she is simply a women to me

sevenofnine

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I saw my sp this week we had a very enjoyable evening. It started off with supper a bottle of wine. Interesting conversation, I enjoyed her laughter her vitality her love of life her humor some of it at my expense very enjoyable, we moved to her bedroom it was all mutual, most likely more for her than me, because I find it awkward, demanding things from her, or asking for this service or that, I really don't know if she enjoys it, so for the most part, or of late, she will tell me what she likes, and we will do it. Or she will ask for this,
She is simply a women to me, and we have a beautiful supper wine laughter, it just seems odd to take her into the bedroom and do things she doesn't like. So its mostly mutual in the bedroom with us but a lot of her positions that she will ask for.
She is a women and I enjoy all of her the conversations the twinkle in her eye.
I treat her as respectfully as I can, as generous as my budget allows, I do my best to make it an evening both of us enjoy.

I don't think some men, appreciate that in life, everything flows forward and together.
Its not over when the door closes on my sp.
My perceptions of women sex, sexuality, I carry with me,
Its not just about being nice to your sp. Or do you treat her bad.
But its also about, is she just a sexual play thing for you, is she just a piece of meat a body part or two for you to use, when your done with her she is just nothing.

your perception of your sp how you treat her carries on.

The next day your at work, riding the elevator with a beautiful looking women.

I don't know but I would hazard a guess if your sp took your money but had a lousy time and just in general thought you were an ass, I would make a guess that this women kind of feels the same way about you.

I have kids a daughter, we don't usually sit down and have suppers, our schedules don't allow for it. But two or three times in the morning we get together and have coffee. I have a great relationship with her, weekends we always find time to do something, were close,

Maybe I'm wrong, but I just can't imagine finding a women, who just happens to be an sp, and just treating her like a piece of meat an orifice for me to use. Then me having a close bond with my kid.

Sure as hell my relationship with my sp is based on sex and money.
She is also a women and she deserves all the respect and kindness and consideration and generosity that I can muster,

The same as every other women and how you treat her how you view her reflects on how you treat every other women as well.

just something to thing about
and to each there own

but i really believe how you treat women in this,
says alot period about how you treat people how you relate to people. especially women
 

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She is also a women and she deserves all the respect and kindness and consideration and generosity that I can muster,

The same as every other women and how you treat her how you view her reflects on how you treat every other women as well.

just something to thing about
and to each there own

but i really believe how you treat women in this,
says alot period about how you treat people how you relate to people. especially women

except your wife of course or isn't she a woman? lol
 

Alix Turner

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except your wife of course or isn't she a woman? lol
There are times in life when we have to decide how to best respect a person while at the same time honoring ourselves. They may never see it that way, but that isn't that point of doing it.
 

sevenofnine

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except your wife of course or isn't she a woman? lol



of course im not perfect, my life my marriage isn't perfect. far from it.

believe me, as a human being a man i am very very flawed.
a marriage takes two people,
and im not going to go into the details of my marriage
but im in a sexless marriage her choice not mine.
i could leave her, or do with out, or do this,

i was with out sex, for along time, i wasn't a happy camper,
not a happy camper at all.

im not proud of paying a women to be with me,
im not fucking proud or bragging about it at all.
its kind of sad actually.

the buying and selling of sex, is just sad,
im just trying to make the best of it



im just old ok and i have looked at life a long time.
and i don't think people appreciate how everything is connected.
 

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Just a note for future reference.

Women is the plural of woman.

Just like men is the plural of man.


You wouldn't say 'He is just a men to me' would you?
 
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