Saw the "Multiple Releases" thread and it got me wondering about the opposite.
Anyone here know of any SPs who are really good at edging you?
Not just with long teasing/foreplay, but during sex: where the SP is highly aware of how close you are to cumming, and is careful to slow down whenever you're getting close.
To be clear, I don't mean in this the BDSM femdom "suddenly stop moving/clamp down and tell you you can't cum because they're in control" sense.
Rather, I'm talking more about SPs who take the perspective that if a client "finishes early" (in a non-MSOG session), then that client probably leaves disappointed (and maybe mad at himself!) that he couldn't get the full value of the time he paid for / "could have just paid for a shorter session" / etc. To ensure her clients leave fully satisfied, this SP will therefore try to help her clients stay "in the zone" — experiencing intense pleasure, but never "boiling over" — until the very end of the session; where the final uninhibited push that sends the client over the edge is treated more like the "dessert" than the "dinner".
(I would imagine that, for an SP who thinks this way, this wouldn't be a thing clients would have to specifically ask her to do; it'd just be how she approaches her sessions by default.)
Anyone here know of any SPs who are really good at edging you?
Not just with long teasing/foreplay, but during sex: where the SP is highly aware of how close you are to cumming, and is careful to slow down whenever you're getting close.
To be clear, I don't mean in this the BDSM femdom "suddenly stop moving/clamp down and tell you you can't cum because they're in control" sense.
Rather, I'm talking more about SPs who take the perspective that if a client "finishes early" (in a non-MSOG session), then that client probably leaves disappointed (and maybe mad at himself!) that he couldn't get the full value of the time he paid for / "could have just paid for a shorter session" / etc. To ensure her clients leave fully satisfied, this SP will therefore try to help her clients stay "in the zone" — experiencing intense pleasure, but never "boiling over" — until the very end of the session; where the final uninhibited push that sends the client over the edge is treated more like the "dessert" than the "dinner".
(I would imagine that, for an SP who thinks this way, this wouldn't be a thing clients would have to specifically ask her to do; it'd just be how she approaches her sessions by default.)