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sps and racism

map47

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hi,
not too belabour this but someone made a post about a month ago about a bad experience with a racist sp.i am black and i am pleased to say i have only had a couple of bad encounters,which i think is a tribute to the people in this city and country.i always make it a point to tell the sps of my race upfront and it has worked well.anyone else of any persuasion had any such bad encounters? thanks map47
 

BabyBelle

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Most times, SP's are not racist at all.. we merely fear for our safety.. and many of us have had bad experiences with men of certain races.. and we are wary.
I for one am not racist at all.. I just look out for myself.. because sometimes language barriers, or difference in culture, can cause problems.
If the man seems polite and respectful enough, I will see them.
:)
 

wolverine

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I have known some SPs who prefer not to see clients of certain nationalities for reasons varying from cheapness to hygiene issues.
 
I'm with Babybelle on this one. When a man tries put a hickey on my cheek so he can 'mark' me as a whore for others in his culture to harass on my down time, thats a problem for me and just flat out wrong. No, I am not racist, but I'm not here to suffer anyone's sh*t either, regardless of the ethnic origin.
 

blondeluver

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I think she meant as in walking on the street or in the mall when she was off work, and people from the same race as that a**hole, will recognize the hickey and know what it means and/or will harass her. Am I right Dakota? At least that's how I interpret it.


massageseeker said:
I dont get that one. . mark me for his culture? why do you go to his cultural events ?
 

Lurker 123

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BTW,I am a late 40s Chinese.I have never encountered any racism. On the other hand,many SPs regard me as a gentleman that they would love to have me re-visit!i.e. Julia!
 

The Lizard King

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Great topic!

I have a few questions though....

Why are white people only considered as racists?
In my opinion, asians can't drive worth a damn. Am I racist?
In my opinion the world should send more birth control to Sudan than food. Am I racist?
I don't find asian or indian women attractive. Am I racist?
Why would that be any different than liking big versus small boobs?

Ladies, it's your choice whether it's made as a result of sexual preference or perceived safety precautions.
 

HankQuinlan

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The Lizard King said:
Great topic!

Am I racist?
In my opinion, yes you are. Generalizations about any person based on their race is a form of racism. If you owned a cab company and refused to hire a driver because he/she was asian, that would indeed be racist. And if you consider the inhabitants of another country as somehow less human and less deserving of the necessities of life, that is certainly a racist attitude.

Hey, you asked.

And yes, members of other races can also be very racist, and should be considered such. In this culture, however, caucasions have generally held the power, therefore their racism is the only one that has historically held others back from equal treatment. In Japan, there has been considerable racist treatment of Koreans living there, and that is indeed an issue in that nation. As another example, the Han Chinese majority have been considered racist due to their treatment of minorities in that country. Racism is a very human attribute, but one that one should try to overcome, rather than embrace as an acceptable attitude.
 

Sunset

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Lizard King to answer your questions, yes you are. Your statements are callus and gross generalizations of different ethnic groups.

Ladies strictly avoid this guy, don't support his spreading of bigotry and want to be Nazism.

Please one world, one people.
 

massageseeker

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I agree.. I think Lizard King will have to change his name again .. which sucks for him .. b/c he just started as a junior member...

ladies skip him
 

dirk_dog

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People are way too politically correct these days and are too quick to use the label of racism.

I find women of certain races very very attractive. I also find women of certain other races very very unattractive.

I must admit I would find it difficult to enjoy myself with a woman of a race I found unattractive. I would find it even more difficult to pleasure her and ensure she was satisfied from our encounter.
 

goldenpig

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Lizard King, I'm not going to jump on your back like some people have, but I'll answer your questions in my opinion....

Why are white people only considered racists?
Racism exists everywhere. Try being a jew living in Iraq, an african-american trying to get a job in Japan, a white substitute teacher teaching in a native community (as a friend of mine was). Not to say that all the people in those cultures are racist, just that it exists everywhere to some extent.

In my opinion, asians can't drive worth a damn. Am I racist?
I don't know if you're racist or just ignorant on the subject. Do white drivers drive well? And if so, does that mean that every single white driver drives well? Is every single asian person on this earth a bad driver? I think that's reaching pretty far.

