hard asset through the use of it.

Read a little.

The rate you would charge a pedestrian would be infinitely less than what you would charge the petroleum tanker truck using the road.
Get the theoretical bullshit out of your ass, will you? Occupation/possession of an asset also typically determines usage. As for reading a little, I am passed that economic 101 bullshit that you hold so near and dear.

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