Sp's hiding stomach in ad pics

[maniacalone]

Same result after falling for Mia LL 2524 pictures. Breasts were big. Stomach and abs left much to desire. Add 5 years of wear and tear to these images. Buyer beware. Not recent.
https://www.leolist.cc/personals/fe...aby_newwest_amazing_massage_blonde_dd-1934533

 

[Man in Submission]

I would expect some semblance of a flat tummy and general fitness from the vast majority of SP. I am in my 50's, hold down a full time job, and still find time to eat a nutritious diet and keep in shape - including a strong core. Surely most SP are in a position to keep themselves healthy and fit ... yes they have busy lives, too, but it shouldn't be that laborious to set aside an hour or so each day or 2 to train. Their bodies are after all vital aspects of the 'trade' so to speak.

 

[Larry Storch]

Interestingly enough, my preferences have changed over the years. I used to like the smaller "spinner" types, but now I love women with curves. Thighs, booty and bewbs. I find a large stomach to be a real turn off. I like curvy, not overweight. It can be difficult to find that combination.

 

[Warl0ck]

I would expect some semblance of a flat tummy and general fitness from the vast majority of SP. I am in my 50's, hold down a full time job, and still find time to eat a nutritious diet and keep in shape - including a strong core. Surely most SP are in a position to keep themselves healthy and fit ... yes they have busy lives, too, but it shouldn't be that laborious to set aside an hour or so each day or 2 to train. Their bodies are after all vital aspects of the 'trade' so to speak.

Not so much sometimes. Take into account the women with drug or alcohol issues. Then you have the single Mom's who balance your needs with their kids, late night calls, babysitters, etc. Gym time doesn't come easy to them. And some of the women are just emotionally broken & maybe depressed so no gym (though I would argue the gym might help them).

And understand that not everyone wants a woman with toned abs. Just as pooners like women of different races, colour, etc, their are guys who like bigger women. Lots of guys like a girl with some belly & there are a fair number of men who like BBW females. Those women have their market & their big bodies are what make them money. Variety is the spice of life.

 

[tdhmale]

I understand some men are attracted to a specific body type..and they will understandably be dissapointed when the door opens and they discover the pics they saw on the ad/website were an inaccurate representation.

But there are also other men out there who have unrealistic expectations.

Sps are human beings, and all humans have flaws.

I agree totally with you on that. Some guys look for that "Barbie Doll" that doesn't exist. Both "flaws" and "perfection" is only seen in the eyes of the individual preference.
Two guys could be sitting on a beach, with a female walking by in a bikini, one guy will think she is perfect and the other guy will pick away at what he doesn't like.
So when a lot of individuals are looking for SP's we usually look for what's perfect for each of us, based on our own individual preferences. But some have no choice if
they want to have an enjoyable encounter. What makes it more frustrating for some, (speaking for myself here), it's not like meeting vanilla dates off a site like PoF or
AshleyMadison. In those scenarios, it's not costing us much of anything to meet someone with "fake" or outdated pics. But when we start dishing out 300+ for a blind
date, we do start developing higher expectations for the money and don't want to make compromises on preferences. It's kind of the same concept of when you see
some advertising for a food place, they post glamorous pics of meals that were done professionally, but they will never look that glamorous when you order it at the
restaurant, hahaha. I don't look for that kind of perfection. Again I can only speak for myself here, but there is some things involving looks that would be a waste of
time for me, because I would not be able to "get aroused" during the encounter, which would defeat the whole purpose of any collaboration with an SP.
But my arousal is even more complicated when it comes to the actual physical touching, so I won't even go there right now, haha

 

[Ms Erica Phoenix]

Not so much sometimes. Take into account the women with drug or alcohol issues. Then you have the single Mom's who balance your needs with their kids, late night calls, babysitters, etc. Gym time doesn't come easy to them. And some of the women are just emotionally broken & maybe depressed so no gym (though I would argue the gym might help them).

And understand that not everyone wants a woman with toned abs. Just as pooners like women of different races, colour, etc, their are guys who like bigger women. Lots of guys like a girl with some belly & there are a fair number of men who like BBW females. Those women have their market & their big bodies are what make them money. Variety is the spice of life.

