SP to friend?

[mrtan]

I called up one of the SP's I've seen before but unfortunately she was not working that night and as I said goobye, she said that she wants to go out and if I want to meet up. Sure why not?!

She came by my place & we took my car headed out to Earl's. When we got there, it was closed.

We chatted a bit and she asked me to if I can massage her because it was sore. She was wearing a tight tube top with her enhanced-D's nicely accentuated & super short jeans to show off her nice slim legs. It wasn't a difficult decision. I suggested we head back to my place & I can give her a proper massage & she was like "Sure!"

When we got back to my place, we were both in heaven because I have been properly trained as I had considered going into chiro & i give wicked massages. I was in heaven because she took everything off and let my hands carress every inch of her killer bod. I did not want to push the limit in trying to get more out of it & respected the fact that she just wants to relax outside of her work time. She ended staying over night as we both fell asleep & she drove off the nxt morning.

She told me her real name & we now hang out once in a while. Weird how it happened but it did. I'm no model but I'm not bad looking (& I guess somewhat educated - masters from Ivy league) but she told me that what appealed to her was that I treated her with respect & not talk dirty.

 

[SFMIKE]

Nice guys do not always finish last.

 

[steverino]

It was going well...

for me until you got to the part about not talking dirty. In any case it sounds like you won out. Just don't become her pimp.

 

[jimbo2006]

I had an SP call me the other day too. Sounded like she wanted to get together for a drink, but I was working and couldn't find a way to sneak out. Shit....might not be a bad idea to have a 'time share' condo d/town for any future rendez-vous........

 

[50 Mile Radius]

If recent events have taught us anything...(NO DISRESPECT INTENDED AT ALL TO YOUR FRIEND) do not let her move in with you.

LMAO....

 

[mrtan]

It always amazes me when I read a post like this and the replies to it.

Uh.. guys... SPs are people too.. they have friends and everything, yep.. they do. And no, they are not always just trying to recruit new clients.

Where's the big surprise?

That said, keep in mind that just like any other friends, if they get themselves into trouble, they might drag you in with them (as we have recently seen).

And yes, do not try to become her pimp, lol.

Uh...ya...SPs are people too. Great observation indeed!

Sorry man if there was no surprise factor in this post for you. I didn't know it was a requirement.

Enough being a cheeky SOB, seriously though, from what I gather from SPs, they tend to keep their professional business & their personal lives separate for the reasons that have been mentioned in the replies above. SPs are generally very good looking people and are selective of who they hang out.

I am just happy that I made the cut and it's been going very well for me.

 

[billy77]

SP to friend .... to fiance

I met my fiance when she was working as an SP. Now we are engaged, expecting a child, and couldn't be happier. She was always a very together lady, who loved to give and receive pleasure, and did it in a very professional manner. She's retired now, and is enjoying civilian life, as there is alot of pressure on these ladies. They are always being evaluated, not for who they are, but how they look and fuck. I know it goes with the territory, but its still a fact. I'm very proud of the time she spent as an SP, as she was very empowered. I love it when she tells me stories about her "whoring" days.

cheers

 

[Randy Whorewald]

I met my fiance when she was working as an SP. Now we are engaged, expecting a child, and couldn't be happier. She was always a very together lady, who loved to give and receive pleasure, and did it in a very professional manner. She's retired now, and is enjoying civilian life, as there is alot of pressure on these ladies. They are always being evaluated, not for who they are, but how they look and fuck. I know it goes with the territory, but its still a fact. I'm very proud of the time she spent as an SP, as she was very empowered. I love it when she tells me stories about her "whoring" days.

cheers

I wish you both all the best billy.

 

[Lurker 123]

I wish you both all the best billy.

Me too!

 

[jimbo2006]

nice

I met my fiance when she was working as an SP. Now we are engaged, expecting a child, and couldn't be happier. She was always a very together lady, who loved to give and receive pleasure, and did it in a very professional manner. She's retired now, and is enjoying civilian life, as there is alot of pressure on these ladies. They are always being evaluated, not for who they are, but how they look and fuck. I know it goes with the territory, but its still a fact. I'm very proud of the time she spent as an SP, as she was very empowered. I love it when she tells me stories about her "whoring" days.

cheers

hmm..inspiring and against all odds!

 

[mrtan]

hmm..inspiring and against all odds!

I second that! Good for you!

 

[alkittylover]

Mr Tan, I enjoyed your post. I also have a SP, who I have seen professionally, who has become a friend. In fact, I no longer see her in her SP capacity. She is one of the top SPs in Van (no name, of course) and I am missing out on great sex as a result of this decision. But, I would be missing out on an even better friend if I had decided to go that route.

We have gone out to several meals together, went to a concert, enjoyed an evening at the Cecil and even spent an evening sleeping (not a euphamism for sex) together at her incall. She is funny, charming, smart, easy to talk to and very generous.

SPs are often very lonely ladies. They want friends, just like everyone else, but the business seems to make that really difficult for some of them. My advice: if any SP wants to become your friend, take her up on her offer. My SP is a very loyal buddy. I can't see myself going back to ever being her client. Hell, there are a lot of SPs in Vancouver. What's one less? But I would be an unhappy man if I were to loose a friend like her.

 

[jimbo2006]

SP Friend

Mr Tan, I enjoyed your post. I also have a SP, who I have seen professionally, who has become a friend. In fact, I no longer see her in her SP capacity. She is one of the top SPs in Van (no name, of course) and I am missing out on great sex as a result of this decision. But, I would be missing out on an even better friend if I had decided to go that route.

We have gone out to several meals together, went to a concert, enjoyed an evening at the Cecil and even spent an evening sleeping (not a euphamism for sex) together at her incall. She is funny, charming, smart, easy to talk to and very generous.

SPs are often very lonely ladies. They want friends, just like everyone else, but the business seems to make that really difficult for some of them. My advice: if any SP wants to become your friend, take her up on her offer. My SP is a very loyal buddy. I can't see myself going back to ever being her client. Hell, there are a lot of SPs in Vancouver. What's one less? But I would be an unhappy man if I were to loose a friend like her.

Hey expo, any thoughts to share on this subject?

 

[expo joe]

Hey expo, any thoughts to share on this subject?

Why me?....I'm just a lonely guy myself.....looking for companionship/ friendship as well.

 

[mrtan]

Mr Tan, I enjoyed your post. I also have a SP, who I have seen professionally, who has become a friend. In fact, I no longer see her in her SP capacity. She is one of the top SPs in Van (no name, of course) and I am missing out on great sex as a result of this decision. But, I would be missing out on an even better friend if I had decided to go that route.

We have gone out to several meals together, went to a concert, enjoyed an evening at the Cecil and even spent an evening sleeping (not a euphamism for sex) together at her incall. She is funny, charming, smart, easy to talk to and very generous.

SPs are often very lonely ladies. They want friends, just like everyone else, but the business seems to make that really difficult for some of them. My advice: if any SP wants to become your friend, take her up on her offer. My SP is a very loyal buddy. I can't see myself going back to ever being her client. Hell, there are a lot of SPs in Vancouver. What's one less? But I would be an unhappy man if I were to loose a friend like her.

Good post man - thx!

Just remember that friends like to have a little fun once in a little while! Watch for the hints bro!

 

[john23]

While I've known a few SPs outside of work I always found it a difficult transition simply because we sort of needed the structure of a session in order to connect. Possibly, I'm suffering from some shame about pooning which is makes it more complicated. I know there is nothing wrong with it if both parties are acting of their own volition but sometimes what you know intellectually isn't the whole of it. However, the last session I had last week we spend a good half hour after talking. That was great. I even offered to pay but was refused