SP who ask for my picture

shorty1967

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Dear specific SP,

wtf are you asking for a pic of my face when booking? Why is this a requirement to make an appointment with you, You know that we are all trying to be discreet here, right? You know who you are

Rant over
Move on, her business her decision. Who are you to decide what makes her feel comfortable with a booking?
 

willtrade

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Dear specific SP,

wtf are you asking for a pic of my face when booking? Why is this a requirement to make an appointment with you, You know that we are all trying to be discreet here, right? You know who you are

Rant over
She probably has a stalker or is inexperienced.
Some of the best SP I have ever had the pleasure of spending time with asked for a picture and were green as grass.
But if you really need to be discreet move on or see what they think of a bait and switch and use a random picture that is close.
But it is a red flag for sure. This is a scary business from both sides if you ask me.
 

rubintugger

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Many have restrictions that new clients can tend to ignore, thinking they are special and can be that exception. Or, she may have a stalker / ex that she fears. Or, she may be new, and is scared that an unknown man will be in her home while she is naked and vulnerable, and wants to have a picture in the cloud of who killed her to help the police.

And if you think a picture on her phone is a security risk, you certainly have no idea about hidden cameras and security cameras, You will be caught on tape entering the building no doubts, and you could be being filmed from a dozen angles in the session without you knowing. Far more an issue than a face pic on the phone.

Or maybe she wants to make sure its you at her buzzer when you show up for the appointment. I have heard of many SP's (and actually encountered it more than once) that get buzzed, assume it is the client that has booked, lets them in only to find out that it was someone thinking they could show up without an appointment, only to have the actual booked client show up 10 minutes into her session with the walk in.

Or, maybe this is a real easy way of deciding whether you are or are not a serious potential client. Many SP's have screening methods, photo first is not the most stringent of them.

Its your call. If you don't feel safe, you have the option of moving onto the next SP. To me, its much less a red flag than an endorsement of her seriousness about security. Unless her ad gives off serious red flags for concern that she might be being trafficked or in some other way controlled/abused.
 

Jethro Bodine

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Many have restrictions that new clients can tend to ignore, thinking they are special and can be that exception. Or, she may have a stalker / ex that she fears. Or, she may be new, and is scared that an unknown man will be in her home while she is naked and vulnerable, and wants to have a picture in the cloud of who killed her to help the police.

And if you think a picture on her phone is a security risk, you certainly have no idea about hidden cameras and security cameras, You will be caught on tape entering the building no doubts, and you could be being filmed from a dozen angles in the session without you knowing. Far more an issue than a face pic on the phone.

Or maybe she wants to make sure its you at her buzzer when you show up for the appointment. I have heard of many SP's (and actually encountered it more than once) that get buzzed, assume it is the client that has booked, lets them in only to find out that it was someone thinking they could show up without an appointment, only to have the actual booked client show up 10 minutes into her session with the walk in.

Or, maybe this is a real easy way of deciding whether you are or are not a serious potential client. Many SP's have screening methods, photo first is not the most stringent of them.
Or maybe it's simply because she won't see you if you are unattractive to her. The reality of the situation is that there are some of us out there who are lacking in the looks department and regardless of the fact she's being paid for her services, she can't fuck ugly.
Cheers
J
 

plumbcrawl

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Everything is about consent. A lady can choose to set the bar at whatever level she wants for screening(deposits, pics references) Then you get to choose if you want to reach that bar. Don't feel mad,annoyed or get into a text war about it being diffrent from other SP's. just move on. If it's noted on her ad assume she's serious, if it's not in her ad apologize that you didn't know that was required and move on.
 

Horse1957

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Or maybe it's simply because she won't see you if you are unattractive to her. The reality of the situation is that there are some of us out there who are lacking in the looks department and regardless of the fact she's being paid for her services, she can't fuck ugly.
Cheers
J
I agree...I'm pushing the big 70 and look more like Homer Simpson than Bradley Cooper...lol...btw ...and women out there with a Homer Simpson fetish...feel free to pm
 

ChromeGasCap

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This is an ad asking for Gov pic ID. Lots red flags like giving out two different addresses.

https://www.leolist.cc/personals/fe...eate_a_connection_that_stays_with_you-9846860
First, her ad does not mention gov' ID requirement.
Second, her ad does state outcall only (until she gets comfortable with you), which can be a scary proposition for any women, entering an unfamiliar place to meet up with an unfamiliar person.

Not saying there are no red flags, but you should specify where the red flags are.
The things you have been stressing on are not red flags, but are your personal boundaries, and boundaries are OK, even encouraged.
You should get to know the difference between red flags and boundaries.
 

