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Joe45,
I'm beggining to wonder about you from all of your three posts to date. Maybe you'd like to share with us a little bit about yourself too ? Maybe something about your approx. age and perhaps something about your sex ( male of female ) and your status ( single or married ) You seem to be fishing for info about the way other guys on this board think, and what motivates them to see escorts.
You just don't come across as sincere. It just doesn't seem like you're seriously thinking about a visit to a SP or MP to satisfy your carnal urges.
Yman
I'm beggining to wonder about you from all of your three posts to date. Maybe you'd like to share with us a little bit about yourself too ? Maybe something about your approx. age and perhaps something about your sex ( male of female ) and your status ( single or married ) You seem to be fishing for info about the way other guys on this board think, and what motivates them to see escorts.
You just don't come across as sincere. It just doesn't seem like you're seriously thinking about a visit to a SP or MP to satisfy your carnal urges.
Yman
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Fair enough. Makes sense. Lots of guys pop their cherries with a pro. In some cultures it's normal right of passage.
I'm sure if you put up a post on this board looking for a 1st time experience, you will get lots of offers and you can initiate some correspondense with some very nice women who will want to make your 1st time an amazing time.
I'm sure if you put up a post on this board looking for a 1st time experience, you will get lots of offers and you can initiate some correspondense with some very nice women who will want to make your 1st time an amazing time.
Talk about conservative thinking. I bet a few people here may have a different perspective. My first time was with a girlfriend, and it was extremely awkward, and I don't particularily cherish it. I think I might have preferred a woman with experience who would've laughed off my 30 second performance and insisted the second round was going to go longer and better. And hopefully she would encourage me to pop two or three more times. I certainly had the ability to cum three times in a hour when I was 20.everest said:
Now that would be memorable.
a gf could cost you even more than 200 bucks what u spend on a escort. dinners, movies, what not, gifts, valentines it all adds up.school and work and a relationship-i hardly will ever have any time for studying considering i'm not academically bright-well in the harder subjects thats for sure.my folks don;'t even want me to have a gf-they think having a gf would distort my studies. they are very controlling ppl. anyway i'm not exactly good at socializing either-kinda of shy and keep to myself-opening up now b/c i am pushing myself.
myself i just want to see what an escort is like thats all. most girls my age the ones in college i highly doubt they are virgins-proabably had at leasst 2 bfs before.
myself i just want to see what an escort is like thats all. most girls my age the ones in college i highly doubt they are virgins-proabably had at leasst 2 bfs before.
everest said:
Buying a ladies time can become very easy and expensive.... and addictive.
If you're a neophyte with women you have to get out there and be aggressive.....to get the ball rolling. Just get used to starting up conversations. Open your mouth and start talking-- don't stop to think for a moment. Women are suckers for guys who are confident in talking and being around women. The more you do it the easier it will become. Expect alot of rejection but one will eventually like the way you hold your head, and maybe take an interest and bada bing your in the game.
Good luck Amigo.
If you're a neophyte with women you have to get out there and be aggressive.....to get the ball rolling. Just get used to starting up conversations. Open your mouth and start talking-- don't stop to think for a moment. Women are suckers for guys who are confident in talking and being around women. The more you do it the easier it will become. Expect alot of rejection but one will eventually like the way you hold your head, and maybe take an interest and bada bing your in the game.
Good luck Amigo.
i not it isnl;t about money but the process of havin a gf is dating and u now what dating cost money-movies 30 bucks form 2 and popcorn and drinks, dinner 60 at a ok restaurant, get something to eat, what not most things cost money. get the idea. anyways i don;t even have a car or access to one. i take the bus.
everest said:
Forget that. Lifes too short.everest said:
Besides, the 1st time is waay too awkward. I wish my 1st time was with an SP. The performance anxiety you suffer during your 1st time makes it a forgettable experience in the least. At least an SP (a good one) would know how to handle that anxiety and turn your session into something that you would enjoy. Hell, my most memorable experiences sexually occurred years after my 1st time. I say go out and get your rocks off as much as you possibly can, build that experience, and then when you meet someone that you genuinely care about, you will have the skills to make her feel as good as you want her to feel.
Yman said:
Joe, I think this is a great idea. In fact, you could make it fun, not just for yourself, but for the rest of us on PERB as well.
