Showers

[Van Chambers]

So, Whats the norm...
I know lots of reviews say that people shower quickly. be clean and all. I have seen 2 sp's (at same place, which was kinda weird actually) but I shower literally right before i leave my place. it was a 20 min drive.
I was asked if i wanted to shower and replied (Being new to the SP scene, "I can shower if you would like, i had one right before i came here" (More info, not comfortable with myself right now, so company in shower is not a turn on at all, I would probably get very uncomfortable and awkward). The 2 times were both replied with "That fine" or "That'll be ok then".
So, have I just been lucky or is that an alright thing in the SP world? I Literally have shower and leave within 5 mins of getting out of shower. clean clothes, brushed teeth and mouthwash. Sometimes some gum on way over. stay as fresh as possible.

 

[CapnMaynards]

I am new to the pooning scene as well.

I do a very deep cleanse at home before every session. I still shower immediately.

The way I see it, I know that I showered right before leaving, but even if I told her that she doesn't know that I did. Showering at the incall assures her that I am clean.

Before my first session I told her I plan to shower immediately before leaving and how thorough the shower at her place must be, as I have long hair and don't want to get it wet. She told me she doesn't care about the hair on my head and to just wash my crotch and ass. It takes all of two minutes.

I enjoy the ritual of the shower, it allows me to mentally prepare for what I am about to experience. It also gives her a moment of privacy to check the envelope, and any other business she may want to conduct discreetly.

There's being asked and there's being "asked." A shower is expected of me. I do not see it as a big deal.

 

[Cock Throppled]

The way I see it, I know that I showered right before leaving, but even if I told her that she doesn't know that I did. Showering at the incall assures her that I am clean.

Not sure why anyone would lie about having had a shower, if they really hadn't, but you can be sure it would almost certainly be noticed right away, and ruin any session, not to mention trust, so what would be the point?

 

[Bridge]

What's to dislike about a warm "in every sense" shower?? It builds the anticipation nicely!!!

 

[westwoody]

If she asks you to shower then shower.
Starting a session with an argument about showering is insane.

 

[Real Sonny Burnett]

Take the damn shower.

 

[bjl85]

Showers are normal, even if you showered less than 20 minutes ago. There are exceptions based on each lady, but, expect to shower at the incall.

 

[chico1]

Take the damn shower.

Pretty much this. Just take the shower. What is the big deal?

 

[Number17]

I will say this: Some clients don't want to shower at her place before OR after the date, because they don't want their SO to smell the shampoo and body wash. In that case, I would recommend buying some more mild shower soap or gel, and take it to the incall with you.

With regard to the smell of a foreign shower gel, WCA, VME and Rouge provide unscented body wash at their incalls. You can also bring your own just in case.

There is no reason not to shower at the beginning of the session.

 

[cruefan]

It is always best to shower at the incall even if you just took one prior to arriving at your appointment as it will put her mind at ease and often gives you a much better mileage when she knows that you are fresh.

 

[PuntMeister]

A confirmed cleansing at her incall = better service and tilts the YMMV scale to VaVoom. Thorough hair shampoo, nail scrub, belly button, then pits, sack, toes, ass, repeat pits, sack, toes, ass (all the schweaty schtinky risk points get double).

Unscented or low scented anti-perps on the pits. Quick slap of baby powder on the ass, toes, and ball/thigh creases to counter travel sweats.

Quick rinse at the incall, towel up the pits, balls, butt, and creases well.

Be Yummy my friends.

 

[Stamkos]

I shake my head that this is even a topic that needs discussion?!?
Why wouldn’t you want to shower upon arrival and be as fresh as possible?
Wtf?

 

[sparks99]

I also find that sometimes going into an incall my heart can get racing a bit... maybe there was a chatting neighbour in the elevator, or the SP is hotter then expected, whatever and that shower time is great to take a take a deep breathe.
What I was curious about, after the shower, do you towel up? Or get fully dressed again?

