Spotting red flags

needtomilk

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Here's one: they also sell sexual content, but only via chat (such as Snapchat, WhatsApp, etc.), rather than on platforms that actually facilitate selling sexual content (such as OnlyFans, ManyVids, etc.).

SP's who do that typically have a bad attitude.

Why? Those who avoid OnlyFans and ManyVids have told me that they do so to avoid paying commissions. "Why should I pay commission, when I can keep the money for myself?"

I could respect that. But their service sucks.

These SP's have a cynical "taker" mentality. Short-term thinker, and can't think win-win. Can't put in the effort in the best interest of the client. "If my clients are not happy, then that's their problem" seems to be their motto.

As a client who would absolutely love to have you pay at least a modicum of attention to me (which they can't be bothered to), I 100% avoid SP's who sell content anywhere that isn't OnlyFans, ManyVids, and the like.

Avoid, avoid, avoid!
To add to what I said, that mindset is almost no different than people who quit the working world because they are effectively "paying to work" (through taxes). I mean, I can agree, but these people have a terrible attitude.

"Why should I do anything for anyone, if they can't do anything for me?"

Same idea applies for the selling nudes via Snapchat, instead of OnlyFans. "Why should I pay commission?" they ask. And so, their attitude is thus mirrored when providing service; it's really bad.
 
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riley_banks

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Any ad who says great reviews, but it is a different name on the ad than the reviews
A lot of SPs rebrand or change their name.. I am doing so at the moment.. This can be true for sure.. but I would like to add if there is a discrepancy between the names in reviews sometimes the SP can still be verified by their Twitter or Instagram or things like tattoos in their photos..
 

Van Chambers

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A lot of SPs rebrand or change their name.. I am doing so at the moment.. This can be true for sure.. but I would like to add if there is a discrepancy between the names in reviews sometimes the SP can still be verified by their Twitter or Instagram or things like tattoos in their photos..
Can you clarify why the SP would use a review under their old name if they want to use a new name?
 

riley_banks

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Can you clarify why the SP would use a review under their old name if they want to use a new name?
Yes, this happened to a friend of mine where she had to change her name and photos a few times because someone in her personal life was stalking.. She was well reviewed and to start with no reviews is difficult..

I have also seen the reverse of this happen where an SP used reviews of another SP with the same name that did not belong to her.. Name matched but digits in the phone number did not.. So yeah I just mentioned sometimes there can be other factors to it as well to verify along with a review..
 

Big_Guy_Rye

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I’m going to bring some controversy here and say “duos” is a red-flag. Why?

As I’m sure among the upper tiers of professional providers, “Duo” experiences are something to behold.

but I often wonder about lower tiers that offer it, who happen to be travelling SPs sharing the same hotel room or other roommate accommodations, ...and even though you agreed to do business with a single lady, the other girl lingers around still trying to blindside and force an upsell of services, where a session that should’ve been $250 jacks it up to $500, or worse you get subpar service from the single lady because you didn’t take the offer, and that you were too cheap to try and seduce more money from you.
 

ExpCharlee

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I’m going to bring some controversy here and say “duos” is a red-flag. Why?

As I’m sure among the upper tiers of professional providers, “Duo” experiences are something to behold.

but I often wonder about lower tiers that offer it, who happen to be travelling SPs sharing the same hotel room or other roommate accommodations, ...and even though you agreed to do business with a single lady, the other girl lingers around still trying to blindside and force an upsell of services, where a session that should’ve been $250 jacks it up to $500, or worse you get subpar service from the single lady because you didn’t take the offer, and that you were too cheap to try and seduce more money from you.
Duos are safer ??‍♀ Especially when you’re travelling seeing random guys outside your hometown it’s much less intimidating doing it with a friend. Weirdly, it’s illegal for us—we could get done with a pimping charge for advertising for another provider. But yeah, there are lots of reasons to push duos.
 

grusse

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can't remember if anyone mentioned ads that say "don't ask about the photos"..to me that's saying they're fake.
 

grusse

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another one is when the ad has the name of one lady,...but the photos are obviously of 2 or more girls.
 
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