SPs That Don't Let You Touch

[FuZzYknUckLeS]

I've read in a few reviews where the guy says "she wouldn't let me touch her there". WHAT IN THE EVER-LUVIN' NAME OF FUCK?!!!
It confuses me as to why these girls are in the biz. It's kinda like, Hey! I'm gonna be a doctor. But I won't operate. Or, Hey! I'm gonna be receptionist, but I refuse to talk on the phone! Talk about bullshit man.
It confuses me even more as to why these guys actually set up sessions with these SPs.

 

[visioneast]

I've read in a few reviews where the guy says "she wouldn't let me touch her there". WHAT IN THE EVER-LUVIN' NAME OF FUCK?!!!
It confuses me as to why these girls are in the biz. It's kinda like, Hey! I'm gonna be a doctor. But I won't operate. Or, Hey! I'm gonna be receptionist, but I refuse to talk on the phone! Talk about bullshit man.
It confuses me even more as to why these guys actually set up sessions with these SPs.

There are bad doctors, bad receptionists... and of course... bad SPs.

 

[westwoody]

Deal with it by telling everyone here who it was and what she was like.
There was a woman in Winnipeg who had an awesome enhanced chest, but you couldn't touch them-I checked with others in case it was just me. WTF? What waste of time and money!

 

[therealrex]

I don't think they were enhanced but I couldn't say for sure because every time I reached for one she gave me the old elbow block. I've seen a few women in mp's that when they get on the bed with you stay out of arm's reach you know you're in for a shitty time when that happens.

 

[IQof10]

I don't think they were enhanced but I couldn't say for sure because every time I reached for one she gave me the old elbow block. I've seen a few women in mp's that when they get on the bed with you stay out of arm's reach you know you're in for a shitty time when that happens.

And they don't get any repeat business. It costs them in the end.

 

[ihatemyskirt]

Give me a break, some girls are more sensitive about parts of their bodies guys that doesn't make her a bad ho!!! Ever thought maybe your crusty old hands were dry and chapped and scratched her soft skin? Or maybe it just doesn't feel good to her. Otherwise how exactly does one go about this job without being touched? Must be one of those things where ymmv.

 

[***Tia***]

Most SPs just like to be safe. If they say not to touch there, it may be too personal for her. And further, most SPs don't know where your hands have been. Some will tell you it's ok if you put rubber gloves on. Just my opinion.

 

[afterplay]

Most SPs just like to be safe. If they say not to touch there, it may be too personal for her. And further, most SPs don't know where your hands have been. Some will tell you it's ok if you put rubber gloves on. Just my opinion.

And just my opinion:

I don't buy the "that's too personal" argument against physical contact in the sp-pooner context. You've just gotten naked with someone one step away from a perfect stranger, more or less for the purposes of casual anonymous sex, and possibly some sort of psychological or emotional fantasy fulfillment. There's a good chance that while you're bumpin' uglies, your chests are going to touch; that sort of precludes chest and genital contact from being too personal. ("You" applies to both pooner and sp; we're both using fake names, and have our cover stories and if we're having the too personal discussion, we've obviously not escalated to the status of Regular Client and ATF).

I'd believe "too personal" if the usual questions like "what do you do when you're not doing this" or "why are you doing this" come out, but not for the physical acts. If it's a hard limit due to previous bad experiences, fine. Say so. That's way more believable than "too personal." If you want us to be gentle, say so. Or play along with the fantasy and guide the play to something you do enjoy. Interactivity and involvement are attractive. Now if you're not just copping out, and you really still feel that touching is too personal, be prepared to admit that over the phone so I don't waste my time and money on a session. I will do my part to convey what I'm expecting in a session; I think it's only fair that you tell me up front if you can meet my requirements.