 

[sparks99]

Hoping I can unwrap it, and get into action quickly!

Isn’t it always more fun when she unwraps? ?

 

[Asian Fever]

Even if you showered before you arrived, that doesn't make you clean. Women in this business are quite susceptible to bacterial infections etc, which could put the girl out of work for a week. Shared showers are more about ensuring that you are well sterilized as leaving the guy to his own devices may not necessarily result in a deep cleaning, but girls will try to make it a sexy experience if possible. A shared shower also shows you that the girl is equally clean, it's good for everyone.

Shared or solo, If a girl lets you have service without showering, that's kind of foolish really. It's not the norm and there are good reasons why showering is part of the normal process. You can also add to this that just because you did shower before, the girls can't really trust that claim because honestly, how does she even know you're telling the truth?

I can't speak for everyone, but for us, you need to shower. It makes no difference if you showered before or not. No shower, no service. We've told guys to leave who refused to shower before.

 

[Van Chambers]

I shake my head that this is even a topic that needs discussion?!?
Why wouldn’t you want to shower upon arrival and be as fresh as possible?
Wtf?

well, maybe you just have stinky nuts????
I will shower if asked to, no doubt, been to her place couple times. and took shower right before and said that and she said "ok, thatll be fine" i did not say i wouldnt.. not at all.
And believe me, with what went on, if there was a cleanliness issue, stuff that happened, would not have happened.
now if i was travelling to vancouver, that would be a different issue, shower for sure. more than 20-25 mins away.

But the reason i brought this up is that i have read an increase in "no shower provided" yet people still proceeded with the task... So which is worse??? How many guys smashed with who knows how dirty of a snake before you got there.....

 

[Pussyeater1961$$$]

I always take a shower right before a session even if I take one at home already. Now I even wear slippers after I take a shower. This is something I didn't do before the pandemic. The floor may not be as clean as you think. So if you walk around with your bare feet, you are going to bring some dirt and bacteria to the massage table. Sometimes your SP gives you a feet massage and then she is touching your body and your skin comes into contact with her body and you might kiss her body later!!

 

[Van Chambers]

Even if you showered before you arrived, that doesn't make you clean. Women in this business are quite susceptible to bacterial infections etc, which could put the girl out of work for a week. Shared showers are more about ensuring that you are well sterilized as leaving the guy to his own devices may not necessarily result in a deep cleaning, but girls will try to make it a sexy experience if possible. A shared shower also shows you that the girl is equally clean, it's good for everyone.

Shared or solo, If a girl lets you have service without showering, that's kind of foolish really. It's not the norm and there are good reasons why showering is part of the normal process. You can also add to this that just because you did shower before, the girls can't really trust that claim because honestly, how does she even know you're telling the truth?

I can't speak for everyone, but for us, you need to shower. It makes no difference if you showered before or not. No shower, no service. We've told guys to leave who refused to shower before.

Now this is a response I can appreciate. Thanks AF

 

[Van Chambers]

And for all those bashing my question... Its just a question.. I asked, She said ok. Its up to her ultimately. If asked, i would no doubt take a shower. AT NO POINT DID I OR WOULD I REFUSE. (duo shower would be uncomfortable as fuck as iI am not very comfortable with myself) Maybe some of you are just untrustworthy???

or even this.. .How many of you drive around for an hour or three looking for a street girl. Do you shower in the car before you smash??? Give your head a shake before you judge. I have read lots of older lounge posts where dude got ghosted and picked up a SW on way home.

 

[Van Chambers]

If you and she have a comfort and trust with each other, and she is fine with your earlier shower, and your wish to bypass at her incall, I am fine with that. (Provided she is, and some ladies will be)

Years ago, I would arrive at the incall, and (truthfully) say "I took a shower before coming here." Usually, they were fine with that, and likely trusted me, probably in part because I am soft-spoken, look frankly like a nerd, and was respectful to her in our communication leading up to our date.
????????

So i am not alone in this.