Stop it with this "Alpha Male" crap

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Yeah I agree yet I've made a mental note that I'm gonna work on my sassy, snappy combacks when CharleeBeckett's in the room. ??
You may want to change your sassy, snappy comebacks to Charlee, now that she has turned into a male alpha.

Unless you want to come in her back.. :giggle:
 

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What a great business decision, Charlee.

I'm sure that the long lineups at your incall will develop very soon. :).
Meh, I'm more about quality over quantity.
And I do have lineups of providers...you should see the list of babes I've bedded lol
Almost 50% of my bookings are duos.
 
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Alpha males, pfft don't get me started. Most who think they are, really are just displaying boorish manners, insecurities and disrespect. I am often assumed to be some kind of wimp, because of my small stature, genteel manners and general respectful demeanor. My best friend (a woman) took me to a house party, before the pandemic. It was one of those (weird) parties where the wives and girlfriends congregated in one room and the men sat around the "testosterone table" and traded stories. I was quickly labeled as gay (bwahahaha) and asked if I would like to join the ladies....idiots. Of course I did, I love women. I had a fantastic night.
 

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Don't call me baby. It's rude and inappropriate to address a Domme with a pet name.
Saw this coming, from a mile away. I try to avoid pet names, but sometimes a "my dear" does slip out...bad habit, but hard to break.
 

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I'm bored, I feel like writing.....don't take all this stuff too seriously, just random thoughts to this topic.....

To begin with the first post of this thread:

It's hard to take anything from "the Guardian" seriously, since this is the type of "news" outlet who purposely downplays Muslim Grooming Gangs in the UK, for the sake of promoting pro-mass-immigration and forced racial equity. Basically, the Guardian is the Fox News of (far far far extreme) Leftists. This is a 2016 article, published before the US election, serves as more of a slander piece against Trump because someone somewhere said he was an "Alpha Male" during the campaign. Then the article continues on with hazy generalizations about what being an Alpha in animals really means, in order to gain some sort of intellectual pedestal over the "male patriarchy" or "toxic masculinity", who may agree with Trump's so-called Alpha status; or whatever other nefarious social or political reasons there are. The article itself is hard to read, because I thought the entire premise was supposed to explain "how the "Alpha Male" doesn't exist within the human species", but it only amounts to a lot of "maybe this and maybe that" and that "humans are too complex to say whether or not they do exist", but because we don't act like animals in that realm, how can those attributes apply to human males?... the concept is rather simple, and not so complicated.

The fact of the matter is, "Alpha Males" do exist; but like Ms. Hunter said in the other thread and here, "they are exceedingly rare". And like masterblaster saying too, "it's laughable" that Trump would consider himself to be an Alpha Male, when he's so far removed from what an Alpha is. The term itself is more of social construct that categories a male's self-worth and self-esteem toward their own peers, and when you lurk on the internet for long periods of time you sort of gain an idea of how the hierarchy of men works....(again, don't take this too seriously)

The Hierarchy of internet buzzwords in relation to being "men":

4) Alpha
3) Chad
2) Normies
1) Beta
0) Incel
-1) Soy-boy
-2) Cuck
-3) Simp

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4) Alpha's have the 3 B's working for them:

a) Brains - good intelligence, good manners, good confidence and a good soul. Respect for all. Humble about his stature, and never being a douche-bag about it.... "Smarts 10/10"
b) Body - good shape, good health, and good strength, eats well, "my body's a temple" type, able to defend himself if needed, but if smart, never attacks .... "Body 10/10"
c) Bank - good life prospects, makes at least 6 figures, owns house, zero debt, able supporter for a potential mate...... "Wealth 10/10"

One must rank high on all 3 Bs in order to be an Alpha Male.

Self-esteem is a non-issue, because getting a girls' attention is already effortless, since you'll already have her attention when you walk into the room. In fact, by achieving peak "manhood", the burden lands on the woman to step up her hypergamy in order to win him over.

Celebrity examples: Brad Pitt, Henry Cavill, Sean Bean.... (Seriously, Sean Bean took a knife to the gut trying to defend a woman at pub from a gang of drunk thugs)

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3) Chads are less than Alphas, because they can only carry ONE of these "B" aspects to 10/10, but cannot for the rest. Failing at a "B" doesn't mean going from one extreme to the other, it's just that one "B" you're good at is your only redeeming quality.

a) They can be rich, but are ugly and a bit of a douche; like a middle-aged balding fat lawyer. ...Brains 7/10, Body 1/10, Bank 10/10
b) Sexy but broke and dumb; a mid-20s unemployed construction worker with wash-board abs who'd rather wait for the EI to run out before going back to work or finding a different sustainable trade. ...Brains 1/10, Body 10/10, Bank 4/10 (higher when he works).
c) Smart, but homely and living in debt; like an ambitious college kid working at Wal-Mart and living on student loans to pay tuition. ...Brains 10/10, Body 5/10, Bank -10/10...

Being a Chad is harder sell toward the ladies than it is for Alphas, because they have to push their one "B" quality front and center at all times. That one B is often the source of their self-esteem...but sometimes that's enough for women.

Celebrity examples: Trump would fit into this category as a "Bank-Chad" who basically had to pay his way through life and his trophy wife with his inherent wealth; otherwise he'd be too ugly and stupid to do it on his own.

