Shocking things your client has posted.

[Myids]

Sometimes an SP will post things that really surprise me. Things that make me think, "I can't believe she feels that way," or, "She didn't seem so calloused when I met her."

Now, I bet SP's sometimes have a similar reaction when a client writes a review, or makes a general post. When I post, I either wish to warn my fellow pooners, or give the provider recognition for a job well done. Reading some of my own posts back a few days after I have made a post, sometimes causes me to ask myself, "What was I thinking," or, "Why did I say that anyways?"

So ladies, what are some of the most surprising, frustrating or refreshing things you have seen posted by your clients?

 

[CorriGuy]

Yup. Anything too graphic is unpleasant to read.

Yup. If a client wants to post a good review that both perbites and the SPs both enjoy, they probably need to do some ChickLit reading to see what jives.

 

[apis]

Holy Crap Shelby!!! smoking hot sig pic!!! *drool*

Yes, I quickly lost track of what this thread was about there!

 

[Myids]

For me it is when a client who seemed really sweet and gentlemanly posted a very graphic review using super graphic words (ala cunt). I was shocked!

There is a certain amount of pressure to provide details when writing reviews. After all, they are reviews! I've seen the mob get angry if a client writes a review that is too mushy and short on details. Recently, I try an walk the fine line...by using respectful terms when describing...er...ahhh...the experience, lol.

 

[CorriGuy]

ChikLit?

ChickLit - Women's Literature. As in A Discovery of Witches, Fifty Shades of Grey, etc etc

Hey haven’t heard ‘jives’ in awhile

I'm old.

 

[yazoo]

The word 'cunt' has always interested me. Most vulgarities are made up words, but cunt is a true normal English word that was converted into an obscenity in the 20th century. Its relative 'cunnilingus' (cunt + tongue) escaped unscathed, untainted and celebrated.

Wikipedia quotes:
"The word in its modern meaning is attested in Middle English. Proverbs of Hendyng, a manuscript from some time before 1325, includes the advice:[9]
Ȝeue þi cunte to cunnig and craue affetir wedding.
(Give your cunt wisely and make (your) demands after the wedding.)"

With regards to reviews, I don't think SP's should be reading them.

 

[apis]

With regards to reviews, I don't think SP's should be reading them.

Ah, contraire! I would think that SPs with a desire to improve their service probably read reviews of themselves and others in order to learn what their clients want.

 

[vancity_cowboy]

i think the good providers would figure it out pretty quickly even if there were no reviews

no amount of reviews, good or bad, will ever change the behaviour of the poor providers

 

[badbadboy]

Sometimes I read the reviews of some of the ladies I have seen and thought " nope, she is not gonna like this one " because its way too graphic. Talking or txting with them later usually confirms it. I think very few of the ladies appreciate graphic detailed reviews. Some are meh, whatever.

I have sometimes read reviews very early in the morning (before the Mods pull them) and shake my head at these guys. Either they are drunk posting late at night or have very little respect for the women who provide the services we seek. Seeing perbatory later that day confirms it.

Some SP's I have visited have specifically declined reviews not because I get into graphic details but more because they prefer to go under the radar and not get a rush of new clients that they won't have time to see in the near future. Then they won't have to deal with the emails or texts complaining that they tried contacting them a month ago and you never got back etc.

 

[Gentle-man]

With regards to reviews, I don't think SP's should be reading them.

Any smart business person always seeks customer satisfaction information... Any provider that does not read their reviews, I don't think I'd want to see them. It tells me 1 of two things
1> They hate what they are doing and don't want to relive it
2> They don't care about the client's experience and have no desire to know what they did right or wrong


As always though fine line between describing the details enough for someone to understand if the experience you had with a provider is similar to what they are looking for, and being respectful and private enough with an intimate encounter...

 

[PlayfulAlex]

As always though fine line between describing the details enough for someone to understand if the experience you had with a provider is similar to what they are looking for, and being respectful and private enough with an intimate encounter...

...spoken like a true gentleman... :nod:

 

[Miss*Bijou]

Any smart business person always seeks customer satisfaction information... Any provider that does not read their reviews, I don't think I'd want to see them. It tells me 1 of two things
1> They hate what they are doing and don't want to relive it
2> They don't care about the client's experience and have no desire to know what they did right or wrong


As always though fine line between describing the details enough for someone to understand if the experience you had with a provider is similar to what they are looking for, and being respectful and private enough with an intimate encounter...

