hey just wondering how everybody reacts when they feel they are being stared at.....especially hot girls who it happens to all the time...do you look away, smile, make funny faces? or does it make you nervous?
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Makes me wonder if maybe my fly is down, or my shirt is inside out(which just happened the other day after a session with my favorite sp). Isn't it cool when your walking down the street or in a mall and your eyes lock with a beautiful woman you both pass each other with a big grin on, i love it when women blush.
I got it a lot when I lived abroad. At first I stare down all the cute girls, then just the really cute ones, then I no longer noticed. It's nice being the center of attention for awhile but it gets tiring. I generally smile if someone smiles at me, maybe even a little hello. If I were a girl though, seeing the way horny guys oggle them, I'd probably get pretty annoyed with it and not give them the time of day.
How about when she smiles at you and waves so you smile and wave back only to realize she was looking at some guy behind you, doh. 
Now I make sure to turn around to see who is behind me.
Now I make sure to turn around to see who is behind me.
I have had this happen to me twice.
I was sitting in the bar just finishing my night cap, and a really good looking woman at the other end of the bar is staring at me and sucking on her swizzle stick. I figured she was traveling on business and just wanted some company for the night.
So I pay my tab and just as I walk over to ask her if she wants to share a room for the night...........
I wake up......I hate it when that happens......couldn't I sleep just for a few more minutes.
I was sitting in the bar just finishing my night cap, and a really good looking woman at the other end of the bar is staring at me and sucking on her swizzle stick. I figured she was traveling on business and just wanted some company for the night.
So I pay my tab and just as I walk over to ask her if she wants to share a room for the night...........
I wake up......I hate it when that happens......couldn't I sleep just for a few more minutes.
My personal favourite is when a guy is blatantly looking at my chest. No, not sneaking a peek but flat out staring. I look straight at him, glance at my watch and say "Okay, GO!". That always brings on a puzzled look, at that point I explain "You have 30 more seconds to check out my rack, then you're going to have to stop, cause it's kinda creeping me out". Most guys get the humour.
Italy: a trial by fire
I underwent a "trial by fire" when I lived in Rome. Anyone who has been to Italy knows what I am talking about, it far surpasses ogling. Any acknowledgement of anyone looking was like inviting them over to talk. It got so bad that I would make dates just to escape, promising to meet them the next day etc. Construction workers would whistle at me then at a gaggle of nuns just as loud. They(the nuns) kept their heads down and hurried wherever they went and you sure never saw one alone. I had to learn to ignore everyone and keep my face expressionless when scanning crowds, and hold my head high, acting aloof and distainful of anyone who did approach, it was tough.
I had a friend who was from Paris, who was real nice and sweet and being new there, would wave to anyone who waved at her. Once a bunch of guys in a Jeep went by when we were walking in Naples, hanging out the window and waving, so what does she do? She waves back! So screeeech... they stop and back up, then a couple guys got out and tried to convince us to get in the jeep with the 4 of them! Luckily she spoke Italian and talked our way out of it, but it still took her awhile to learn, she was just excited the men were friendlier than in France.
I would purposely go out first thing in the morning to the corner store wearing baggy track pants, no make-up and a bed head and I would still get whistled at and ogled!! It is just their nature I suppose, and if any woman needs an ego boost I recommend an Italian vacation! Just remember if you don't like em the only was to get rid of them is to say "no minteresso, por favor" with a distainful shrug. That worked every time, and means I have no interest.
I underwent a "trial by fire" when I lived in Rome. Anyone who has been to Italy knows what I am talking about, it far surpasses ogling. Any acknowledgement of anyone looking was like inviting them over to talk. It got so bad that I would make dates just to escape, promising to meet them the next day etc. Construction workers would whistle at me then at a gaggle of nuns just as loud. They(the nuns) kept their heads down and hurried wherever they went and you sure never saw one alone. I had to learn to ignore everyone and keep my face expressionless when scanning crowds, and hold my head high, acting aloof and distainful of anyone who did approach, it was tough.
I had a friend who was from Paris, who was real nice and sweet and being new there, would wave to anyone who waved at her. Once a bunch of guys in a Jeep went by when we were walking in Naples, hanging out the window and waving, so what does she do? She waves back! So screeeech... they stop and back up, then a couple guys got out and tried to convince us to get in the jeep with the 4 of them! Luckily she spoke Italian and talked our way out of it, but it still took her awhile to learn, she was just excited the men were friendlier than in France.
I would purposely go out first thing in the morning to the corner store wearing baggy track pants, no make-up and a bed head and I would still get whistled at and ogled!! It is just their nature I suppose, and if any woman needs an ego boost I recommend an Italian vacation! Just remember if you don't like em the only was to get rid of them is to say "no minteresso, por favor" with a distainful shrug. That worked every time, and means I have no interest.
I always smile pleasantly, maybe say hello if they say it to me, but otherwise go about my day. Only when someone is being piggish (ie obvious tit oggling) do I get a little less friendly. I give those kinds my evil-eye of impotence.... he he he
Well, you did charm me Saraphina. And besides that, it didn't seem right to bust you for checking mine out when I was busy doing the same to you!
