SP talks

[adon100]

Every one mentions acts that they carry out with SPs but the talks with providers are just a casual footnote in all the reviews.
Why do SPs or say any women love to talk? If you read books on "Venus / Mars" series, you get interesting information. Men and women are actually bio-chemical plants with objective of manufacturing different hormones. Men like to produce (no prize for guessing) Testosterone. This helps them get over all the stress that they face in their life. Other activities that produce Testosterone are watching hockey on TV with chilled beer in hand (again no prizes for guessing).

On other hand, women like to produce hormone called Oxytocin. This hormone is produced by (I hate to repeat but no prize for guessing) talking and shopping.
So guys when talking to SPs remember that she helped you produce Testosterone with her services and now wants you to help her produce Oxytocin by talking to her and also by letting her shop around with your donation.

Some guys may feel cheated by this double payback but if SP is good it is all worth it.

Since hormonal payback is not recognized by most , SPs generally insist on financial payback in advance at start of the session. Generally, talking session comes at the end. So it is a bit of customer giving to SP (financial transaction) followed by SP pleasing customer (hormonal transaction) and in end customer saying thanks by talking (hormonal transaction). That would be fair and polite.

However, if a SP takes financial and hormonal payback in advance, she must provide great hormonal payback to customer. Not doing that is unfair to customer SPs also need to realize that customer is in desperate need for hormonal transaction which is further increased when they meet them in private. It is polite for SPs to quickly take care of financial transaction and then customer's hormonal needs before focusing on their own hormonal needs. Men become better listeners and friendly after the act and both will enjoy.

 

[Dgodus]

not really sure of your point. But....

I prefer a little chit chat. A good laugh and a smile are attractive qualities in a woman. Not only that, lends to a much more genuine experience.

But I'm not just looking for strictly sex. Some nice cuddles, convo, comfort are definitly appreciated. Because from experience you cant have a relationship with a woman (other than an sp) where I would want to spend 3 weeks off on my own doing whatever I please however I please and then see them for a day. Because frankly I do not like having that much of an impact on someone else life or them on mine (ie living with a woman if one of you is having a bad day it can sure as hell fuck up the others day). And I generally prefer to just be on my own most of the time and that's not a quality condusive to a relationship.

 

[AngelaAurora]

i will say it again, because we can... why do guys jack off? because they can... and it feels good!

 

[Gentle-man]

I had a session once with very little chat. 5 min get to know you in the door 5 min of kissing on the sofa... 80+ a bit min with 5 shots on goal, I remember this session as shoot, reload, shoot reload, there were even things offered that weren't on the menu (I guess she had a dessert menu). Physically it was a great fun session. The young lady was extremely attractive, skilled and playful. That session was fun but it doesn't compare to a few other sessions with different SPs where I had a great time conversing with the lady... I prefer to enjoy the whole of the session, not just the hole of the session. Don't get me wrong, play time is fun, and primarily why I have booked a session. But it is way more enjoyable when it is an experience instead of just an action.

 

[lenny]

Why do SPs or say any women love to talk? If you read books on "Venus / Mars" series, you get interesting information. Men and women are actually bio-chemical plants with objective of manufacturing different hormones. Men like to produce (no prize for guessing) Testosterone. This helps them get over all the stress that they face in their life. Other activities that produce Testosterone are watching hockey on TV with chilled beer in hand (again no prizes for guessing).

On other hand, women like to produce hormone called Oxytocin. This hormone is produced by (I hate to repeat but no prize for guessing) talking and shopping.

That's why i don't like SP's who talk during a session. I pay to make testosterone, not oxytocin.
If she's making oxy, i'm not making testo and wasting my mulla.

So guys when talking to SPs remember that she helped you produce Testosterone with her services and now wants you to help her produce Oxytocin by talking to her and also by letting her shop around with your donation.

I'm ok with leaving her to talk to herself and go shopping alone.

Some guys may feel cheated by this double payback but if SP is good it is all worth it.

