Since most SPs don't allow blocked/private/pay phone calls, email, yaddax3

[youngninnocent]

WTF are you suppose to do if you don't want to call from work or home?

What if I don't want someone to have my home number or know where I work due to call display?

 

[teejay69]

If your number is really that important to you - get yourself a pay as you go then. Google you own number to see how "private" it really is to you. If you cannot justify that - then stick with the MP.

The other option is to use Skype. It should show up as a local call but will do you no good if you need to call when you get to the incall location.

 

[youngninnocent]

OK I googled my phone number and nothing came up... What should I have expected to see?
Also I'd have a hard time explaining a sudden and random purchase of another cell phone, lol.

Is it common that you have have to call before you arrive at your appointment?

Don't let my reg date fool you, I have still yet to "poon".

 

[rachellexo]

It hits the shreader anyways!

For a lot of SPs your number isn't for contact. If you tell an SP not to call you back on your number they wont. your number, I find, is usually just for safety and the SPs state of mind. If anything happens during your call (physical abuse, verbal abuse) the SP at least has your contact info to warn other SPs and/or a higher power. On top of that a lot of SPs get prank calls and no shows from private numbers, which just hurts business.

So really, if letting an SP have your number makes them feel more safe/comfortable then I dont see the harm. Its not like they keep your number for references... It usually gets written on a sticky note or log book and eventually hits the shreader!

And yes, for most SPs you do have to call and confirm an appointment, aswell as call when you arrive at there door!

 

[rachellexo]

And as pay as you go gos..

You can also purchase a pay as you go phone and when you do this there is no records or phone bills. In otherwards you can buy the phone, set it up under "John Smith" and then add a $10 card whenever you choose to go pooning! Turn off the phone when you are done, bondabingbodaboo... Your set!

 

[HB40]

bondabingbodaboo... Your set!

LMAO...it took me a couple of tries to word that one out...badda bing badda boo

 

[rachellexo]

Hahahahaha..... Snappy aint it?

 

[youngninnocent]

Too bad the one thing that gives SP's peace of mind is the one thing that removes it from me. Don't get me wrong, I see the reasons why and such, but...well yeah, it doesn't make me feel better. I'd have so much to lose, it's a trust I'm not comfortable giving to just anyone.

So just for my further education. The second call right before the appointment, can that be from a pay phone or whatever?

Oh yeah wtf is a MP?

 

[rachellexo]

It all depends on the SP. But I know myself, and many others, wont accept payphones.

I'm telling you, if you want to hit the easy button for this one then walk over to London drugs and pay $60 on a pay as you go phone. If you go with Telus it even comes with $50 free minutes when you sign up online! ...Its a win win situation!

And bondabingbodaboo... Your stylin

 

[HB40]

I can understand your concern youngninnocent.
It is not an issue for me, but if someone were to scrutinize my phone bill it wouldn't be hard to figure out what I've been up to.
I guess if I was really worried about it I'd get a pay as you go phone...and Bob's your uncle.

badda bing badda boo

 

[namssa]

youngninnocent, MP= Massage Parlour.

I had the same concern as you do when I started pooning. I did not want anything SP related to show up on my work, home, or cell number and did not want to have to explain anything (to the S/O) about what I was up to if she saw my cell phone bill.

When I renewed my cell phone contract, I upgraded my phone to a new one. Kept my old cell phone in a drawer for a while, and when I started pooning I took the old phone, got a Telus "Pay as You Go" card and a couple minutes on the computer to set it up and you are stylin'!

You can put whatever name you like on the phone, and no one is really the wiser. You can put as many minutes on as you like and can use a long distance card if need be. Everyone is happy, you have a discrete number to call from and the S/P has your number. I think it costs like $10.00-$15.00 to change your phone number should you have some unkind callbacks from someone. The only problem with the extra phone is to keep it out of the way of prying eyes, ie: your S/O and explaining why you have said phone. If you need to lose the phone, you are only out the amount of the minutes you put on the phone.

So if you have an extra phone, use it, or go buy one at 7-11 or whatever. Just make sure you have an explanation (plausible denial) ready, should whoever you don't want to find the phone finds the phone. As far as I know that is about the only realistic solution.

 

[Katlyn]

yep, I agree with what everyone else has said. Pay as you go is fine but you need an unblocked number. For me, in the half hour before an appointment I will NOT answer a call unless it is the client so I need to know what number they will be calling from.

 

[Violet]

MP = massage parlour. Massage parlours & agencies will accept blocked numbers or payphones. But there are also independents who will accept them as well.

If you have your heart set on seeing an indie who doesn't accept blocked/payphone calls, all you can do is research her reputation beforehand, if she has been around for a while & has positive reviews, she would likely never call you. Why would she? Then tell her, just to make sure for your peace of mind, to please never call you. Chances are she will be shocked that you would even think that she would do that. SPs are not dumb, nor would they ever maliciously call you just to out you to your wife or boss. Another thing you can do is, if you are doing an incall (& the SP doesn't require ID or a real name, most don't), is use a fake name, so in the highly unlikely chance that she ever did for some bizarre reason call you, she will be asking for the wrong name & it will be easy to say it was a wrong number.

There is also the possibility of borrowing someone's phone to make the call (a friend, a restaurant), & there are also many independents who will take bookings by email.

I know you think you have "too much to lose", but I honestly think that (as long as you stick with reputable well-known SPs) you have absolutely nothing to worry about. The SP has just as much as you, if not more, to lose, & many feel that not accepting blocked or payphone calls is just a small way to help protect themselves from the many risks that can come with this job. They do not do this so that they can call you.

