Should I Get an Escort?

[sales]

"I fail to see how paying for sex is going to build confidence? "



I have to disagree. Confidence is different for every person. For myself, I could flirt with anyone but at 37, I hid behind my weight, was still a Virgin who had never even kissed anyone and had not even asked a girl out on a date in about 15 years. Since making the decision to visit a lady in Edmonton in November (+ several others since then), I have dropped 30 pounds, have asked a lady out and had a friend comment to me the other day, that he has not heard me happier in years when we talked for the first time in about 6 months. Plus I think I am getting to be a better kisser.

Only you can make the decision as to whether it will benefit you personally as we do not know you. For me, it was the best decision I have made in long time., For you, who knows, it could end up being the worst decision you have made.

 

[aznboi9]

That fact is...the large majority of guys go through their whole lives wishing to have sex with a beautiful woman, but wimp out and settle for Mary Poppins.

Mary Poppins was hot.

I'd definitely tap that.

 

[Rammstein69]

Hmmm, Well I guess I inadvertantly started an interesting philosophical debate. Thanks to everyone (well, 99% of you) for your insightful and thought provoking comments.

I have a better understanding of both the positive and negative ramifications of seeing an escort. I've come to the conclusion that I can't predict with any certainty exactly how this would affect me. Ideally, a good experience should give me a much needed boost of confidence in this area, and thus provide me with incentive to develope my dating skills and create relationships with women.

In my previous relationships, I always developed a strong bond with my girlfriends before things became physical, usually dated over a month or longer before sex. Sex without affection...or even chemistry. Don't know if I can get my head around that. Maybe I've just answered my own question...

Oh yeah, Mary Poppins is DEFINATELY hot! I always thought Julie Andrews was mega cute.

 

[d_Duck55]

Go for it

If you are shy with women, are bashful about being naked in front of someone, worried about premature ejaculation, or whatever, I think an escort could help. I would stick with CBJ for the first visit, you will still love it and then won't add health related recriminations to you day.

Do your research first, you want a classy professional lady with a "nice GFE" type personality. Don't try and save $100 by going straight to Craigslist. You don't want a bitch/scam /"Bad" experience that will make you feel worse than before.

Are you in Vancouver? I am from out of town, so can't make a lot of suggestions, but I will never forget lovely-lily's super hot body and sweet and fun disposition. Someone who likes sex will make it a positive healthy experience for you. [Warning, in my example of Lily, she has such a super hot body, you may not find the same thing in real life. But she is sweet so you will have a fond memory.]