So I'm Kinda Confused

[NDog090]

First Off,
I hope everyone had an awesome Christmas.

Anyways, today I messaged a new local regular whom I have seen a few times. Great session, and shes super friendly. So I messaged her to set up a time when she replied, "I don't want to see you, please delete my number". I'm sitting here thinking, "what did I do?" I honestly don't get why she would keep seeing me a few times then suddenly doesn't want to, yet she still posts an ad.

Sucks she couldn't be honest and tell me why. Anyone else have this happen in their life?

 

[Jethro Bodine]

As long as your idea of a great session doesn't involve wiping your dick off on her new lace curtains when you finish, here are 3 reasons I can think of:
1) If you have treated her well in the past and had great sessions perhaps she has discovered she has feelings for you. She recognises that it is improper and the easest solution is to cut you out of her life before things evolve further.
2) She has you confused with someone else whom she does not want to see. I had this happen to me many years ago. We did finally get it straightened out but I was a bit confused when a lady I had seen several times suddenly told me not to call her again and lose her number.
3) She had retired and the site where she runs her ad is slow to remove it or keeps automatically renewing it. I've seen ads on EC run for weeks after a lady has quit or moved on.

Cheers

 

[Caramel]

Only she can tell you why, you should ask her?

What kind of sessions did you have, was it action packed, PSE and using the entire time slot etc etc, or was it just regular sex in a timely manner and "easy" for her, sometimes they will tough it out and do a good job but after a while they do not want to do it again so they cut off all contact. And it can be hard to tell from prior sessions.

Maybe she has you confused with someone else so you should double check, and did you write a review about her?

 

[NDog090]

It was a PSE, lots of kissing, oral, etc. I was going to ask her why after her text but I decided just to end it there. I guess it may be #2 as Jethro suggested.

 

[Caramel]

It was a PSE, lots of kissing, oral, etc. I was going to ask her why after her text but I decided just to end it there. I guess it may be #2 as Jethro suggested.

yeah so maybe she has decided she does not want to do that anymore and just wants to stick with GFE clients? Hmmm

 

[felixthecat]

There are many possible explanations, I doubt you can figure it out by yourself. For example:

- She found you have common friends or otherwise connected;
- She thought something was wrong with your payment last time;
- She expected a tip;
- You reviewed her and said something she didn't like, or told it to somebody else;
- You negatively reviewed, or said something negative about her friend;
- You saw or positively reviewed her enemy (yes, drama can go quite far);
- She was turned off by something in the last session (with PSE, easy to happen) but kept happy face.

 

[johnsmit]

If she knows your handle ,and frequents perb..then probably you posted something that she did not like ..just looking at your post I could see a few things that might pass a SP off.

Just a note if you see someone regularly and you have a great time with them , don't post reviews or questions about other girls if your still planing to see her .Reality is they are women and they do get jealous even if you are only a client. It no different in every day life when as a contractor or salesman you have a long time client take there business to someone else with out a reason .

 

[Warl0ck]

I don't want to see you, please delete my number

Why she said this is moot. It's a clear message to "leave me alone" and it's carved in stone.

 

[Kamloopsbc]

And sometimes it is the simple answer of 'Women can act crazy'
I have sisters, female friends, and almost 2000 female employees, so I know it to be true.
One former employee got mad and yelled at me over her Christmas bonus a few weeks ago.
Only reason I can think of is she is nutso.....the rest all thanked me.

 

[Jethro Bodine]

One former employee got mad and yelled at me over her Christmas bonus a few weeks ago.

Is that why she is a "former employee?" LOL!
Perhaps she didn't like the "Upsize any Combo for free" coupon from the local cinema you found under the front seat of your car?

 

[Cock Throppled]

I always thought keeping regulars was the goal of most career SP's, but this year, two long-term SP's lost me as a client.

One dumped me, the other I stopped seeing.

First, let me say I am always polite and respectful, never push boundaries, don't negotiate, and am always on time and freshly-cleaned.

The first SP I had been seeing every 2 months or so for about 3 years and neither of us seemed to have any issues. One time I decided to visit her at night (I'm usually a daytime guy). At her door I heard loud arguing and threats to call police. I left and quickly texted her explaining I was spooked, and didn’t feel comfortable going there. She told me I wasted her time and not to bother calling again. Not only did I find her reaction surprising and unprofessional, but she completely failed to understand how nervous clients can be in strange situations, even places we’ve been before. I appreciate SP’s can feel the same, too, so have always made sure to never do or say anything to make an SP feel uncomfortable. and I thought I did the right thing in trying to explain, rather than no- show.

The second SP I've been seeing for six years about every month. We got along great, her service was just what I wanted, we had great conversations and she often insisted I go over time so we could continue to talk. We even socialized some outside of appointments. In the past she has cancelled at the last minute, or kept me waiting up to an hour past our arranged times. Since the distance I have to travel is quite great, this has sometimes caused me problems, but l overlooked them. We had recently scheduled an appointment for a Wednesday afternoon. I texted Tuesday to confirm, again Wednesday morning and left two voice mails. Never got a response. I made other plans, and will in the future.

Isn't a client you know, and are comfortable with less stressful than meeting someone new?

 

[westwoody]

I bet your wife has snooped in your phone and found your sp's contact info. Called her up. Now your sp is staying away.

This happens all the time.

 

[NDog090]

I bet your wife has snooped in your phone and found your sp's contact info. Called her up. Now your sp is staying away.

This happens all the time.

Nope, I'm single. Don't have the time for a girlfriend.

 

[VanessainVictoria]

You smell bad? Sorry, everyone else said what I was thinking. ��

 

[westcoast555]

First Off,
I hope everyone had an awesome Christmas.

Anyways, today I messaged a new local regular whom I have seen a few times. Great session, and shes super friendly. So I messaged her to set up a time when she replied, "I don't want to see you, please delete my number". I'm sitting here thinking, "what did I do?" I honestly don't get why she would keep seeing me a few times then suddenly doesn't want to, yet she still posts an ad.

Sucks she couldn't be honest and tell me why. Anyone else have this happen in their life?

She's got the numbers mixed up most likely.

 

[NDog090]

Apparently, shes very picky and a train wreck, as I found out from a friend. Basically she dislikes guys with "bad vibes"

 

[Stamkos]

Apparently, shes very picky and a train wreck, as I found out from a friend. Basically she dislikes guys with "bad vibes"

So, don't lose any sleep over it.
It's her prerogative, even if she's picky or a train wreck, it doesn't matter. She made the call, live with it.
Lots of great ladies out there. Time to move along....

 

[Warl0ck]

Apparently, shes very picky and a train wreck, as I found out from a friend. Basically she dislikes guys with "bad vibes"

Not saying you're a bad person man, but do understand these women listen to their instincts because a lot of time that's all they have. So they'd sooner error on the side of caution than end up with something bad happening.

 

[NDog090]

Wow, what a lowlife c*nt. She just texted me calling me a bunch of comedic names and saying, "women wouldn't wanna see you, blah blah blah, your a loser. blah blah blah." I never LOLed so much. Said to myself, "what a troll". *blocks the number*

 

[golferjohn]

me thinks there's much more to this story