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2) Normies are those who see themselves outside this surface level hierarchy game, as they don't care about how the game is played as they feel centered and at peace with their strengths and shortcomings. However, it's a razor-thin edge to stand on, as vanity always plays it's part within the psyche, when focusing on their own strengths often find themselves subject to ranking one of their three Bs. Often time showing confidence in one B lands them in Chad status anyways....but then again, you thought they weren't playing this game in the first place?

However girls do like men with confidence and self-esteem, and generally that places them in the "fuckable" category, but would easily be overshadowed if a Chad or Alpha enters the room.

Examples: Myself...(again, personal experience)

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1) Betas have varying degrees yet to be fleshed out. But the main point is that its a struggle for these people to get 10/10 on any one of the 3 "Bs". Like Normies, but with less self-esteem working for them. However to their credit they still "punch within their weight-class" when searching for the ladies so to speak, so landing a girl within their lifetime is not impossible as long as they stick to the traditional and conventional means of getting with a girl, and not shoot for the 'unobtainable girl' like Incels do.

Example: Comic Book guy from "the Simpsons"...?

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0) Incels rank with "zero" because despite their inability to get with a girl at all, they still believe in traditional methods for garnering a girl's attention. Unlike the lower rankings below, "true" Incels won't compromise themselves to get with a girl. Even if prostitution is the answer, they believe they are still entitled to an answer when asking for the time from a girl. Except, beyond that, they have no definable qualities to retain a girl's attention no matter their own ranking. So forever, Incels are stuck in purgatory, constantly in a state of mental unraveling; trying to figure out women, while never adapting themselves....until they snap.

Examples: ...read the news....
 

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As we get into negative rankings, the re-occuring theme is that these "men" sacrifice parts of their self-esteem (and themselves overall) further away from being "Alpha Male" in desperate attempts to get with a girl.

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-1) Soy-boy pretends to be an Alpha male, which is a start, but as opposed to being the best they could be an Alpha or Chad, they start to compromise too much of themselves in order to get with women. They'll adopt ridiculous identity politics and other SJW lost causes in order to make themselves appealing for other sexes. Take the myth of the "male feminist" for example, those who are willing to sacrifice their male psyche and identity in order to identify with women better; which amounts to "maybe she will let me see her boob if I tell her I read Margret Atwood and march in Pro-choice rallies?"....or believing that linked Guardian article and applying it to themselves.

Examples: ...watch Youtube... *to see examples of what a soy-boy is, but not fall down the rabbit-hole algorithm until you start noticing a man-bun on your head....

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-2) Cucks... Like Soy-boys, we start seeing men compromise more than their gender politics. The fact that in order to keep the relationship alive, or exist at all is at the expense of allowing their female partner to fuck other men, most times right in front of you. Even though the word "cuck" comes from sexual fetishes of "cuckolding", however the meaning has transcended to representing one's state of self-esteem outside the sexual arena. That you're willing to hold back and never do anything for yourself in order to empower their position in a relationship where only the other partner has benefited. But at least you can say they have a relationship, unlike a "simp"....

Examples: ... ever see a pussy-whipped husband shopping with his "Karen-style" wife at the mall?

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-3) Simps.... whereas Soyboys and Cucks are about sacrificing their souls and station to get into relationships with women, a Simp goes further and starts giving up on material possessions and/or money for the mere privilege of breathing the same air as a girl within her personal space. And the girl would not reciprocate because she knows she has him wrapped around her finger. Even in webcam sites, (either Twitch, IG, Snapchat or Chaturbate) they blindly throw money at a girl, thinking she is his virtual girlfriend and will defend e-thottery as if it's a way of life for both of them, as if believing it's a real relationship.

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Now I understand that this being an adult site about the trade, and that those who identify with being a Cuck or a Simp might see this as a slight against their own sexual fetishes; it is not. Since I'm sure someone will lecture me on BDSM culture, there is a difference between seeking a sexual catharsis of sorts, over how they conduct themselves in relationships to everyday people and situations outside the sex sub-culture.

Also, a "Client" is not the same as being a "Simp"... because unlike a Simp, the Client would spend money to gain some physical stimulus and gratification settled within a mutual business transaction. In short, "I'm getting something out of the money I pay" whereas a Simp doesn't but deludes himself in thinking he does, which is part of the punchline.




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Back to being an "Alpha Male", again, it's just a social construct that all of us gauge ourselves and others on. In my experience, if a man self-identifies as Alpha, it's almost certain that he's not. And sometimes by even being humble at the prospect of being labelled as such by others, is a good indicator that he could be. But as other have pointed out, they are 'exceedingly rare', because all of us in our own way strive to achieve to be Alpha, but often fumble through it comically to the point we (including Ms. Beckett) become skeptical and jaded that it could be a real thing.
 

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Alpha males don't literally exist in the human species. It's not like an Alpha male has a pack of females, while a beta male is waiting in the wings, in case the Alpha dies so he can take over the pride.

But figuratively speaking, yes there is a difference between a guy who is a navy seal and a guy who plays videogames all day. There's a difference between the quarterback of a football team and the waterboy.
 
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Wow I honestly stopped reading when you called the guardian the Fox News of the far far left. If you think the guardian is the far far left I don’t know what you’d think I am!

I’m the alpha. It’s been decided. This thread should be closed.
 
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