So I got caught.

[sevenofnine]

Seeing my sp last night I got found out.

Im not going to go into any details.

The only reason why I post this is.
There seems a lot of reluctance to post anything negative about this hobby.

I think if your married, you have to think very long and hard about what your doing.
At some point you will get found out and have to face the music.

Im not sure how this is going to turn out, and its personal not really going to share or going to go into details. Because it well involves other people not just me, and I think they need there space there privacy with out me ranting on about this and that.


Like I said if your married think long and hard, ok.

 

[adon100]

My case is not so bad. My wife sort of knows what I am doing and does not seem to mind as long as this activity is not excessive.

 

[Oliver Clozov]

"There seems a lot of reluctance to post anything negative about this hobby."

When I read your post i chuckled at this sentence that you wrote. In your warning about others we may effect in our choices you still use the word hobby for this activity. In my opinion using the word hobby soft sells the activity of hiring prostitutes. If you have a spouse or committed partner and are choosing to be with postitutes without your partner knowing you are being unfair to your partner and probably yourself as well.

I don't think your situation is funny at all. I feel for you as I went through a situation of being caught as well. Best of luck in whatever happens for you. It is what it is.

 

[VanessaofBC]

Honey, wow.

Sounds like its time for couples therapy?

 

[Man in Submission]

Only a matter of time significant others have a way of finding out.

Follow the electronic trail. No need to hire a PI to figure it out anymore. It's not so easy to cover your tracks what with social media and everything. I do a lot of silly, naïve things but at least I waited till my spouse and I split in Jan., even though I was aching to be dommed for a long time. Just didn't want to walk that tightrope as my ex was capable of doing some insane things if she found out I was even thinking about it! If my friends or family were to find out now, oh well... life goes on..

Sevenofnine, I sure hope things turn out best for you. Maybe in some ways it's best certain things are out in the open. Good luck ... hey you've got this place to vent and a lot of folks here wiling to listen.:thumb:

 

[Unpossible]

 

[Sonny]

Only a matter of time significant others have a way of finding out.

I have never been caught pooning when I have been in relationships, but caught in affairs... well, twice.
Just lack of attention to detail on my part. Pooning is safer than affairs as no one wants to see you all the time.

Pooning whilst relationship-involved is still high risk, but then there is usually a reason for pursuing the "hobby".
Fixable reason or not?
Maybe.... errrrrrr, but honestly, often not, although folks sometimes just postpone the inevitable.
Or someone remains unhappily together a long time.

Sorry (not) for the bluntness.

 

[Sonny]

Deny, Deny, Deny

Other movie..... Lucky Number Slevin

Can you do a clip of that famous "denial" when Slevin walks in on his girlfriend getting fucked doggy? Too funny!

Slevin's Girlfriend: [after Slevin walks in on her cheating on him] This is an accident.

Slevin: What, like... He tripped, you fell?

 

[GATSBY]

Shaggy: "You let her catch you? ... Say it wasn't you."

 

[rexxx]

Why would I want advice from someone who didn't consider the consequences of his actions until he got caught?

 

[Scavenger]

All the best. Hope it works out for you. For me, my wife knows what I get up to and as long as I keep it to once in a while she is ok with it. She thinks all men are pigs and a it is to be expected. She would rather know what I am doing than find out after the fact. Spices up out sex life too!

 

[nickcan]

All the best. Hope it works out for you. For me, my wife knows what I get up to and as long as I keep it to once in a while she is ok with it. She thinks all men are pigs and a it is to be expected. She would rather know what I am doing than find out after the fact. Spices up out sex life too!

Wow, most women would divorce and take half.

 

[Oliver Clozov]

Why would I want advice from someone who didn't consider the consequences of his actions until he got caught?

Because they may have the best advice. I don't recall seven of nine saying anything about whether he did or didn't consider the consequences. He might have and made his choice and is living with the consequences now.

Have you ever considered the consequences of your actions and still made a choice that ended up hurting you or people that you love?

 

[VanessaofBC]

interesting...

I like the very last line

"...he made the commitment."

 

[1nitestan]

Like I said if your married think long and hard, ok.

That's kinda what got you into this predicament in the first place LOL

 

[Plude]

With every action comes with consequences. Ex. Sports; injuries. Nothing is perfect, its how you want to live.

Sorry to hear you got caught, hope everything will be okay soon