so i saw my sp last night.

[sevenofnine]

so i saw my sp last night,

nice time as always great time actually.
we did some different stuff and got into different things and as always great conversation.

but i wanted to comment on cute angies thread that was closed about rude client.

yeah, my sp, i have seen her for years and its kind of hard to believe that there is new ground to explore with her sexually. i guess im just slow

but any way we did something different, and i was so worried if it was ok, i kept asking her,
i can get that way asking my sp is she ok is she ok, and again is she ok

that she finally wants to tell me to shut up allready

but yeah no means no.
and if your doing some thing different with an sp that is out of the norm at least for the two of you, then its polite to ask but don't be anal like me and ask over and over again\\

sorry but i can be anal about how much i worry about my sp or sps in general

its a good thing why ruin it by being a jerk,
i try to be as nice as i can,

because well treat people as you would like to be treated right

doesn't always work,
but its a starting point

 

[dizzybiker]

Agree fully., I also have a very regular SP for over 5 years.., but by now I am almost afraid to even ask her about trying "new" things, and by new not so much nowadays ... But she has very strict guidelines that I have always followed. But it is time to move on...? Because there are some real dam good girls out there ( yes I tend to wander at times)... So some of or rather one girl I ended up seeing, totally rocked my world .., she was on the other end of the safe scale. Now I should have know better but the little head always over rules the big head. So now I am in a hard spot.. Well lucky me a new girl that totally rocks my world ( but I am concerned) over a safe steady fuck, Hot as hell but same old stuff.
So should I approach her ( my 5 year girl) and say guess what my now we need to spice it up? Or do I wait until I have her all warmed up...look her in the eyes... And ask permission to either explore deeper or ?
What do u think cutie?

 

[Umbras]

Don't be afraid to ask, honesty especially after 5 years should be easy between you both.

Also you would be surprised at how many women have thier own desires and fantasies, just discuss it sand see if she is ok with what you propose, hell it might possibly even turn her on more(Although your description of her strict guidlines,maybe not). If she is not willing or not intrested,ce la vi and it is totaly in your rights to wander, the two of you are not a couple and in all honesty it's good to have a taste from the fruits of the bounty of beauties here.

 

[sevenofnine]

Um yes I can get annoying asking my sp if she is ok,
I think she just thinks its cute to be honest with you
And I'm for sure the biggest dork that she knows.

I guess that says something not sure what.

I'm Not that bad any more
We have known each other and seen each other regularly for years
And you go through different comfort levels.
When you know some one that long, physically and emotionally
Especially I guess if you book long sessions supper dates and stuff.
Trust friendship etc, all become well part of it.
And yeah you move we move through different levels \

I wander I saw a new sp recently the first one in almost two years,
And I have seen sps on both end of the spectrum raunchy saucy wild porn star the most amazing porn star ever actually.;
To me honestly I don’t know why guys get hooked on services.
To me it’s the women, it’s the women giving me the blow job that turns me on.
Not whether she is bare back or going to swallow,

We talked about this me and my sp, last time I saw her,
And I told he I saw a young twenty something girl I met on arrangement seekers. And she my sp is a very conservative gfe girl and she knows I saw, a raunchy pse girl

And it comes down to what you want in this hobby.
You want some twenty something or a blonde playboy big busted thing,
Or a wild raunchy whore, that will just take and fuck you to your begging her to stop,
Its all there, what ever you want there is a girl out there that will offer it to you.

Me I wan t some one that I enjoy being with, we can talk have a conversation, a coffee, a bottle of wine, supper, I can tell her whats on my mind without any reservations, what ever its about. My sp is my friend first, and we have worked that out over the years.
And sexually I don't have a problem getting all horny when my friend someone I have known for years, we change gears and move into her bedroom for some playtime, she doesn't get boring at all, she just gets more amazing even after five years plus. And safe gfe, all the time.

Its not the blow job whether its bare back or covered, or I cim,
It’s the women giving it. Whether she is some one I like trust enjoy as a friend, or some girl I just saw her ad and I happen to feel horny.

Its just me, but I would rather have an sp that is my friend first.

And seven of nine is from startrek,