Standing Sex Positions...a challenge worth the effort?

[blackcad]

In the movies we often see spontaneous sex, resulting in passionate "stand-up"...don't even bother to get undressed...erotic acts. Myself....I've always craved that kind of experience, but it usually falls short due to balance, height difference etc. making the attempt a little awkward.

Bed sex is great...don't get me wrong....but there's something different about losing the softness and give of the mattress.....to having both feet firmly planted on terra-firma (or carpet)......when you're performing the most instinctive and natural human dance. We dance vertically, so why not do the horizontal rumba vertical as well some times?

I'm a pretty strong guy, and could lift most women up to 400 lbs if I had arms that could wrap around them (though at that weight the lift would be short lived and all my blood would run away from my most necessary muscle...to supporting leg and arm muscles...lol).....though the ideal partner would have to be 160-170 lbs or less for me to enjoy myself.

Any ideas from escorts or perberts as to standing positions that you've had fun using.....and what about a height difference.....any tips to overcome it if you are fair bit taller than the woman? I know I love standing behind a woman....because from that position my hands can naturally roam, wrap, caress and explore at the same time.

I've never even tried face to face standing.....and would like to...YUMMM....but it would probably only work if I was supporting/carrying/holding the woman.....maybe against a wall.....here I imagine...thrusting would be reduced...and calories burned more.....but a finish in a conventional position could be the "icing" on the cake.

Can the extra effort be worth it?....Obviously, it can't be too strenuous for the woman or neither will have a good time.

And while I'm at it....any ideas on chair sex?

Just some late night horny thoughts:eyebrows:

 

[blackcad]

Some great ideas alin :clap2:.....You've wet my appetite to try the Tab-A/Slot-B union standing, on chair and kneeling. I suppose kneeling would be best on the floor....there's just too much "give" on a mattress. Thrusting would be slow...but slow can be better than fast sometimes.

As far as the chair goes......it stands to reason that with armrests the woman sits on you doggie....whereas without armrests, she could face you as well. Mmmmm----mmmm.:eyebrows:

Now I feel like expanding my question to include floor sex.

WOW.....some delicious possibilities.....too bad I can't try them now

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Chair sex is fun if the chair is the right height AND against a wall. Otherwise the chair will keep moving back - just saying.

Standing sex is fun if both people are in decent shape - just have her go up on her toes until tab A has been successfully inserted into slot B. It gives a completely different pressure for both parties.

Try face to face kneeling. Have her lift a bit until tab A has been successfully inserted into slot B. Again, it's a different pressure for both parties.

 

[Mr.C]

Hmmm ... so nice ideas there. Might have to try it tonight, will just have to find a willing partner

 

[PeterMeter]

Why not try all these. You can work through the list in whatever order you like.

http://www.sexinfo101.com/sp_index.shtml

Enjoy.

P.

 

[sevenofnine]

so we should ask the weight of sps before an encounter so we know if we can lift them

actually sounds fun. might have to give it a go,


i wouldn't mind holding a girl upside down while she worked away with her mouth down there
i guess i had better go to the gym,
i cycle lots great for my legs and core, not so much hand strength and upper body

 

[Alix Turner]

Why not try all these. You can work through the list in whatever order you like.

http://www.sexinfo101.com/sp_index.shtml

Enjoy.


P.

That's sort of what I was thinking. A lot of (I want to call them intermediate level but I'm not sure it fits) sexual positions became familiar to me in the heat of the moment or out of necessity before I was 19. (air mattress was too loud when we were camping, against the bedroom door for house parties, knee surgery forced me to learn a bunch of alternative ways to get freaky) I don't think reading about fucking will do much to help until you've put a bit of effort into getting some practice in.
Adapting to a new environment or different circumstances than those you have gotten used to might make you feel less intimidated or awkward about trying something "new." Going out for an adventure in the name of sex would probably be the best way to get over the need to have it all figured out before you attempt the position you are so excited about trying. When you do give it a shot you probably aren't going to be unclear on what to do about any awkward problems you might run into because of height, you just sort of adjust until it's right... or you abandon that position for another one that makes you both happy

easy peasy

the important thing is to get in there and let us know how it all goes after!

 

[Gentle-man]

When you do give it a shot you probably aren't going to be unclear on what to do about any awkward problems you might run into because of height, you just sort of adjust until it's right... or you abandon that position for another one that makes you both happy

Once went for standing from behind up against the wall with a lady at least 6" shorter then me. She put her heels back on to try to make up some of the difference, but then she still needed to bend forward a little to allow entry, so we shifted around to the bed (which thankfully was fairly high off the ground) so she could lean over into a standing doggy position. Not what we started aiming for, but it worked out in the end.