As to the hygiene concern: that's what showers and hand sanitizer are for. I like my women clean and sweet smelling; I know they want the same from me. While I always show up clean, I will avail myself of any available personal hygiene products, and the lady can watch. I like feeling clean, and I can put on a bit of a show while I wash everywhere... or if the lady is more hands-on, she's welcome to wash me everywhere to her satisfaction. I like that too. What if some guy wants to watch you shower because he doesn't know where you've been, Tia? Or maybe he wants to check for loose bits of bathroom tissue before getting down to business? Would you like someone to say that to you? For a lady to insist on a certain measure of cleanliness and then not provide method and apparatus to acheive that measure, seems a bit hypocritical.

 

[Knud]

Often guys think it's sensual to play with a woman's nipples, they treat them like radio dials or even worse start twisting, pulling or biting them.

Most of them hate it, it's rare that they get off on any titty play despite what we've learned from porn. If they're pros, they might fake pleasure.

Put it in your review and we can decide for ourselves, don't try to change what they offer - we're not policing the industry, just taking note of it for others.

 

[Taryn]

ouchy

Rather than saying "don't touch" I always find it better to guide the hand to a place where it does feel good

I am so sensitive when it comes to my nipples. I argee with zoe_zee try to guide there hands to where it feels good. I tried explaining to a client one time that I like my boobs touched a certain way. He looked at me with disgust and said " I am paying for this?" then he threatened to tell me boss. At that point the session was over. I thought the point was for it to be a wicked experence for both people. Not have one person get off and one get hurt! One guy I hope never calls for me again.
Taryn
xoxo

 

[CalgaryJenn]

Just "MY" opinion but if your paying for a service such as a topless blowjob, handjob, or even F/S and the provider say's "don't touch" or gives the ole pull away get the hell outta there, and what the hell is she doing in this biz anyway. Those are the provider's that are in it ONLY for the cash and hurrying to get the job done. Now the only and I mean only excuse I could possibly see with an sp with enhancements and the whole no touchy thing is because they were just done and too sensitive, but for anything else, gimme a break and cut the bullshit too personal!

This comment may cause waves but hey at least I AM honest, bold, maybe out- spoken but I call a spade a spade and "that excuse" was just crapola with a Capitol C. For the pooners who do know me and met me, they know I say it like it is. And just like my thread about my hair getting messed up, bottom line is we may not like it, but we "deal" with it, after all the client is paying to do what pleases him to a degree without going outside of the boundries or crossing the line. Even though some people's line is paper thin.

 

[ScottyTwoHotty]

SP's are selling sex, companionship, time, and hopefully a feeling of fulfillment and gradification.
It seems rather odd that an SP will take her clothing off, with her bare ass, bare breasts, pussy in plain view, but please, please don't touch.
WHAT?!?!?!?
Are we fucking window shopping? Are we the 10 year old kid who has no money and walks past the candy store, looking in and wishing we could have some?
I agree that SP's should be allowed to have restrictions for comfort and safety. I'm all for that. BUT TOUCHING!?!?!?!?! Gimme a break. If a guy wants to watch a woman take her clothes off and have minimal contact, he can to to the strippers and get a lap dance for 1/3 the cost of seeing an SP who draws her limits at TOUCHING. In fact, most stripper bars allow a little more than whats mentioned as long as you don't get caught.
Pretty soon SW's / SP's / MP's and so on will e behind glass and you will have to drop a loonie in a slot and jack off.
Now before anybody gets their panties or shorts in a knot...
I'm pretty sure most SP's have pretty fair boundries. However... The ones who are putting boundries of NO TOUCHING, should be working retail. Maybe in a store that sells fine china or something. I don't think an SP who doesn't allow touching to some degree should even be working in the adult industry. If their line is so fine that you can hardly see it, Calgary City Library is hiring. So is every second retail store in the city. Secretaries are in high demand right now.
Maybe GMC, Chevy, Ford, and BMW should start selling automobiles to people, with the stipulation and rules that it CAN'T BE DRIVEN IN THE RAIN.
Maybe SONY, RCA, Toshiba, and Samsung should start selling televisions with the stipulation and rules that you can only watch game shows and nothing but game shows.
People buy, rent, and lease these things with the intent to use them for their intended purpose. To enjoy them for what they were built for. I realise an SP is a human being, a person with feelings, wants and needs. Sure I do. However if your not going to offer a service, in an industry that it's common knowledge of what goes on, why are you here?
Keep a close eye on SP ads on boards and websites across the planet. It shouldn't be long before you see an SP ad that states she only offers the reading of Dr. Seuess in a winter parka and seal skin leggings. Fee: $300hr. + tip.
Boundries have to be put in place for safetry and comfort. Something like Greek I can understand. Pain, I can understand. Bondage I can understand... But NO TOUCHING???????? Get real!

