Thanks Bobert! That’s great info. I’ll try to work it out with luxxxe as I really like some of the girls pictures there and there are also good reviews here. I’ll make sure to post my first review when I finally meet one of these girls. Pretty sure it won’t be as great as your usually are but I’ll try. 😃
Thanks again.
It's not a contest, brother. Just enjoy yourself and that's all that matters. Since you're new to the game, here are some tips to make things go easier.
1. Set yourself a mental time to be at the incall twenty minutes before you're actually supposed to be there. Nothing screws up a first encounter like being late. Ladies hate that.
2. Be an absolute gentleman. Hold the lady's hand and help them out of the shower, if they shower with you. Offer to dry their back, but this is one where you should ask first.
3. Tell them how beautiful you think they are, and not just in general.
4. Make complimentary comments about specifics (not their tits), like their neck, their hair, etc.
5. Be up front and tell them that you're new to this and this will usually
indicate to them that they should take the lead, which is probably a good idea and will help you to understand more about how this works.
6. Donation in an envelope is really a nice touch and keeps things low key. You may run into a situation where the lady takes the cash out and counts it, but I find that to be rare. Kind of a mood killer, but it's understandable.
7. Arrive showered, even if you're supposed to shower with her or solo after you arrive. It helps their first impression of you if you already smell clean.
8. Make sure your nails are trimmed and filed. If she allows digits, things will go much easier if you're not ripping her insides because you have cat claws for nails from working on your muffler the day before.
9. Ask her what SHE likes in a session, and she'll probably tell you, which is your ticket to making her happy, which in turn means she'll make you happy.
10. Do NOT ask personal questions. If she likes you, she'll share personal info in varying degrees of transparency. Instead, share things about yourself and that in turn may get her to open up as well. This one is tricky and it's best
not to give actual personal information, like your phone # or your real name, but generalities work. I've let a few of my dates into my personal life and it's been fine, and gives us something to talk about when I see them again,
but yeah, judge the situation as it presents itself but generally, keep it loose till you learn more.
There's more to add but these are basics that, from what I hear, aren't really basic for a lot of guys. It's, unfortunately, a way for you to stand out from the other swinging dicks vying for "her" attention so it matters what you do, and don't do.
Have fun and don't fall in love.
B