Start a thread in which you offer the opprotunity to pop your cherry to any SP in town, on one condition. All they have to do is write you a 25-word maximum post giving the reason why they should be the SP that gets the privilege of deflowering you. And no PMs, they have to be public posts. I know there are several SPs that have a great sense of humour that will take this task seriously and respond to you seriously.
Yman is right, however, that the serious correspondence would be private communications between you and the SPs. That, of course, would be kept totally private between you and the girls.
Then, after the deed is done, you can post a review of the session here on PERB. Of course, it will be an awful review, since you will have nothing to compare it to. But that isn't important. You can make the loss of your virginity a semi-public event. What else could a guy ask for of such an important event in his life?
Come on, that has to sound like fun, yes!!!
the first time better with a pro
I had lots of GFs when I was young, along with all the kissing, groping and dry-humping. Not much real sex in those days. When I got to university, I stayed in residence the first year. No MPs, no micros, no indie ads in some newspaper - different times. Went out on my motorcycle one night and picked up a very attractive SW. Back to the residence. She was great. Very patient, let me go slow, drinking deep the experience of her. Breath-taking CBJ and then covered FS. Popped too soon. She was a few years older than I was, and was wanting to make my first time a memorable time. Some DFK and skillful handwork, I was good to go again. This time, told me exactly what to do, positions I had never thought of, and lasted over 1/2 hour. I will never forget her. The rest of university was a constant stream f**kfest, which I entered into with firm self-confidence, all because of this sweet SW.
Joe45, I highly recommend a skilled, attentive, attractive woman who has an interest in your first time. Could be a gal at a (A)MP, likely for eight greens including room, or could be an escort for 1 1/2 times or twice that. If you have the change, go for the escort. Check the PERB reviews; I suggest you choose someone more experienced as she can help you relax and show you the way. There are undoubtedly perberts who would have suggestions for you. Otherwise, a brief chat with the MP owner can help with a good choice, if you go the (A)MP route.
I had lots of GFs when I was young, along with all the kissing, groping and dry-humping. Not much real sex in those days. When I got to university, I stayed in residence the first year. No MPs, no micros, no indie ads in some newspaper - different times. Went out on my motorcycle one night and picked up a very attractive SW. Back to the residence. She was great. Very patient, let me go slow, drinking deep the experience of her. Breath-taking CBJ and then covered FS. Popped too soon. She was a few years older than I was, and was wanting to make my first time a memorable time. Some DFK and skillful handwork, I was good to go again. This time, told me exactly what to do, positions I had never thought of, and lasted over 1/2 hour. I will never forget her. The rest of university was a constant stream f**kfest, which I entered into with firm self-confidence, all because of this sweet SW.
Joe45, I highly recommend a skilled, attentive, attractive woman who has an interest in your first time. Could be a gal at a (A)MP, likely for eight greens including room, or could be an escort for 1 1/2 times or twice that. If you have the change, go for the escort. Check the PERB reviews; I suggest you choose someone more experienced as she can help you relax and show you the way. There are undoubtedly perberts who would have suggestions for you. Otherwise, a brief chat with the MP owner can help with a good choice, if you go the (A)MP route.
first of all you dont need a car to have a gf or need to spend all that money on them. lol im a girl and dated guys who didnt have cars or alot of money. it was fine. and a date dosnt always have to be paid buy the guy. whenever i go out i just take turns paying or pay for myself.joe45 said:
original question: std's
I did a LOT of research before deciding to enter the sex industry. Something that I learned surprised me: Statistics from STD clinics show that between 3 and 5% of STD cases involve professional sex workers. Approximately 35% of cases involve teens/young people who are "new" to sexual activity. To me, this shows that the pros know to play it safe, while less experienced people take many risks. Hope that info helps.
(It is possible, I suppose, that the low numbers of pros at clinics reflect that they don't get treated, or get treated privately by MDs. But I doubt it. Working Ladies have a vested interest in taking care of their health.)
Joe, everybody seems to have something to say about this, and it's all valid. However, I haven't seen your question answered.joe45 said:
I did a LOT of research before deciding to enter the sex industry. Something that I learned surprised me: Statistics from STD clinics show that between 3 and 5% of STD cases involve professional sex workers. Approximately 35% of cases involve teens/young people who are "new" to sexual activity. To me, this shows that the pros know to play it safe, while less experienced people take many risks. Hope that info helps.
