SP services
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If you see SPs for the first time who you know are PERB members and tell them your PERB handle I think it helps put them at ease with some familiarity (provided you have some number of posts) and this very well may translate into a better (at least less reserved) session.
But I agree with Duff you certainly cannot assume all SPs are members of PERB or that you will get anything more from even those who are.
But I agree with Duff you certainly cannot assume all SPs are members of PERB or that you will get anything more from even those who are.
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Keep your private identity private and you won't have issues about running into your SP when you're with your SO.
Keep your private identity private and you won't have issues about running into your SP when you're with your SO.
ROFLMAO, hifi. I agree completely with the respect thing. Communicate your needs/desires, and there will be no misunderstandings. Show her by using body language and polite wording that you consider her an equal. Make her feel as comfortable as you can and she'll rock your world!! I speak from experience because I don't preform as well when I am uncomfortable with my partner (pooner). If he cusses lots, or smells of alcohol (I don't mind pot, but I hate booze) or if his body language indicates he thinks he owns the place (like throwing your shirt/jacket on my couch, which is nowhere near the bedroom, which is where you should be! Or proceeding to touch and handle as many things as you can, like my crystals, knick-knacks, etc.) . If you are courteous and friendly (afterall you expect it of the girl, so why not reciprocate?? Its only fair) then the lady will be at ease with you, guaranteed. When she's at ease, she's more likely to give great service than if she's uncomfortable or nervous in any way. We never know what kind of guy's gonna come through the door, so we always have a little alarm system in our heads turned on for protection. By making each other comfortable and relaxed, both parties will enjoy the time together. Equality and balance are the essential to interpersonal relations of any kind. If you can demonstrate this to your partner (pooner, SP or otherwise) you will have a better experience all-round. You'll leave feeling like you've made a connection with another human being (which to me is the ultimate) and you'll also have gratifying sex. I have not had (to my memory) anyone tell me they were a Perbert before seeing me. Only afterwards do I find out, if at all. I try to give everyone the same level of experience, but in reality, some guys don't make it easy!
lol...... I was just emphasizing the main point. Respect, respect, respect. Its a two way street, and I have seen all too many gents who think its a one way street and I have to dodge traffic. Sorry, taiga, I am prone to rants on topics I feel strongly about.
