you reveal so much by what you say,
people who constantly pick on you or criticizes really must be sort of anal and a control freak.
the op's thread wasn't hard to follow maybe long winded, or uninteresting but then don't read it don't commit.
the people who felt the need to nit pic and insult you reveal way more about your self then someone who doesnt' have good spelling or grammar,
the topic,
in my youth I spent a lot of time alone, my father was in and out of jail I couldn't cope, simply could not, I enjoyed being alone, but some how new, it was wrong, in a city of a million people I was totally alone, it simply felt wrong to go and get a coffee alone eat alone go to the bar alone. just weird and wrong somehow were social animals after all.
fast forward like fifty or forty years. I miss my alone time, I am surrounded by people. I feel crowded, people need me more then I need them.
partly because im alone and aloof not judging not in any sort of competition look I have more money then you, im just easy going up for anything,
I could never be with out people in my life, but fewer is better, those with big ego;s and insecurities need not apply.