In my opinion, the world should send more birth control to Sudan than food. Am I racist?
I don't really think that's racist and I don't think it's trying to take life away from a certain race. I think it's addressing a problem that should be addressed in a particular country. There's a lot of cultures in the world where people either don't have access to birth control or education about it.

I don't find asian or indian women attractive. Am I racist?
No. I prefer Asian women to any other race, generally speaking. That doesn't mean that I'm being racist to all other races, just that I prefer a certain look. If you don't find asian or indian women attractive, I'd just say that's your personal choice.

Why would that be any different than liking big versus small boobs?
Like I said, it's all preference, so it's pretty much the same.

As far as your comment that it's a lady's choice whether or not to welcome a client based on sexual preference or perceived safety precautions, I disagree.

If there are real safety issues, i.e. previous experience with the person in question or knowledge about that person from another sp or the news etc... then, by all means, refuse the client if there's a threat... but because he belongs to a certain race? I don't think that's legitimate.

Not seeing someone based on sexual preference? Do you really think that everytime you walk into an MP they clap their hands and say "I can't believe I get to have sex with this guy!" If that was the case, you probably wouldn't be going to MPs in the first place. SPs are constantly with guys that I bet don't meet their sexual preferences... whether it's race, weight, age or just being a damn ugly bastard like me.

Like to hear your comments, as I think some people may have misinterpreted some of the things you said and perhaps you didn't word you questions quite the way you meant them.
 

The Lizard King

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Thank you , mariolopez, goldenpig, dirk_dog, and HankQuinlan for the points you've made and your insight.

Well I've had several encounters, including a long-term relationship, with black women, and dated my share of Asian and Indian women.

Some of my closest friends and business partners are Asian and I wouldn't trade the time I spend with them for anything.

Now that being said, let me elaborate.
Why are white people only considered as racists?
That appears to be the case if you listen to the PC media. Every time they talk racism they seem to put a white face on it.

In my opinion, Asians can't drive worth a damn.
My "opinion" is somewhat based on random comments of associates who work with insurance and law enforcement agencies. Not to mention the media feeding frenzy every time there's a reported street race, corruption at the mvb licensing bureau, and an article I swear I saw in the Province that stated that by 2010 or something like that, there would be some ridiculous amount of yearly traffic fatalities in China. I have to find that article.

In my opinion the world should send more birth control to Sudan than food.
So I'm watching these reports on CNN and CBCNW about Sudan and they show this poor gal with her young child who is obviously in a bad state. The underlying message is we must send food, money, or medical aid to these poor people. I agree. BUT I found that I was also asking myself "what about birth control?". Why do these, and other people, continue to have children when they cannot feed or look after them?

I don't find Asian or Indian women attractive.
Have dated both but for some reason, they didn't appeal to me in "that" way. Had some fun, non-sexual, times though.

Why would that be any different than liking big versus small boobs?
Just saying physical attraction isn't always based on certain physical characteristics and not others.

Ladies, it's your choice whether it's made as a result of sexual preference or perceived safety precautions.
If a woman chooses not to be with a guy for whatever reason, it's her choice and nobody else’s business. Sexual preference obviously doesn't necessarily pertain to being a SP.

Anyway...my post was largely motivated by massageseeker's posts jumping on the posts of BabyBelle and Dakota that were obviously based on some adverse personal experiences. I've never met either, and judging from what I've seen from them while lurking, they would never agree or condone some or all of the tone of my original post.

And Sunset, a big thank you for being part of the rabid PC machine that took the bait. People like you take every opportunity to point and scream "bigotry!" and "Nazism!", all the while standing on a soapbox spewing your own PC venom. This board revolves around a profession that is not generally socially acceptable and in many cases and countries, is synonymous with the abuse and exploitation of women and children. There are obviously empowered women who have made their choice to do this, for whatever reasons that should remain private to them, but that's more the exception than the rule. How dare you use a board such as this for such a pc statement, you hypocrite.

Whew...loved all the responses...now let's have some real fun. Anybody want to talk about religion and gay marriage??
 

wolverine

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Any bad Asian drivers you encounter are usually new immigrants. The reason for that is that they hail from countries where most people don't drive cars. In places like Hong Kong, people get around with bicycles or public transit. Here in Canada, they have to learn how to drive because the cities are larger in square mileage, the public transit is less of a priority, and we're a car-driven society and our infrastructure reflects that.
 
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