Yah, but isn't that borderline passive-aggressive in some cases? I mean, wouldn't she know what she did wrong if she was told at the time so she actually had an opportunity to change or improve it right then and there? Wouldn't that actually be beneficial for both client and sp? Then, if she refuses to do anything about it, sure, reviewing it makes sense but personally, I don't understand some guys who never bring something up with the sp when it happens and then write a super negative review. I'm sorry but in some cases like that, it's the clients fault for not speaking up and letting the sp know what he wants/likes if she's not aware. Seems a bit cowardly and passive-aggressive.

I'm not comparing sex work to restaurants but just to give an example: if you sit down at a restaurant and order something that you don't think tastes good or is already cold - or whatever. What exactly is the point of pretending everything is fine, even when the server asks you, only to run home and write a negative review about your experience? When I am in this type of situation, I either tell the server (politely) and then if she fails to resolve the problem or to even try, I can say she gave poor service (or the kitchen did - if they fail to resolve it) - but if I don't say a word and pretend everything is fine throughout the whole time, it would be disingenuous of me to go home and start complaining to friends that the service sucked. In reality, I would share a good part of the blame for my experience.

Life isn't perfect, people aren't perfect no matter how hard they try , nor are they mind readers either. So as with any type of service we receive, part of the responsibility is on a client to provide feedback and communicate to the sp when it happens and there's still a chance for her to do something about it and for you to enjoy your experience more.

Anyway, that's my beef. Obviously not all reviews are like that but there are many, which is really unfair to the sp.


Also, there are other possible reasons why an sp might not read reviews. Just to name one... It is quite possible that reading them is disturbing, upsetting or makes the sp uncomfortable to read intimate details or whatever. It's not really far fetched to think that it's really odd or unpleasant to read, even if the reviews are positive! Most sp's get used it over time but maybe some never do - and so don't read them!. Just sayin'....

My 2 cents

 

[Gentle-man]

...spoken like a true gentleman... :nod:

Thanks. I always strive to be, wish an extra dash of sophistication

 

[Tugela]

Any smart business person always seeks customer satisfaction information... Any provider that does not read their reviews, I don't think I'd want to see them. It tells me 1 of two things
1> They hate what they are doing and don't want to relive it
2> They don't care about the client's experience and have no desire to know what they did right or wrong


As always though fine line between describing the details enough for someone to understand if the experience you had with a provider is similar to what they are looking for, and being respectful and private enough with an intimate encounter...

The review is not to provide feedback to the SP (you can use e-mail if you want to do that), it is to provide feedback to the guys who might be thinking of seeing them. The SP provides the service she does, and it is what it is. I don't think any post here is going to change that, nor should it.

The main reason an SP might want to keep tabs on the board is damage control, when a disgruntled or disrespectful client chooses to spread information and/or misinformation that might be damaging to her business.

The board is a double edged sword for the SPs. On one hand it can help their business by keeping them on the radar screen, so to speak. Once she is established however, there is little or nothing to be gained from any review.

But on the other hand posts on the board can be damaging, by generating too much interest for example, or when some sociopath decides to "punish" her for whatever reason by taking misinformation to the their "reviews".

 

[yazoo]

That was kind of what was in my mind when I wrote that I don't think SP's should be reading reviews. My logic is - there are only two types of reviews - positive or negative.

For positive reviews:
If someone has had a great experience and writes about it, they have to be a really trusted reviewer before other guys don't see them as a shill. If SP's are not reading, then that motivation is lost. Guys already have to deal with fake pics everywhere - it is frustrating if the boards are full of fake reviews from people just wanting to get brownie points.

For negative reviews:
Some negatives the SP can change - the cleanliness of their environment, the theatrics of their moaning, etc. But other things are beyond their control, such as age or appearance. But as a customer, these are negatives that I want to know about before I am disappointed. And yes - you don't want to hurt someone, and so people may hold back and not report on someone's tragic appearance...

 

[mr_international]

Yeah I get that there has to be some details but there is no need for it to be graphic and the use of words like cunt, it can be phrased more politely


Shelby- next week? wanna come over for a bubble bath?? xxoo

Can I watch? Seriously PM me if we could work something out! ;0)

 

[Aleister Crowley]

they say.... A pussy is a soft warm furry little thing ,
.... and a CUNT s the bitch that own's it .
just saying

 

[Gentle-man]

Yah, but isn't that borderline passive-aggressive in some cases? I mean, wouldn't she know what she did wrong if she was told at the time so she actually had an opportunity to change or improve it right then and there? Wouldn't that actually be beneficial for both client and sp? Then, if she refuses to do anything about it, sure, reviewing it makes sense but personally, I don't understand some guys who never bring something up with the sp when it happens and then write a super negative review. I'm sorry but in some cases like that, it's the clients fault for not speaking up and letting the sp know what he wants/likes if she's not aware. Seems a bit cowardly and passive-aggressive.

