So uh…how do you guys do this?

[LC18]

I was curious and I was wondering. I know a lot of you are in serious relationships and have to be careful. I have two questions:

1. Do you guys see escorts at home or only when you travel out of the city/province/country?

2. Do you prefer incall or outcall?

 

[Ray]

At home or away.
Incall only. Never, ever to my home.

 

[Mr. J]

As I'm not attached and live in a small city, I go into the big city for the action. Always incall.

 

[GeeBeeP]

I started seeing escorts when I was in other cities for work, and swore I’d never do it anywhere close to home. Away outcall or incall to a hotel. likely 50/50 depending on the city.

When I stopped traveling as much for work I broke the rule and now see a few girls in my home city, but always incall and I’m very careful about being discreet. I prefer condo incalls with a buzz in entry to hotels where I might be seen in a lobby by someone I know.

 

[white Ninja]

I started seeing escorts when I was in other cities for work, and swore I’d never do it anywhere close to home. Away outcall or incall to a hotel. likely 50/50 depending on the city.

When I stopped traveling as much for work I broke the rule and now see a few girls in my home city, but always incall and I’m very careful about being discreet. I prefer condo incalls with a buzz in entry to hotels where I might be seen in a lobby by someone I know.

I simply avoid neighbourhoods where I know a lot of peeps, including my own .
Also, I find the rainy season makes me feel a little less concerned about run ins . A little…

 

[white Ninja]

Outcall or incall if I am traveling, it really doesn't matter when I am in a hotel. Often incall can be less expensive and if the session involves toys/outfits incall just be more convenient.

At home, always incall. I have seen and heard too many horror stories about outcalls to guys' homes where the lady causes a scene, extorts money to not cause a scene, steals stuff and worse. I would have to know you well and trust you to have you into my home.

An old friend way back in the day had a rule, no play within 50 miles of home, outside that radius, it was full throttle. Long since retired and gone now of course.

Funny how most would never have that concern even meeting a rando hookup off of tinder

 

[Bollsdeap]

It's almost exclusively in my hometown for me. Waiting until I travel just wouldn't happen often enough. But I've gotten to know the local scene pretty well and know the areas that are discreet and safe. Still, the thrill of the danger is a bit of the draw for me.

The thing you have to do, is always have a story ready if you are in an area where someone might recognize you. Know what you are going to say if you are asked what you are doing in a certain spot. When you look like you're trying to come up with an answer, you're getting busted for sure.

 

[musclebro]

It's almost exclusively in my hometown for me. Waiting until I travel just wouldn't happen often enough. But I've gotten to know the local scene pretty well and no the areas that are discreet and safe. Still, the thrill of the danger is a bit of the draw for me.

The thing you have to do, is always have a story ready if you are in an area where someone might recognize you. Know what you are going to say if you are asked what you are doing in a certain spot. When you look like you're trying to come up with an answer, you're getting busted for sure.

yeah keep the "im buying something off of someone from kijiji" excuse in the back pocket.
im not in a relationship but alot of these incalls are in very populated buildings these days, dont wanna run into someone I know, although its never happened.
Definitely easier to disguise yourself in the winter time with a hoodie etc.

 

[musclebro]

not in a relaionship but if you dont wanna run into SP's in the wild, stay away from the high end gyms and fitness studios downtown lol I swear they all go to the same ones, makes for some awkward eye contact avoidance

 

[PedroParamo]

Relationship with permissiveness but the boundary is that I am to use only incalls. Sometimes outcall but that just means the incall is on me.

 

[kinnsami]

Only go to very well reviewed consumers. Never e-transfer EVER because that’s real info you’re giving out. Don’t go to any neighborhoods people will know you, or know your partner. Only pay cash. Always message your partner at some point after and say “just got back from the XYZ offline activity.” Get into a habit of “journaling offline” for an hour or so here and there. Maybe even a text “hope you’re having a good day, I’m gonna shut down early, go to the gym, do some reading, tty tmr!”
That’s obvs if not living with the person.
same principles more or less if living, but that’s trickier.

 

[white Ninja]

If in a LTR , don’t break your usual routines .
if you tend to go for a hike on your own every Sat , skip the hike and see your sp. if you tend to go into the office once a month on a Sun then on said Sun kick off a bit early to see your sp .
Unusual and new hrs being out late or “working late” tends to raise suspicion.

 

[kinnsami]

Absolutely agree, don’t break usual routines. That’s more or less what I was saying with “journaling and go offline.”

 

[Big_Guy_Rye]

1. Do you guys see escorts at home or only when you travel out of the city/province/country?

By home, you mean 'hometown or city'? Cuz bringing an escort to your actual house is stupid for a lot of reasons. But yes, one of many golden rules aside from that, is "don't shit where you eat". Not a good idea to hobby so close to your home, even if the main 'stroll' of your area in right around the corner, best to leave town or go to the far side of the city to browse around.

2. Do you prefer incall or outcall?

Incall preferably. This hobby is costly as it is, and adding to the cost of renting out your own room isn't ideal when you need to in a pinch. Girls I want to see have their Incalls set up, whether it's their condo, or a deal they made with hotel management....

Outcalls aren't a hard 'no', I would have to be convinced that the person I'm requesting is professional and discreet. I wouldn't pick the first provider that says yes, I'd do my research and take my chance like that.

 

[LC18]

I prefer condo incalls with a buzz in entry to hotels where I might be seen in a lobby by someone I know.

Very good point! Condos, airbnbs are more discrete

 

[masterpoonhunter]

I was curious and I was wondering. I know a lot of you are in serious relationships and have to be careful. I have two questions:

1. Do you guys see escorts at home or only when you travel out of the city/province/country?

2. Do you prefer incall or outcall?

1) Have been pooning for decades pretty much where ever I happen to be and over the years have spent a lot of time on the road.
2) From experience, I would say I have learned to like incalls better as it gives me better control of my time. I had found many outcalls had a variance in time as in an hour or two etc, that was frustrating to say the least.

 

[Pgup]

It's almost exclusively in my hometown for me. Waiting until I travel just wouldn't happen often enough. But I've gotten to know the local scene pretty well and know the areas that are discreet and safe. Still, the thrill of the danger is a bit of the draw for me.

The thing you have to do, is always have a story ready if you are in an area where someone might recognize you. Know what you are going to say if you are asked what you are doing in a certain spot. When you look like you're trying to come up with an answer, you're getting busted for sure.

Picking up some used stuff from a marketplace seller. Never gets old.

 

[Pgup]

yeah keep the "im buying something off of someone from kijiji" excuse in the back pocket.
im not in a relationship but alot of these incalls are in very populated buildings these days, dont wanna run into someone I know, although its never happened.
Definitely easier to disguise yourself in the winter time with a hoodie etc.

One good thing that Covid brought was masks. Use to your advantage.

 

[bigballs55]

Always incalls whether traveling or local. I prefer apartments or condos where you need to buzz in. However, sometimes I will go to hotels, but only if they are a very reputable perb advertising providers.

 

[badbadboy]

Pre- Covid I would visit incalls when in Vancouver. Occasionally do a hotel date with SP’s I’ve been seeing regularly. Calgary, Edmonton and Victoria I’d visit incalls with occasional visits to my hotel. Never in US due to their draconian sex laws. No matter how tempting it was I’d scurry off to my hotel.