Should you tell your real name to SPs?

[BORKO]

What's your point?

That you should use a fake name and then you can have fun while you do it?

 

[sevenofnine]

I think your mistaken if you think an sp can't find out who you are if she wants to.

After being in this for several years. It came up my smiling face was going to be in the newspaper. I just told her the story.

I think its really important you know who your dealing with in this.

 

[Oliver Clozov]

No. At first I was worried she would post something about me seeing escorts on my wall. Now I just get annoyed with all the pictures she posts. Probably the most materialistic person I've ever met.

Can't she only post on your wall if she is your friend on facebook? Why did you accept her friend request?

 

[good2bbad]

I have given my real name to only a couple of SP's who I trust completely. One, I got to know on a more friendly basis and we got together for more social occasions.
The other is a lady who I see on a regular basis and we seem to have no issues talking about a lot of personal stuff that wouldn't normally be involved in the "wham/bam" scenario. I know her name, she knows mine. Makes it more personal, I guess.
Not a major concern for me.

 

[shyboy123]

My name is "John"

 

[Crumb]

I use real name, real phone and real email
I can't be fussed to create a fake ident

but I also don't have anyone that would spy on me or try and out me and my activities

 

[Cock Throppled]

I guess I'll just say my name is "baby" or "honey" and be done with it.

 

[VanessaofBC]

My name is "John"

I guess I'll just say my name is "baby" or "honey" and be done with it.

That just makes things easier for everyone. Thanks for being so considerate, Gentlemen!!!

 

[rick hunter]

SPs always ask what my name is as a courtesy when we meet. Do you guys tell your real names?

I used to tell them my real name until one girl added me on facebook after the session. 99.9% dont use their real name so we shouldn't be telling them our real names either.

That's not possible on Facebook. Someone has to send you a Friend request and you have to confirm it. Also you can unfriend them, you know that right?

 

[BORKO]

That's not possible on Facebook. Someone has to send you a Friend request and you have to confirm it. Also you can unfriend them, you know that right?

Never let the truth or facts get in the way of a good story.

 

[Boatboy2]

I would think that that with the SPs screening process and unblocked phone number they have your real name and address just by doing a phone number search , so I give my first name and always assumed they no it all, for there piece of mind

 

[badbadboy]

I actually like it when they say oh "you are a badbadboy". ound:

 

[BORKO]

I would think that that with the SPs screening process and unblocked phone number they have your real name and address just by doing a phone number search , so I give my first name and always assumed they no it all, for there piece of mind

There are a number things that you can do that don't associate your phone number and name. There was even an app thread posted earlier this week.

 

[sevenofnine]

Cell phones are only part of it.

Like I said if an sp really needs to know who you are, she will find a way.

The best security in this is know the person your dealing with, and take care of your end of this, in other words don't piss her off or giver her reason.

 

[VanessaofBC]

Falling outs happen all the time. Former ATF's become bitter enemies over the dumbest things. This business breeds conflict and drama like no other. Some people can get pissed off for little or no reason at all. While most of the ladies are bright, intelligent and reasonable, others are quite simply, batshit crazy. You cannot guess which you are dealing with. Some ladies go from one category to the other. Recent events here show that quite clearly.

If you are married, or have a business career that could be damaged by revelations about being involved in escorting as a client, you are INSANE to share personal detail with any SP you don't know well and trust completely. These guys who use their real names and emails to set up appointments with new ladies are begging for a problem. Eventually, they will have one, it's not if, it's when.

While we are on this topic, can clients please stop asking "What's your real name." It is just as uncomfortable for us. While, I shouldn't speak for everyone. It is uncomfortable for me and some of my friends to ask what our name is.

 

[DeviantAsian]

IMO... I think each individual should do whatever they feel is comfortable for themselves. Many of my clients give me their real names and there are some that do not.

It doesn't really matter to me The majority of my gentlemen visitors are married or attached. Some are in the public eye and well known. I pretend that I do not recognize them. Some of them talk about their lives openly, and some do not.

I keep all of their secrets, as they keep all of mine. I am discreet. Its a 2 way street. You treat people the way you would like to be treated

I can understand how someone would feel paranoid or unsure about sharing any personal information. I have suffered the consequences by being too trusting in the past (when I first started) with someone that did not deserve it. Unfortunately... I got outed to friends that had no idea. I only shared which Secondary school I went to... :doh: Not nice.

Sometimes, they ask me which Secondary school or which College or University I have attended, or my real name, etc... (Instead of lying about it) I simply let them know that I do not like sharing some of that information. Everyone reserves the right to keep some secrets. We all have our different reasons.