When I started working I was a size 14. My first year (2012) I lost 45 pounds, and at my lowest point in Fall 2014, after I got sick I lost another 10. At my fittest, (summer 2015) I was a size 8 dress with a 29 inch waist. I took 2 hour walks up long hills daily; I did Pilates & squats daily too. Since Williedog died last February, I lost my training partner, and those walks just aren't the same without him. 2016 was a pretty stressful year all around, & I turned to my favourite comfort mechanism to cope. Today, while I am content with how I look, I am aware that I am curvier than I have been in the past. However, I have one long time ATF who has been seeing me monthly since I first expanded my service repertoire to include GFE. Whether I am 160 pounds or 200, he thinks I'm the sexiest woman he's ever known, & I am content in that. There's a little more on the belly than there used to be, for sure; more on the bum too....but my boobs? FABULOUS at my current size. It's about balance, after all...

Remember too, that thin/fit/muscular as beauty aesthetic is largely a late 20th Century/21st Century Western aesthetic from an anthropological point of view. Because women store reproductive hormones in their hips & thighs, an ample body has been seen as a symbol of fertility. In other cultures, a woman's ample curves are symbols of her husband's wealth; there is always enough to eat, & she is not required to labour for it. Finally, remember that as the French say, Chacun a son gout...to each his own taste.

 

[Warl0ck]

Chacun a son gout...to each his own taste.

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Yep. Some guys like big girls, some like spinners. Some guys are into natural boobs, some prefer the bolt on look. It's whatever you like.

I'm happy and healthy the way I am now

Well no complaints from me either ;-P.

 

[Tugela]

I would guess that because women naturally gain fat in that area they are self conscious about it. Unless they are in really good shape or just naturally lean I expect most women have at least some body image issues with respect to their bellies.

 

[*emmanuelle]

Buyer beware. Not recent.

It's always a good idea to examine the background in ad photos. Look for crooked lines, skewed pillars, warped doorways etc etc as a clear sign that the advertiser is shrinking her waist with photoshop.

 

[tdhmale]

It's always a good idea to examine the background in ad photos. Look for crooked lines, skewed pillars, warped doorways etc etc as a clear sign that the advertiser is shrinking her waist with photoshop.

Exactly. I used to do pro photography (and worked for the media). I used photoshop a lot. But someone like myself is used to paying attention to those kind of details in any pic. But you know some guys, they see those triple d's and and don't notice the hair color, haha
32B - 23 - 34 ...... eye candy for some people (smirk)

 

[Larry Storch]

It's always a good idea to examine the background in ad photos. Look for crooked lines, skewed pillars, warped doorways etc etc as a clear sign that the advertiser is shrinking her waist with photoshop.

Slightly off topic, but its a good idea to look at the items in the photo as well.
Right click> view image>Ctrl + will blow up the image.
I've found a wide assortment of drug paraphernalia.

 

[westwoody]

A bp ad in Winnipeg that showed a syringe and pipe...

 

[Warl0ck]

It's always a good idea to examine the background in ad photos. Look for crooked lines, skewed pillars, warped doorways etc etc as a clear sign that the advertiser is shrinking her waist with photoshop.

There are software programs available on the internet which allow you to analyze a photo to see if it's been altered from it's original.

 

[VanIsleGuy46]

Ladies, just go with what you've got and show it the way it is. Some guys like spinners, some curvy, some BBW. By showing a true representation, there will never be a disappointment. You may be missing appointments because you look too skinny or have "walk-aways" because you are too shapely.

 

[Ms Erica Phoenix]

Ladies, just go with what you've got and show it the way it is. Some guys like spinners, some curvy, some BBW. By showing a true representation, there will never be a disappointment. You may be missing appointments because you look too skinny or have "walk-aways" because you are too shapely.

And even when you do show it as it is, you will find individuals who are taken by the photos more than the person. I am frequently told that my pictures don't do me justice; I have been told that I look smaller in person but also that I'm 'taller than I look". That one surprised me, since I have my height without heels in most of my ads! No matter what you do with your pictures, you can't please all of the people all of the time.

 

[bdan]

That one surprised me, since I have my height without heels in most of my ads!

It shouldn't. Most guys don't read let alone comprehend

 

[Ms Erica Phoenix]

It shouldn't. Most guys don't read let alone comprehend

Oh I realise...but as a former reading/literacy teacher, I'm usually pretty skilled at weeding out the non-readers. I'm not a standard offering; I like to ensure the men who come to see me know what to expect BEFORE they get here. I have had my share of no shows (maybe more than my share, thanks to a few of my favourite crank callers) but only 3 walk outs in 5 years. That's including the one who walked on me yesterday after I cut my foot rushing to accommodate his request for VERY short notice. I won't make that mistake again.