If the conversation is good and on her own time [i'm not paying], then it might be worth it.
Usually it's the opposite IME, like having to endure a whiny life story which she could have
just as easily rehearsed to herself in front of her mirror in the bathroom.

Since hormonal payback is not recognized by most , SPs generally insist on financial payback in advance at start of the session. Generally, talking session comes at the end.

Generally all i need at the end is a smile, hug or kiss goodbye, and "cum again".

 

[Alix Turner]

I had a session once with very little chat. 5 min get to know you in the door 5 min of kissing on the sofa... 80+ a bit min with 5 shots on goal, I remember this session as shoot, reload, shoot reload, there were even things offered that weren't on the menu (I guess she had a dessert menu). Physically it was a great fun session. The young lady was extremely attractive, skilled and playful.

Wow.. where was this? how long ago? can I get a name please? pm is fine.. I just want to make sure she gets this trophy.... and my phone number

 

[Alix Turner]

LOL...I think he was 18 at the time ound:

I guess it all comes down to how old SHE was at the time.. oh, and when gentleman was eighteen
If she was 18... and he isn't in his fifties yet.. things could still be golden.

 

[Gentle-man]

Wow.. where was this? how long ago? can I get a name please? pm is fine.. I just want to make sure she gets this trophy.... and my phone number

Alix I don't like to publicly share that one... check your PM

LOL...I think he was 18 at the time ound:

Sorry no Hunka (I was still waiting for my first at 18) I was 3x at the time

My point in sharing this is just to say that it's not always about the physical, if it were, she would have been my ATF, as it stands she is not.

 

[PlayfulAlex]

Every gal is as different as every guy...so the pooning experience is never going to be predictable.

Some guys do like to talk; I had a long-term visitor who liked to spend the first 30 minutes of his standard 2-hr visit on the couch, talking about his business, his dog, his golf game...you name it. I was the paid-listener.

But I would never talk through half of an appointment if I didn't pick up this cue from the fella. If I think my visitor is nervous or shy or uptight, I offer a massage, to give us a chance to talk and to give him a chance to relax. But in a 30-min appt, that should only take 5-10 minutes. In the hr appt, maybe 15-20 min. Again we have to follow cues, and then be proactive about moving things along.

I think most ladies are conscientious about this, and the fellas should be reasonably clear about their expectations at the outset.

 

[Alix Turner]

Alix I don't like to publicly share that one... check your PM


Sorry no Hunka (I was still waiting for my first at 18) I was 3x at the time

My point in sharing this is just to say that it's not always about the physical, if it were, she would have been my ATF, as it stands she is not.

I think there's a very important balance between the two.

 

[Gentle-man]

Ditto, Alix and I will get her for a duo.

Sorry, you'd also need to include travel She's not from around here

 

[nickcan]

Wow, thanks to the OP for posting this! I love the way you put that together, a great read! I will definitely be going out and picking up that book

On another note... I once had a partner in my romantic life & before sp days began, that in one particular session.. SEVEN times. That is one night I will never forget haha

Did he have balls the size of grapefruits?
I think most guys start to shoot blanks after cumming five times in one day.

 

[vancity_cowboy]

...comfort...

that's the word describing what i look for - good sex and comfort :thumb:

i will say it again, because we can... why do guys jack off? because they can... and it feels good!

i can add to that one - Q: why does a dog lick his balls? A: because he can!

I had a session once with very little chat. 5 min get to know you in the door 5 min of kissing on the sofa... 80+ a bit min with 5 shots on goal...

sheesh, when i grow up i want to be just like you!

 

[storm rider]

No talky talky...or very little anyway....tis why I like my fave micro...no time wasted talking.....just right into the "ME" time...with the lovin attention and all that....talky talk with an agency gal is even worse as she gets the killjoy mood shattering phonecall 15 minutes before the hour is up....take 15-20 minutes spent/wasted on conversation at the front end and you have all of 30 minutes of actual fun time whilst paying for an hour.....that is not good.

SR