 

[violetblake]

Oooh fun topic! I've done a variety of standing sex, and it depends on a lot of factors. I'm short, only 5'1, so if we're both standing the guy cannot be crazy tall, lol. However, if he is, I also happen to be 100 pounds, so I'm pretty easy to just lift up and have my legs wrapped around him. Since both of these positions can be a bit awkward if not done correctly, it takes proper positioning and effort from both parties. But when done right they feel super awesome!! I would not suggest asking a lady her weight (SPs usually advertise it, but a non-SP would definitely get offended lol) but decide for yourself whether you can lift her. And any sex involving kneeling should be done on the right surface, carpet/floor burn hurts! Best of luck!

 

[badbadboy]

I've done the standing position a few times with a smaller lady. Lately we have started using the counter top in the bathroom. Nothing wrong with bedroom sex but got to say the bathroom sex has been pretty hot

 

[PlayfulAlex]

Any ideas from escorts or perberts as to standing positions that you've had fun using...

Imagine this one...she's laying on her back at the edge of the bed, with legs spread; he picks her up under her legs (like at the knee-pits) and, as he stands and lifts her up, she puts her arms around his shoulders and neck; then he slides slot B over tab A and, upon connection, he hoists her (a slight bounce) up and down to great enjoyment!

Requires a pretty strong (in-shape) guy and a smaller lady (I'm short and 130 and it works quite well) for successful enjoyment! Try it sometime!

 

[Alix Turner]

They just about always vomit in that position - just saying - I think it's because the blood rushes to their head and they can't easily control the depth. However, it kills the mood pretty quickly.

I suppose you could always stand on your hands while she remains upright and pays full attention to working your cock over with her mouth
think about it... no one pukes, everyone is in control of their own oxygen intake, and you still enjoy the sensation of upside down oral sex for as long as you hold yourself steady

 

[vancity_cowboy]

standing sex depends a lot on the position of the vagina on the lady - some are closer to the front than others. one that is closer to the rear is easier to enter from the rear without her bending forward too much. one that is closer to the front is much easier for standing front entry. standing front entry can almost always be achieved if the lady hops up and puts her legs around your waist - she has to be light enough or strong enough though that between the two of you she can be bounced up and down!

 

[nd1]

I'm short, only 5'1, so if we're both standing the guy cannot be crazy tall, lol. However, if he is, I also happen to be 100 pounds, so I'm pretty easy to just lift up and have my legs wrapped around him.

Hold on! Give me a minute to open a new folder labelled "Throwers", so I can move your file there from the current "Spinner" one.

:nod:

Oh, to think about all the possibilities...!

 

[violetblake]

Hold on! Give me a minute to open a new folder labelled "Throwers", so I can move your file there from the current "Spinner" one.

:nod:

Oh, to think about all the possibilities...!

lol Put me in whatever file you want!

 

[blackcad]

When you do it kneeling, she can do some rotating while you do some thrusting - it's actually quite a bit of fun. It's also fun kneeling from behind - you can play with her breasts and give her a little assistance getting there. It works best if she's on a stair or one of those stair stepper gym things.

Kneeling sex.....face to face? Wow...I hadn't even thought of that...and I don't think I've even seen it done in any porno before. I'm guessing her slot-B has to be a bit higher than your tab-A for this to work....and thus the need for a stepper.

 

[joho]

One of my favorite positions is standing up while I completely lifting my partner up in the shower. Lots of intimacy and passion!

 

[Chef99]

Not a large sample size but an interesting thought nonetheless...

http://www.cosmopolitan.com/celebrity/news/cheating-men-more-likely-to-break-penis-new-study

 

[blackcad]

I agree. I can imagine that picking her up like that might be really hot. Problem is...if this is done with an escort you have to ask her first, I would think....otherwise she might get freaked out that one of her clients is suddenly picking her up. With a "civilian" woman...it would be more "in the heat of the moment". I would think that picking her up like this is one of the most dominant sexual moves there is....HOT!

Just like any position, standing sex can be awesome if the situation is right. It can be really hot when you and your partner are lying on a bed/couch/etc, and then you just pick her up and start having stand up sex.

And you don't even have to ask the partner their weight either. If you're honest with how strong you are and you actually have foreplay prior, at some point, you'll have an idea whether standing sex is even possible/knowing you can hold her up. It's quite the workout too.

 

[bcneil]

I'm 6'7" and have tried this a few times. Even if she is light, your legs will burn.
Its just not comfortable at all really.

 

[Gentle-man]

meh, I'm not really into standing sex although being bent over a kitchen counter while wearing heels can work really well!

Should I bring my chef's hat! I do enjoy cooking... In all its forms!