 

[hardup]

Rather than saying "don't touch" I always find it better to guide the hand to a place where it does feel good

Fukin Great Answer Zoe..............you don't have to be a rocket surgeon to deal well with people and if you can't deal with people then go find another line of work.

 

[FuZzYknUckLeS]

...If they say not to touch there, it may be too personal for her....

Then why are they an SP in the first place? Too personal to touch? But it's okay to be up to my boys in tuna taco?

Just "MY" opinion but if your paying for a service such as a topless blowjob, handjob, or even F/S and the provider say's "don't touch" or gives the ole pull away get the hell outta there, and what the hell is she doing in this biz anyway. Those are the provider's that are in it ONLY for the cash and hurrying to get the job done. Now the only and I mean only exuse I could possibly see with an sp with enhancements and the whole no touchy thing is because they were just done and too sensitive, but for anything else, gimme a break and cut the bullshit too personal!

This comment may cause waves but hey at least I AM honest, bold, maybe out- spoken but I call a spade a spade and "that exuse" was just crapola with a Capitol C.....

You have basically just reiterated my original comments. Thank-you very much. I figured all the SPs would take the ***Tia*** approach to this thread. You've proved me wrong. But that's a good thing!
And you definitely are bold! From start to finish. Notice how I used bold to hilite and bring attention to parts of your post that I wanted to emphasize. It is rather hard for me to read a post that is entirely in bold. I usually just skip past 'em.

 

[afterplay]

Rather than saying "don't touch" I always find it better to guide the hand to a place where it does feel good

That's the right answer! Exactly what I was thinking of when I said guide the play to something you enjoy... So where are you located?

 

[westwoody]

Jenn just went WAY up in my books!
S2H is right too, I know what tits look like. If I just want to look they are all over the internet for free. Some woman is going to take my penis in her mouth or pussy, but touching her breasts is too personal? Take a hike.

 

[ihatemyskirt]

Are you kidding me hardup? What the hell is a rocket surgeon? The laughs just never stop here. So many clever people and comebacks.

 

[afterplay]

Are you kidding me hardup? What the hell is a rocket surgeon?

It's a portmanteau of "rocket scientist" and "brain surgeon", both professions where the practitioners are assumed to be very smart. The use of this portmanteau can be both emphatic, implying that the subject is smarter than a rocket scientist and a brain surgeon combined, or it can be sarcastic, implying intelligence slightly above the average brick.

I took what he was saying to mean: you don't have to be a super-smarty to be personable, and if you can't be personable you're in the wrong profession.

 

[lovinithard]

Whatever floats yur boat. Sometimes I don't want the "personal stuff" either, just wham bam, thank you, maam. The only part that bugs me is if she's not upfront with what's available. Hate wasting my money.

 

[josephl]

I agree

Whatever floats yur boat. Sometimes I don't want the "personal stuff" either, just wham bam, thank you, maam. The only part that bugs me is if she's not upfront with what's available. Hate wasting my money.

I think that everyone is different and is looking for different things, on certain days I might not be looking for the full gfe experience. The important thing is communication, if I am told what the restrictions are before hand, and then assuming I'm not a smelly guy that turns the sp off completely, then so long as I get what I was told, its all good. I totally understand why different sp's have different restrictions, just as there are some perbites on here that want to do activities I have no interest in.

Just my 2 cents