short sessions vs long sessions any preferences

sevenofnine

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I guess over the years I have tried both long and short sessions from half and hour to three hours plus, the max I have spent with a escort I don't know, I was to dam drunk. Holy crap batman was I drunk, or whatever we had a mixture of drugs that night.


To be honest you probably have a better bang for you buck with shorter sessions.
Long sessions do get expensive and its not like Im twenty again.
I sit down about twice a year with a spreadsheet and all my fincials and figure out my monthly budget for this. Then I decide how I want to spend it.
Even though I get a better mileage with shorter sessions, I find longer sessions much better.

Its funny reading through the posts on the boards there is a list of all these nit picking complaints us guys have, and I have them to. No shows scheduling issues messy sheets clock watching etc etc.
I have sort of noticed the shorter the session the more of these problems I have had.
I was seeing this lady half an hour at a time, great good fun but she would just cancel on me, sorry party across the back ally don't show up.
Even hour sessions no shows text messages sorry Im just running late.
To be honest, I find all that stuff annoying.
Im married right I lie have an alibi you might plan a session for a week or more, set up a lie for my wife a story, and the lady just no shows or rearranges everything with such a care free way about it all. Cant make it tonight can we do tomorrow instead.
Its just bloody annoying to be honest with you.

Plus that shit happens right.
I lie Im at work or its football season, Im watching Monday night football. Or I have gone drinking but I am suppose to be some where,
I have gotten photo radar tickets at one end of the city when I told my wife I was at work down town. My car has been smashed while parked out front of an sp's hit and run driver, I was rear ended in a snow storm in the south end of town when I should have been in the north end.
I was leaving my sps house after a great night down south all is good but I should have been on the north side of town. Pull to a stop at a red light look to my right, and guess who is sitting in the car right next to me. My sister in law.
Shit happens trust me, especially when your lying.
But my point is, you minimize the number of sessions the less chance shit happens.

You book three hour plus sessions drop a big wad of money on some sps table and there are no scheduling problems now or the next time either. All those little picky things we guys like to bitch about, some how there a lot less.

I really don't know why, but sp's seem to have preferences you’re a newbie you can get bumped real easy is the way I understand it and your left standing some where waiting for your phone to ring or the sp to pick up your call and she doesn't, when you thought you had a confirmed appointment. But she took a regular over you. Even if your not a newbie I was seeing this sp I liked this lady a lot but I was having scheduling problems
I like Friday nights but I could never book with her or hardly ever. She finally told me she has a very good client who liked Fridays she held it form him.
I said ok didn't want to step on any ones toes or ruffle any feathers and picked another night and eventually moved into three hours with her.
I have been a regular with two sps for three hour plus session for years. No problems of any kind. To nit pick about.
Just for the hell of it. I try an new sp once in awhile and I go for short sessions to start and nothing but problems. Its one thing after another. And all of a sudden her problem what ever it is backs into me and its an issue for me.
And I just can't be bothered
And over the years my regular sps who I book long sessions with they have kind of hinted to me, when I book Im the only one they see that day.
Don’t know if there lying to me or not but I can't tell so it doesn't matter to me none of my business really.
Any concerns I have had that im running late, traffic jam or just late things happen at work, I text them and tell them stuck in traffic, and I get back there is no worries and I can stay as long as I want.
Its just a lot nicer then some sp who is running late herself on the phone herself during a session and then pushes me out the door ten minutes early because she tells me she has a client coming she has to clean up for.
And shit happens, if you see an sp say four times a month as opposed to twice a month there is twice as many chances to get stood up or getting caught in a lie by your wife and family.
And besides who doesn't want to spend as much time as they can with there favorite sp. It I think just make a lot more sense to enjoy her company in longer sessions as compared to shorter ones.
 

Walk Softly

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I certainly prefer that unrushed feeling of a long session but have learned to always do a shorter try-out first. Bucking up for a long session then realizing there was no connection sucked!

Cheers Brutha! WS.
 

oppai

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If there is good convo/atmosphere I definitely prefer a long session, or at least unrushed. For massage I definitely like a 90plus minute massage as you really get to relax and can get a nice long tease in before a HJ. 90-120 minute massage with someone who knows what they are doing is tops for me. If I end up somewhere I'm not comfortable I just want to bust a nut and get outta there. Haven't had one of those for ages though as it is very easy to do some good research before hand and I have found a few fav's that I see instead of trying lots of different places.
 

Rooster

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One hour is too short. I leave wanting more. 2 Hours and I'm just paying for some conversation at the end. I think 1.5 hours is ideal. Easy 2 SOGs, lots of time for for-play.
 

newatit

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I am itching to try out a new thing for me, a longer session than these shorties I have tried. Thanks for all the input here. I think a two to three hour with MSOG would be good, but one gal told me, that the money goes for her services, but that anything over one, for get it, the rest of the time is good company, snuggling, a little kissing maybe. sorry that leaves me cold. Paying all that I would want continuous body contact for three hours. Is this unreasonable?
 

badbadboy

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One hour is too short. I leave wanting more. 2 Hours and I'm just paying for some conversation at the end. I think 1.5 hours is ideal. Easy 2 SOGs, lots of time for for-play.
My thoughts exactly. Find the right SP for a nice 90 minute date and it works great for me.

Although, I once did an overnight and that was very memorable :D
 

Walk Softly

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I am itching to try out a new thing for me, a longer session than these shorties I have tried. Thanks for all the input here. I think a two to three hour with MSOG would be good, but one gal told me, that the money goes for her services, but that anything over one, for get it, the rest of the time is good company, snuggling, a little kissing maybe. sorry that leaves me cold. Paying all that I would want continuous body contact for three hours. Is this unreasonable?
IMO Yes it is unreasonable for a session of an hour or longer. Make sure you clarify that ahead of time...Most ladies are cool with MSOG for longer sessions.

Cheers! WS.
 

joho

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I hate the short session since I feel very rushed. The shortest session for me is one hour while the longest one was 4 day long! I took my favorite sp to Mexico and had an awesome time.
 

big.guy_13

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I prefer two-hour sessions. I always do two-hour sessions, because they let me relax and get to know the girl and be in her presence for longer. Can't go wrong with that. Plus, since I don't go very often, it's not a total waste.
 

laurel love

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I stopped doing short sessions a while back too.

How do you meet a total strange and have great sex in half an hour? It takes at least 5-10 minutes to break the ice the first meeting, and that cuts into the physical part.

Also, if you divide the remaining 20 minutes on HJ BJ and FS you will realize the time spent on each activity is pretty short. Not my idea of a good deal. If I was renting an escort I would definitely do a 90 minute session so I could actually enjoy and savour the sensations.
 
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