Seems to be a trend - so unprofessional to do that...Pay the requested donation without negotiating !
SP's: What is one thing you wish more clients would do?
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hell pay the requested donation ...PERIOD
i've noticed alot of envelopes short lately as have some other ladies i've spoken to.
i just can't bring myself to check it before the fun starts ....its so crass
I always pay within the first moments with an envelope. I point to it, and just say "this is for you" so we both know. I had one SP 'forget' that I paid her and asked me to find the envelope within the apartment (which I did) at the END of the session, and another time with a different SP open the envelope, count the donation in front of me, then ask if I could break a $20 with 2 $5s and a $10 (which I also did). Is that weird?
To me, short changing an SP is LOW. I know I would be pretty pissed off if a client short changed me. But its all about trust, you would really hate to count it out right in front of the client & find out he short changed you. What a mood changer.
On the other hand, I know I count the $ a few times to make sure I have the right amount, especially with this new $. I purchased some stuff at Future Shop a few weeks back, paid in cash, teller counted the $ & 2 $100's had been stuck together. Saved me $100 so gave her $10 bucks for being honest.
On the other hand, I know I count the $ a few times to make sure I have the right amount, especially with this new $. I purchased some stuff at Future Shop a few weeks back, paid in cash, teller counted the $ & 2 $100's had been stuck together. Saved me $100 so gave her $10 bucks for being honest.
Cherise, is it mainly new clients that short-change, or regulars too? I have not been at this long at all but I know I would not be offended if the donation was counted - particularly before the first session together. It is important to build trust and a good place to start is paying the requested donation - every time. I can see where the whole process can occasionally be a little awkward for both parties though.
it is largely the regulars ...it seems lately they are all setting their own rates lolzCherise, is it mainly new clients that short-change, or regulars too? I have not been at this long at all but I know I would not be offended if the donation was counted - particularly before the first session together. It is important to build trust and a good place to start is paying the requested donation - every time. I can see where the whole process can occasionally be a little awkward for both parties though.
If a client has booked and cant make it be respectful and cancel your appointment. It only take a second. To say sorry babe something came up.
If a client has called for an outcall. If an SP dosent call and let you know that and leave's you sitting there waiting. good chance the client is going to post a bad review about the SP not being respectful and letting him now she couldn't make it.
If a client has called for an outcall. If an SP dosent call and let you know that and leave's you sitting there waiting. good chance the client is going to post a bad review about the SP not being respectful and letting him now she couldn't make it.
I'd have no problem if she counted it maybe not I front of me but I'd be so humiliated if I shorted a lady. The best I know is she sends you to wash your hands freshen up etc. and while you're gone she checks the envelope (I assume). Maybe not but it's gone from where it was left when I come out. I'd rather that than get told it shorted the donation.
One time I even emailed the lady the next day because I found a 20 in my pocket and thought it may have not made the envelope.
It comes down to propriety in my mind. She's providing a service for X amount. Like it or go somewhere else.
One time I even emailed the lady the next day because I found a 20 in my pocket and thought it may have not made the envelope.
It comes down to propriety in my mind. She's providing a service for X amount. Like it or go somewhere else.
See, and this is why you are so rapidly heading to the top of my BOOK ANYTIME list!
(That and you help feed/enable my undie addiction) Oh yeah, and you know how to treat a woman like a lady...right up until the point her panties hit the floor!xox
Ms Erica
Things that personally kind of irk me and I'm sure some or many of the girls can relate:
1. Do not address me/us as honey, sugar, babe, sweetie, sweet cheeks, baby etc.
2. Proper hygiene. Brush, shower, trim, mouth wash, trim nails and toe nails.
3. Arrive on time
4. Give confirmation that you are coming
5. Last minute cancellations or bogus cancellations are rude and crap. We have bills to pay like you do. This is our way of making a living, so, please respect that.
6. Be aware of your personal smell. Even the smell of your sperm. We need to be aware of our smell down there. It goes both ways. Sorry, had to be said.
7. Respect the Donation. If you barter then it is like saying. Sorry, you are not worth that much to me. Rude and not acceptable. If you don't like the Donation then find a more affordable provider. If you can't afford a Sports Car then you don't drive one.
8. Know when it is time to leave. It is very uncomfortable when you overstay your welcome and it makes us/me personally, feel rude to have to ask you to leave in a nice way. We book by the hour for a reason. We have other clients and that needs to be respected.
9. Be professional and polite and you will be treated in the same manner. In fact, you will probably be treated like a King who is visiting his Queen.
10. A simple gift goes a long way and so does thank you. Lingerie is nice too. wink wink
Remember happy wife, happy life. The same can be said for your favorite SP. Make her happy and you will be like a clown on crack.
1. Do not address me/us as honey, sugar, babe, sweetie, sweet cheeks, baby etc.
2. Proper hygiene. Brush, shower, trim, mouth wash, trim nails and toe nails.
3. Arrive on time
4. Give confirmation that you are coming
5. Last minute cancellations or bogus cancellations are rude and crap. We have bills to pay like you do. This is our way of making a living, so, please respect that.
6. Be aware of your personal smell. Even the smell of your sperm. We need to be aware of our smell down there. It goes both ways. Sorry, had to be said.
7. Respect the Donation. If you barter then it is like saying. Sorry, you are not worth that much to me. Rude and not acceptable. If you don't like the Donation then find a more affordable provider. If you can't afford a Sports Car then you don't drive one.
8. Know when it is time to leave. It is very uncomfortable when you overstay your welcome and it makes us/me personally, feel rude to have to ask you to leave in a nice way. We book by the hour for a reason. We have other clients and that needs to be respected.
9. Be professional and polite and you will be treated in the same manner. In fact, you will probably be treated like a King who is visiting his Queen.
10. A simple gift goes a long way and so does thank you. Lingerie is nice too. wink wink
Remember happy wife, happy life. The same can be said for your favorite SP. Make her happy and you will be like a clown on crack.
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I wonder if the guys who try negotiating do the same when they visit a doctor or dentist... or their accountant? Isn't the P in SP for 'Professional'?
I'm not experienced at this, but I believe that if I want to have an amazing experience, then I should do everything I can so that the lady WANTS to give me an amazing experience. And little courtesies and manners really count.
I'm not experienced at this, but I believe that if I want to have an amazing experience, then I should do everything I can so that the lady WANTS to give me an amazing experience. And little courtesies and manners really count.
Such an excellent point. Cheaping out, negotiating the rate etc... might make you feel like you are getting a deal, but the repercussions of upsetting your sp, even if you can't immediately tell, will more than outweigh the money you thought you just saved. A little more will go a Loooong way , while cutting corners will not endear the sp to Go the Extra Mile for you.
