Okay, this topic has been done before, but it’s always good for a refresh of intel sharing for those of us who have to fly under the radar. In an adjacent post, GeeBeeP posted this link to a Terb discussion of this topic:
https://terb.cc/xenforo/threads/how-to-be-discreet-about-hobby.839619/
While comprehensive, it was not exhaustive.
I would add a couple of items to that list that will help pooners stay invisible:
Google Maps
Did you know that just like your browsing history on a web browser, Google Maps records every entry and query you enter into its search bar. So your SO could look at your Google Maps history and ask, “What is Swan Lake Massage? And why have you been there twice in the last month?” To get around this, click on the circle icon in the far right of the search bar on mobile. Then tap “turn on incognito mode” and there will be no record of your maps search. Turn off incognito mode to return to normal programming.
Texting
Some guys have a burner phone, but I don’t because the discovery of a burner phone would raise a lot more questions than the problem it’s meant to resolve. Plus switching back and forth between your regular phone and a burner to me just seems cumbersome. So to mitigate the danger of incriminating texts being discovered, my poon buddies and me have this convention:
Hi
What time are you meeting so-and-so today?
By doing a double space after “Hi” the actual message is buried beyond view in the texting message preview window.
I ask any SPs I frequent to do the same and most are happy to do so. If someone asks me why I text this way I just tell them that it make the text more clear by breaking the information into discrete blocks.
Add your tips to the thread and help save a relationship haha
https://terb.cc/xenforo/threads/how-to-be-discreet-about-hobby.839619/
While comprehensive, it was not exhaustive.
I would add a couple of items to that list that will help pooners stay invisible:
Google Maps
Did you know that just like your browsing history on a web browser, Google Maps records every entry and query you enter into its search bar. So your SO could look at your Google Maps history and ask, “What is Swan Lake Massage? And why have you been there twice in the last month?” To get around this, click on the circle icon in the far right of the search bar on mobile. Then tap “turn on incognito mode” and there will be no record of your maps search. Turn off incognito mode to return to normal programming.
Texting
Some guys have a burner phone, but I don’t because the discovery of a burner phone would raise a lot more questions than the problem it’s meant to resolve. Plus switching back and forth between your regular phone and a burner to me just seems cumbersome. So to mitigate the danger of incriminating texts being discovered, my poon buddies and me have this convention:
Hi
What time are you meeting so-and-so today?
By doing a double space after “Hi” the actual message is buried beyond view in the texting message preview window.
I ask any SPs I frequent to do the same and most are happy to do so. If someone asks me why I text this way I just tell them that it make the text more clear by breaking the information into discrete blocks.
Add your tips to the thread and help save a relationship haha