Anyway, that's my beef. Obviously not all reviews are like that but there are many, which is really unfair to the sp.

I will gladly concede that point, I think any major flaw should be dealt with directly, but there might be some minor polishes that an SP could pick up on in a review, is all I'm sayin

Also, there are other possible reasons why an sp might not read reviews. Just to name one... It is quite possible that reading them is disturbing, upsetting or makes the sp uncomfortable to read intimate details or whatever. It's not really far fetched to think that it's really odd or unpleasant to read, even if the reviews are positive! Most sp's get used it over time but maybe some never do - and so don't read them!. Just sayin'....

My 2 cents

With all due respect Miss Bijou, that was exactly my point (though perhaps my wording of hates what they are doing might have been too blunt/strong). To me if she is disturbed or uncomfortable reading a few intimate details "or whatever" (nothing too graphic mind you), that to me would be an indication that she is uncomfortable with the act itself. I would prefer for an SP to be comfortable with herself, in her own skin, her own sexuality and her sexual encounters with her clients. If they need to keep written details at arms length, that says something to me.

I do not want this to be confused though with ladies who have a no review request... that's something I can completely understand for many reasons.

 

[sevenofnine]

i kind of think as a business and well advertizing and reveiw boards.
anything goes its the price of doing business, but yet i don't want to insult the ladies with crude vulgar language so i tune it down.

and well then it becomes personal i have been with a lady so long its very close and personal.
i could only talk about her in the most general of terms or not at all, it is just way to private and no one needs to know,
and i don't know but don't feel its the norm for a client escort relationship
even though she would like a review from me, that is one thing she has asked i can't do.

 

[Elmore]

So, are you saying that if your SO is comfortable with her sexuality, you can tell people at a party what she does in bed? How tight she is and how she sucks your penis? Do you equal enjoyment of sex with being an exhibitionist? Because the two are not the same.

My 2 cents is that prostitution used to be needy guys going to willing girls to get their rocks off for money. Today things have changed. Customers not only want to use her pussy, but her mind and soul. She has to be your GF, your therapist, your private actress. She has to pretend she is crazy about you and everything you do, otherwise you will write something bad about her and hurt her business. She has to anxiously read what you find lacking about her, so that she can mould herself into whatever you want her to be.

This is a perfectly new thing and as far as I know is practised in Canada/North America. I just watched a documentary about street prostitution in Europe from the 80's. The reporter followed a few girls, even to the bedroom. I was surprised when I saw that the minute the guy started penetrating her, the girl kept asking "are you finished yet?" Poor guy finished within 2 minutes, paid the girl, what was back then half a month's salary, and when asked if he didn't mind being rushed like that, he said "it's OK, because she is a nice girl".

Anyway, this is what prostitution used to be like. I don't provide full service, but don't you think you guys are getting a little too demanding, wanting the girls to be perfect? We are at the other end of the spectrum, where anything but perfection is being frowned upon. I don't read the reviews as I am appalled by the wording of some of them, and the apparent entitlement feeling of the guy to humiliate the woman if he feels he didn't get what he was expecting. The description of their blemishes, the loose vagina, the scar on their tummies, reminds me a little of the slave market where you looked the slaves in the mouth to see how good their teeth were.

The solution would be somewhere in the middle. Weed out the scammers and liars, without shaming those who are doing their best, but can't be perfect.

Prostitution has come a long ways since the 80s.

When you say weed out the sammers and liars, would that include ladies who misrepresent themselves by lying about their age, using archaic pics and taking snapshots from flattering angles to lure a client only to disappoint him when he arrives and realizes she is nothing like he expected based on how she presented herself in ads or on her website?

You have to be realistic. I don't expect perfection. But I don't like to be lied to either.

There are ways to describe women and the experience without being crass and vulgar but sometimes it will still be difficult for the woman to read if it is unflattering. That's the business and at 500 - 600 per 2 hour session, maybe not such a bad trade off.

I would not say that a woman is loose but if I say that she may not be an ideal fit for guys who are average or smaller, I am basically saying the same thing and I don't think it's inappropriate to say it...especially when she states in her ad that she is as tight as a virgin!