SP asking for service expectations
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Although I haven't done it myself, the first thing that would occur to me is that the provider in question wants it absolutely cut & dry out in the open that YOU will not ask HER to do anything that she has not explicitly agreed to do in advance of seeing you. This could be for 2 reasons, to my mind.
1) She's acutely conscious about reading reviews that say things like "I thought that DATO would be on her menu for sure, but she wouldn't even let me put my tongue in her MOUTH, let alone..."
2) She's acutely conscious about informed consent, and in advance of the appointment, wants to know that you will not ask her to do in advance yada yada...
Either way, she is looking to ensure you won't spring anything on her, I'd say.
1) She's acutely conscious about reading reviews that say things like "I thought that DATO would be on her menu for sure, but she wouldn't even let me put my tongue in her MOUTH, let alone..."
2) She's acutely conscious about informed consent, and in advance of the appointment, wants to know that you will not ask her to do in advance yada yada...
Either way, she is looking to ensure you won't spring anything on her, I'd say.
As awkward as that conversation may be, I think it's worth having once and for all prior to getting together. Once in person both parties can relax and trust there is an agreement on what may and may not take place.
I think your ladies are looking to make sure your playtime isn't interrupted by a loud "what do you think you're doing??"
and making sure everything goes along naturally.
I think your ladies are looking to make sure your playtime isn't interrupted by a loud "what do you think you're doing??"
and making sure everything goes along naturally.^ When her hand goes a little to far in the crack of my ass, it's usually me that says "What do you think your doing?!"......Yeah...It can be awkward.
Exactly , well said.
I asked a few times when I know the the gent on the fone is really lost , I just simply ask.
Most gentlemen don't read our website, they rather call and ask everything.
Would be nice if they read a review here and there from our website, it would be easier for both of us and they would know what to wait for
)...I never had anyone ask ME what I thought I was doing when my hands wandered in that direction! They always seemed to know perfectly well what I thought i was doing! :nod:
Clarity and communication are always the most important aspects of any relationship.
I don't provide explicit details on my site or through email, but always welcome serious inquiries when we speak on the phone. As long as the question is broached in a polite and respectful manner.
It is really important to me that anybody I meet with has an exceptional time, and communication is key to ensuring that happens.
The internet is a huge place, and we all have a lot written about us that may or may not be true. I can't verify the veracity of anything other than my own writings, so if something is important to a gentleman, I would much rather he asked me politely and directly if that is a possibility, so I we can avoid any confusion or disappointment.
I don't provide explicit details on my site or through email, but always welcome serious inquiries when we speak on the phone. As long as the question is broached in a polite and respectful manner.
It is really important to me that anybody I meet with has an exceptional time, and communication is key to ensuring that happens.
The internet is a huge place, and we all have a lot written about us that may or may not be true. I can't verify the veracity of anything other than my own writings, so if something is important to a gentleman, I would much rather he asked me politely and directly if that is a possibility, so I we can avoid any confusion or disappointment.
I have no doubt in my mind about your wandering hands...
When ours sometimes wander as well and the menu says you can...you get a NO even though the $ have been surrendered.
Lol. Yes cloverdale has one in particular that likes to travel in that direction. Excellent service mindyou.
Although I have never been asked this (many of the ladies don't have that level of English capability), I would think this is an entirely reasonable question to ask right at the beginning before getting into the session. Ensures there is clarity of expectations on both sides and no unexpected surprises. Maybe it has potential to dampen the atmosphere, but with reticence in sharing too much information by phone or email ahead of time (along with the circumspect nature of many websites), then it isn't unreasonable that both parties have the same expectations.
Come on boys if you don't ask you don't get. Simple.
Because of the nature of mt longer dates I tend to stay with the ladies that give me what I like.
Every once in a while I need a new lady. Here I try and establish a email connection. Many are volume ladies and if they can not invest in a few emails then they will not want to hang out with me. So once that is established I set up a meet and greet. Some charge $100 to $200 depending on the lady. Small price when you consider I will drop $1,000 to $5,000. Just did an event with a lady that was priceless. It was just over $5,000. All things considered it was amazing.
Once we establish a bond we can jump into the fantasy. But I normally do not discuss it over the phone but it can come up in an email.
But if you do not share what you want how does the SP know?
I make it very clear what I want and I try to find out from the SP what she really want before. I have A SP joining me in London and at our last event I asked I can spend the $1,000 on the event or give another $1,000 what would like? She told me should can make $1,000 in 4 hours but the event was something she can not buy.
So you got to find a way to communicate back and forth what you want at least. I find if you find out what they want it makes it that much better. Just my thoughts.
Because of the nature of mt longer dates I tend to stay with the ladies that give me what I like.
Every once in a while I need a new lady. Here I try and establish a email connection. Many are volume ladies and if they can not invest in a few emails then they will not want to hang out with me. So once that is established I set up a meet and greet. Some charge $100 to $200 depending on the lady. Small price when you consider I will drop $1,000 to $5,000. Just did an event with a lady that was priceless. It was just over $5,000. All things considered it was amazing.
Once we establish a bond we can jump into the fantasy. But I normally do not discuss it over the phone but it can come up in an email.
But if you do not share what you want how does the SP know?
I make it very clear what I want and I try to find out from the SP what she really want before. I have A SP joining me in London and at our last event I asked I can spend the $1,000 on the event or give another $1,000 what would like? She told me should can make $1,000 in 4 hours but the event was something she can not buy.
So you got to find a way to communicate back and forth what you want at least. I find if you find out what they want it makes it that much better. Just my thoughts.
One SP (Beautiful Mila in DT) asked me something at the start of the session, that kind of took me by a surprise, and it was, "Do you have any restrictions?" Usually it is the other way isn't? "NO", was my answer.
As far as set of Cloverdale hands, tongue, mouth wandering to my ... whatever part of the body is concerned I have no problem with that. I guess I believe in the good old, "Men don't say no."
But yes, to avoid any awkward moments, it is best to clarify all the "no no's and yes yes's" before the session commences.
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"NO", was my answer. As far as set of Cloverdale hands, tongue, mouth wandering to my ... whatever part of the body is concerned I have no problem with that. I guess I believe in the good old, "Men don't say no."
But yes, to avoid any awkward moments, it is best to clarify all the "no no's and yes yes's" before the session commences.
T8E
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Larry Storch
Usually I'll ask what their restrictions are and then don't venture into that territory.
You just gave me goose bumps.