Notbad

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Or maybe it's simply because she won't see you if you are unattractive to her. The reality of the situation is that there are some of us out there who are lacking in the looks department and regardless of the fact she's being paid for her services, she can't fuck ugly.
Cheers
J
OMG you sure look at things in a different angle. So if you are attractive to the SP, is she going to let you fuck her free? Oh further more, if you super handsome, you should charge her, LOL

this is not a dating service. We are paying customers, SP set their bar with how much they think they worth. Asking a photo before meet to me is crazy. More crazier is the people think it is acceptable
 
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ChromeGasCap

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OMG you sure look at things in a different angle. So if you are attractive to the SP, is she going to let you fuck her free? Oh further more, if you super handsome, you should charge her, LOL

this is not a dating service. We are paying customers, SP set their bar with how much they think they worth. Asking a photo before meet to me is crazy. More crazier is the people think it is acceptable
I do not read anything like that in what Jethro wrote.
Perhaps I'm unable to read the fine print between the lines. :unsure:
 

Jethro Bodine

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OMG you sure look at things in a different angle. So if you are attractive to the SP, is she going to let you fuck her free? Oh further more, if you super handsome, you should charge her, LOL

this is not a dating service. We are paying customers, SP set their bar with how much they think they worth. Asking a photo before meet to me is crazy. More crazier is the people think it is acceptable
Not sure how you got that out of my comments. SP's are human too. While we do pay them for their time they are free to determine who they see and who they don't. And I hate to break it too you but the harsh reality is that looks do factor into it for many of us. When you are perusing the ads looking for a date what attracts you to a ladies ad? For example lets pretend that you are a male SP servicing female clients. Now go to Walmart and walk around for 30 minutes and tell me that you'd fuck every woman you see there just because she paid you.
Cheers
J
 

ChromeGasCap

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It truly comes down to a personal choice.
You can accept a request from an SP or you can reject it and move on.
It also goes the other way. For example, when a client requests a picture to verify the provider, she can accept or reject the request.

It is all about comfort level. No one should criticize another for their choices for the most part, as choices are mostly a personal matter.
 

Notbad

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It truly comes down to a personal choice.
You can accept a request from an SP or you can reject it and move on.
It also goes the other way. For example, when a client requests a picture to verify the provider, she can accept or reject the request.

It is all about comfort level. No one should criticize another for their choices for the most part, as choices are mostly a personal matter.
I agree.

I reply just because I don’t feel comfortable with this request.

For my own case or any of you do not have an open relationship or just being single. We seek this service because we are no longer satisfied with sex at home. In a way we are cheating for the sake of our own family. So, I have a lot to lose if i get exposed. So, No picture for me and no e-transfer for me.

Chrome is right, to a level of comfort. I am not against people think it’s acceptable. They may not in my shoes. Plus myself also I has a price tag on my head, if I go see my boss today and tell her because she is not pretty and I want my wage doubled, I am sure I will get fired.

All I am saying is get a face shot for SP is not make sense to me. LOL
 

Harmony-bc

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It truly comes down to a personal choice.
You can accept a request from an SP or you can reject it and move on.
It also goes the other way. For example, when a client requests a picture to verify the provider, she can accept or reject the request.

It is all about comfort level. No one should criticize another for their choices for the most part, as choices are mostly a personal matter.
I agree accept it and move on.

But I just wanted to comment on an sp sending pics to prove herself. I learned very early on that any guy who requests a pic is just a picture collector and 99% of the time, they ghost. Which has absolutely nothing to do with the sps looks. It can be so annoying to send pics to some weirdo who was never serious about booking anyways. I have a no pic policy. I also don’t want clients pics. I’d rather a client be “ugly” and sweet than handsome and vain anyways.

I have heard of these girls that don’t want clients over this age or under this height and won’t see them if they’re over weight. So odd. I’ll see anybody and treat everybody equally 💕.
 

Jethro Bodine

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I have heard of these girls that don’t want clients over this age or under this height and won’t see them if they’re over weight. So odd. I’ll see anybody and treat everybody equally 💕.
That's admirable of you. You're a better person than me! ;)
Cheers
J
 

switch50

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I agree accept it and move on.

But I just wanted to comment on an sp sending pics to prove herself. I learned very early on that any guy who requests a pic is just a picture collector and 99% of the time, they ghost. Which has absolutely nothing to do with the sps looks. It can be so annoying to send pics to some weirdo who was never serious about booking anyways. I have a no pic policy. I also don’t want clients pics. I’d rather a client be “ugly” and sweet than handsome and vain anyways.

I have heard of these girls that don’t want clients over this age or under this height and won’t see them if they’re over weight. So odd. I’ll see anybody and treat everybody equally 💕.
About a year ago ...maybe longer a new sp joined this board. I approached her telling her my age (late 60's) and she declined my business. Now she accepts all. I guess she didn't realize how many of us oldies are on here.
 
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