(It is possible, I suppose, that the low numbers of pros at clinics reflect that they don't get treated, or get treated privately by MDs. But I doubt it. Working Ladies have a vested interest in taking care of their health.)
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Joe - only a fool would post under his perb name on this thread that he ever had a std. It might close a few doors for him with the ladies. Some time back I posted a poll which is more anonymous. Generally no one got anything from anyone except one poster who got every disease on my list. I had to believe that he either spent too much time with low trac ladies with big drug problems or he was an evangilical christian trying to scare everyhone. Anyway the mod pulled the thread after a few pages of replies because of concerns about the accuracy of the one persons post.
Joe, our old friend Hatrick has made this idea complete.Hatrick said:The girls could dazzle you with their offerings, we could all read them and everyone could vote in a poll which one you should do for your first time. Now that's different, with all the pooning experience on this board you should wind up with a killer session. Just keep bangin sp regularly, it will make you more knowlegable and comfortable being intimate with women and when you find one you like for yourself, you won't be a shy bumbler and probably impress her with your talent! Good luck
1. You start a new thread in which ask SPs to write a 25 word response to the following question: Why should I let YOU be the woman that takes away my virginity? Set a deadline of one week (or whatever you decide is an oppropriate deadline) for all SPs who want to enter into the competition to enter by response to your original post. No PMs.
2. After the deadline has past, you pick who you feel gave the top 3 answers to the question. They are now the finalists.
3. After you have picked the finalists, you post a poll in which you ask the PERB membership to vote who they feel should be given this supreme honour. The result of the poll would not be binding, of course, but the results of the poll would give you a good indication of what the membership thinks.
Joe45, this could be a fun experience for you, the SPs that gets to become your special lady and the rest of us pathetic bastards who find pleasure in voyuerism. Please think about this seriously.
I was in almost the same situation as you a couple of months ago. Virgin contemplating losing it to a SP. After mulling it over for a while, I decided to do it. Looking back on it now, I have no regrets. Maybe in 10 years I will I don't know. Obviously there's no universal rule to this, as evidenced by the conflicting opinions in posts. It's a very personal preference and none of us can tell you if it's the right decision for you. But you seem to know what you want to do and that is a good thing.
Like you I just wanted to experience what it was like and to see what I'd been missing out on. The nice thing was that after the initial anxiety, it was a pretty comfortable experience and not awkward at all. It was actually pretty neat to be shown the ropes by a pro. There was no pressure and I enjoyed being the "student". To tell you the truth, it felt great to finally do away with that pesky virginity and "join the rest of the club". Now that I've gotten rid of that shackle, I can let loose and have fun and indulge in the fantasy experience provided by SPs. Since then I've been to a few more SPs and they were all good, memorable experiences and I'm glad to have had those experiences.
But, as many people rightfully warn, yes, when it's this easy to do, it can become addictive. And unfortunately this is a pretty expensive hobby. I sometimes have to really fight the temptation to see a SP as my funds are pretty limited at the moment. After seeing a couple SPs, you'll be amazed at how far your money will go on other stuff lol.
If you have the cash, I think a GFE SP is the way to go if you can afford it.
Like you I just wanted to experience what it was like and to see what I'd been missing out on. The nice thing was that after the initial anxiety, it was a pretty comfortable experience and not awkward at all. It was actually pretty neat to be shown the ropes by a pro. There was no pressure and I enjoyed being the "student". To tell you the truth, it felt great to finally do away with that pesky virginity and "join the rest of the club". Now that I've gotten rid of that shackle, I can let loose and have fun and indulge in the fantasy experience provided by SPs. Since then I've been to a few more SPs and they were all good, memorable experiences and I'm glad to have had those experiences.
But, as many people rightfully warn, yes, when it's this easy to do, it can become addictive. And unfortunately this is a pretty expensive hobby. I sometimes have to really fight the temptation to see a SP as my funds are pretty limited at the moment. After seeing a couple SPs, you'll be amazed at how far your money will go on other stuff lol.
If you have the cash, I think a GFE SP is the way to go if you can afford it.
My suggestion to any virgin sampling this board is to offer to cover Hitrack or Hatrick's gas, Coke, coffee, or 7/11 beverage of their choice, and let them teach you the ropes. Either one will help you get your world rocked for a green!
