SP relations
- Thread starter Kimura
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Isn't this topic better suited for The Lounge?
I feel it may be unavoidable to have one sort of issue or another. Comparing to real life full-time relationships, there is much less face time and opportunity for frank communication. Even if both sides are reasonable and excellent communicators, a big if.
I was always very careful about not going too far with my feelings. On the flip side, the SP may feel insecure / underappreciated if you put limits on your positive reaction.
One lesson I learned is to be very perceptive about the possible feedback SPs may try to convey. They'd be naturally cautious not to offend a client. This is on top of more subtle and delicate style of women in general in comparison to men. So even if she tried to tell you earlier you had a problem, it could be very easy for you to miss the message, unless you pay attention and remember she would try very hard not to offend you.
Similarly, it's important not to appear pushy by saying or asking the same thing again, if it was not encouraged the first time. She could have chosen to ignore an unpleasant topic rather than challenge you, and the second time she may feel you are ignoring the hint.
I feel it may be unavoidable to have one sort of issue or another. Comparing to real life full-time relationships, there is much less face time and opportunity for frank communication. Even if both sides are reasonable and excellent communicators, a big if.
I was always very careful about not going too far with my feelings. On the flip side, the SP may feel insecure / underappreciated if you put limits on your positive reaction.
One lesson I learned is to be very perceptive about the possible feedback SPs may try to convey. They'd be naturally cautious not to offend a client. This is on top of more subtle and delicate style of women in general in comparison to men. So even if she tried to tell you earlier you had a problem, it could be very easy for you to miss the message, unless you pay attention and remember she would try very hard not to offend you.
Similarly, it's important not to appear pushy by saying or asking the same thing again, if it was not encouraged the first time. She could have chosen to ignore an unpleasant topic rather than challenge you, and the second time she may feel you are ignoring the hint.
Just a hunch based on all your reviews. 
Two words...restraining order.
And no....when it comes to escorts we ALL have not fallen for someone and crossed the line. In fact I would say most of us have not.
It is purely a business relationship. If you are led to believe it is more than that then the odds are that she is a great actress.
And no....when it comes to escorts we ALL have not fallen for someone and crossed the line. In fact I would say most of us have not.
It is purely a business relationship. If you are led to believe it is more than that then the odds are that she is a great actress.
Even if you fall for an SP, you must always remember that
1. It's a business relationship to begin with
2. No matter how "down to earth" or "real" you think this girl is, she's still playing a character that she wants you to see.
1. It's a business relationship to begin with
2. No matter how "down to earth" or "real" you think this girl is, she's still playing a character that she wants you to see.
The above responses being said, what about situations where the SP initiates taking it beyond the business sphere and then realizes or thinks she realizes that she might have committed her own privacy breach? Just playing devil’s advocate...
