So, are you saying that if your SO is comfortable with her sexuality, you can tell people at a party what she does in bed? How tight she is and how she sucks your penis? Do you equal enjoyment of sex with being an exhibitionist? Because the two are not the same.
No I wouldn't. Just like I wouldn't complain about the overcooked food she may or may not serve. Why? Because she is not selling her cooking as a public service offering
This is a perfectly new thing and as far as I know is practised in Canada/North America. I just watched a documentary about street prostitution in Europe from the 80's. The reporter followed a few girls, even to the bedroom. I was surprised when I saw that the minute the guy started penetrating her, the girl kept asking "are you finished yet?" Poor guy finished within 2 minutes, paid the girl, what was back then half a month's salary, and when asked if he didn't mind being rushed like that, he said "it's OK, because she is a nice girl".
I agree things have changed for the better... But I would think that a little bit of connection is good for both parties. I'm not sure why you think N Am; I just got back from a trip to Thailand where I had an amazing GFE. And I think that courtesans have been offering GFE for centuries. It's just been packaged up for the McDonalds masses and sold as GFE.
Anyway, this is what prostitution used to be like. I don't provide full service, but don't you think you guys are getting a little too demanding, wanting the girls to be perfect? We are at the other end of the spectrum, where anything but perfection is being frowned upon. I don't read the reviews as I am appalled by the wording of some of them, and the apparent entitlement feeling of the guy to humiliate the woman if he feels he didn't get what he was expecting. The description of their blemishes, the loose vagina, the scar on their tummies, reminds me a little of the slave market where you looked the slaves in the mouth to see how good their teeth were.
Here I can empatize with you. Nobody is perfect. My body certainly isn't. And I certainly wouldn't want the very things I am insecure about discussed on the web. But I have to come back to my original point. You are selling your services in a public marketplace.
Lets take sex out of the mix for a sec. A previous poster talked about restaurant reviews.
When I go to a new restaurant for the first time, I do expect perfection, particularly if their advertisements suggest that they provide the very best in ambiance and food.
If I like it, I will return. And over time, I will become a regular and will be greeted on sight. Now by this point their negatives will be known to me. I choose to overlook them because the rest of the service is great. But if I am recommending a friend I will say "Nice place, but the kitchen is a little slow. And don't order a Bellini, the bartender doesn't have a clue"
My motivation is not to offend the bartender, but provide info to my friend. Actually, I would prefer that he not read it, as his pour of Guiness is very adequate.