 

[no regrets]

I don't really agree with the whole no blocked calls thing. It's not a safety issue at all. I don't think there is any reason for it whatsoever. The only thing it does do is let whoever you are calling know your real name. Well we don't know yours so there is really no reason to know ours?? I don't think anybody should have to go out and buy another phone just because of that reason either. They are what a hundred bucks now give or take? It's a total waste of money.

Now when you call a restaurant and order food your number is blocked, they don't care, but what they do instead is ask for your number when your finished ordering. Sometimes they even call back to make sure it's you that just called. That seems pretty simple to me.

You call a SP with a blocked number and you chat. If you both come to terms and work something out, then she asks for your number and calls you back to confirm. If it doesn't work out and you can't make it work then that's that. I don't want my number written on a sticky note that " most likely will get thrown out later" no way. You never know where it's gonna end up. I think this way is alot easier and the girls would probably end up getting more business too, instead of being passed by because of the whole blocked call issue. I don't know just a thought.

If that doesn't work you can always go here http://www.spoofcard.com/

 

[FortunateOne]

I don't really agree with the whole no blocked calls thing. It's not a safety issue at all. I don't think there is any reason for it whatsoever. The only thing it does do is let whoever you are calling know your real name. Well we don't know yours so there is really no reason to know ours?? I don't think anybody should have to go out and buy another phone just because of that reason either. They are what a hundred bucks now give or take? It's a total waste of money.

Now when you call a restaurant and order food your number is blocked, they don't care, but what they do instead is ask for your number when your finished ordering. Sometimes they even call back to make sure it's you that just called. That seems pretty simple to me.

You call a SP with a blocked number and you chat. If you both come to terms and work something out, then she asks for your number and calls you back to confirm. If it doesn't work out and you can't make it work then that's that. I don't want my number written on a sticky note that " most likely will get thrown out later" no way. You never know where it's gonna end up. I think this way is alot easier and the girls would probably end up getting more business too, instead of being passed by because of the whole blocked call issue. I don't know just a thought.

If that doesn't work you can always go here http://www.spoofcard.com/

In your example, she has your phone number so I fail to see the difference. Also, re: call display, most do not show names, especially with cell phone numbers. And it is very simple to have telus or whoever replace your name with "private" in the case of home phone land lines. Some sps will answer block numbers and payphone calls, but the majority don't. If they accept emails for first contact, explain your situation and make an appt to call her from a blocked number or payphone.

 

[Aeiyah]

I don't really agree with the whole no blocked calls thing. It's not a safety issue at all. I don't think there is any reason for it whatsoever. The only thing it does do is let whoever you are calling know your real name. Well we don't know yours so there is really no reason to know ours?? I don't think anybody should have to go out and buy another phone just because of that reason either. They are what a hundred bucks now give or take? It's a total waste of money.

Now when you call a restaurant and order food your number is blocked, they don't care, but what they do instead is ask for your number when your finished ordering. Sometimes they even call back to make sure it's you that just called. That seems pretty simple to me.

You call a SP with a blocked number and you chat. If you both come to terms and work something out, then she asks for your number and calls you back to confirm. If it doesn't work out and you can't make it work then that's that. I don't want my number written on a sticky note that " most likely will get thrown out later" no way. You never know where it's gonna end up. I think this way is alot easier and the girls would probably end up getting more business too, instead of being passed by because of the whole blocked call issue. I don't know just a thought.

If that doesn't work you can always go here http://www.spoofcard.com/

Based on the experience of the SP's I've gotten to know, you sound a lot like the type of caller who more often than not is a waste of time. I'm not saying you are. Those who are not willing to give there name and number and wants to chat more often than not call several times and never bother making an appointment.

 

[no regrets]

Well I am sorry that I sound like that type of guy. It's not the case but I am notgoing to get angry about it. It's more about the whole Hush Hush aspect of it. Not wanting people to know who you are because of whatever reason ie: wife, girlfriend, friends etc, etc.

One thing about here is this. For a big city it really is small, and everybody sooner or later knows your business if your not careful. I have seen a lot of girls and alot of them are my friends as well, and lets just say that when it comes to being hush hush, especially if it ends up you know them, or friends of etc, the last thing that they are is hush, hush, (Sorry I won't say all of them but quite a few of them).

Finally as far as a talker goes, what do I want to talk to you about? I don't care, I am only calling for one reason and that's to bust a nut, and your answering for only one reason and that's to make money, so I think conversations for that topic are pretty straight forward, and the only questions I ask if not mentioned in their ad are simple. 1) how much? 2)G.F.E. or non G.F.E.? and 3) Are you still working? 4) Any other restrictions?
and finally 5) How long before you get here? I am straight forward and to the point.

 

[no regrets]

I see both of your ladies points and agree with you. This is a topic that could last forever with half of the people on one side and half on the other. At least for a callers point of view they now have a little bit more knowledge as to why and that's pretty much the whole point isnt it?

I expressed my thoughts, as well did others and if anything I thankyou for actually letting me know the reasons for it. With that being said though, can someone enlighten me as to why text is not a option either? Just curious

 

[jumbojim]

can call from pay phone they display numbers too.
If youre Spitzer then nothing can shield u from getting nailed literally.
Life is full of risk.
If u think coming here is not right then why bother?

I guess the worse scenario is should your SP became very high profile that LE have to analyse her phone number then your number is a regular displaying there also computers never erase any records either. Then u could be dragged into doing some explanation.
But there is no law to talk to anybody neither a SP. Only people I know shouldnt talk to u perhaps a Judge thats going to be involved with your case.

 

[HB40]

also computers never erase any records either.

WHAT!!!

Son of a bitch...well then goodbye perb, I'm screwed now.