Spinning my wheels...waiting.

[Ironhead]

Okay so here I am sitting around at home waiting for a certain Sp to call me for a time to meet her.
We have a day arranged, we have communicated earlier in the week.
I actually told her I want to see her last Tuesday. She contacted me on Thrusday saying things were a go.

I left her a message last night and a few today looking for a time.

Now I am just sittin waiting. Cash in hand.

I really don't want to bug her, but I want to know either way.
Maybe something came up and she can't phone. I really don't know.

I hope I did not get bumped for someother guy. That would not be fair to me.
I have seen this girl a few times now.
Really, I just want to know,so I can do someother things.


Has this ever happened to you? What would you do? Should I have a back-up plan?

 

[kalel]

never understood

i never understood why guys wait for women and vice versa. my time is valuable to me so don't fuck with it. and every man and woman should think the same way, with notable exceptions for emergencies and things like that.

bottom line is that she's not respecting your time so you should have a back up plan. go find something else to do (and i don't mean that in a bad way).

a friend of mine purposely double books himself for his appointments so he has to cancel one of them. his thinking is that it's better for him to be covered in case the person flakes out or to be the one cancelling than to be the one stood up.

 

[athaire]

Its happened to me couple of times..... I always use the opportunity to see other providers. I give all kinds of advance notice, much like your situation and if no go then screw that. And I make a different plan. This happened to me not long ago and I made alternate plans only to find out after that my regular had confirmed while I was away from the puter. So I saw both........lol.

 

[owz]

i never understood why guys wait for women and vice versa. my time is valuable to me so don't fuck with it. and every man and woman should think the same way, with notable exceptions for emergencies and things like that.

bottom line is that she's not respecting your time so you should have a back up plan. go find something else to do (and i don't mean that in a bad way).

a friend of mine purposely double books himself for his appointments so he has to cancel one of them. his thinking is that it's better for him to be covered in case the person flakes out or to be the one cancelling than to be the one stood up.

Well said.
Being new to the hobby, I was stood up twice (by the same SP).
Standing in the freezing cold, I said enough is enough.
Turned around and than was the end of that.
Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me.
Spent over $2500+ with this particular SP over the course of 3 weeks...
As young & hot as she is, in my books being tardy is a big no-no.
Please show the same courtesy for my time as I do for yours.

 

[TTTWISTER]

Life is too short

I feel for you Ironhead.

I was in Niagara last summer an had an appt. with a cute little thing that I lined up on NERB. Man I had her booked two weeks in advance for 3hrs. Hell, I even called her my first night in town to confirm and let her know my room #. The next day I'm at a pooner meet and greet having a great time and leave to meet with her but no show. I tried to call her twice and nothing but a voice mail. Man was I pissed, fuck I'm on vacation and thats about the only time I get a chance to enjoy myself and now I'm hangin at my hotel room .

Man fuck em, I give em 15 mins and then I'm outta there. I went back too the party and grabbed a cute little SP and spent the 3hrs with her. It wound up great. She was fairly new to the biz and told me she had only done 1hr appts. to that point. She seemed really appreciative and we had a ball. Hell she wound up in the hot tub shaving her little coochie for me too.

So man fuck em, don't wast your time. There are too many good ones out there waitin. HAPPY POONING

Oh by the way she lost my biz for good.

 

[owz]

Mine lost my biz for good too. Figure $2500 a month for 5 years...
that's a brand new 997 turbo she just lost.