Shame to be a PERB member?
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Never heard that... a few disparaging remarks, for sure, but more about how silly or petty some individual reviews can be, never about the board or board members in general.
Most SPs are happy to be reviewed, so perhaps there's an inverse relationship between quality of service and feelings about PERB only coming from certain quarters?
Just saying...
I have had some private conversations with some ladies regarding reviews and perbites' comments; they think some of the things said on here can be perceived as hurtful, which I can confirm to be true. Occasionally I come across comments that seem very mean and ill-spirited, I can relate how the lady of the discussion will feel if she sees it, because if I was being described in such a way I would feel very hurt too. I will also admit I am not the best at giving objective reviews, occasionally I let my emotions get in the way and might say something unintended to offend the lady but unfortunately they will feel that way when they see it. Like my review of Lauren, there might have been things that are unnecessary to mention, and I learn from that and will improve myself. The point is that I totally understand how some ladies will despise reviewers/reviews.
Which is why I never tell anyone I'm on perb. Nothing to be gained, so much to lose. Most ladies, working or not, despise the thought of a hooker review board. The majority of working girls hate perbites. They just won't say it coz it'll hurt their business.
During conversations with some ladies, as soon as perb is mentioned, the look on their face says a lot. But when I read some of the comments on here, I feel the same way. I love this forum and the information that it can bring as well as the entertainment it provides but sometimes some guys go beyond providing a review and are just dicks. If the reviews were all tasteful, good or bad, I am pretty certain that some of the ladies that hate this place, wouldn't. I am pretty sure that we could all get our point across respectfully.
It's funny, when I started seeing SPs I read many To-Do (and Not-To-Do) Guides on several providers websites and they almost all said that if I had a great time, to write a review. Not sure if that's still the case.
I saw a SW’s Twitter last night and had some interesting conversations with them, lol
“My wife just accused me of having zero empathy.
I don’t understand how she can feel that way”
Get it?
Yea, but generalizing everyone on here is bad? Isn’t that a way of discriminating, I just told them there are still reasonable guys here. She then asked me why I want to be marginalized so badly and I chose to be a member here. If she thinks guys here are so worthless why is she even advertising here, lol.
Haha, perfect explanation lol“My wife just accused me of having zero empathy.
I don’t understand how she can feel that way”
Get it?
Agree. About shifty reviews, yes but not about the board itself. In fact, PERB, the board, helps many ladies out while they stay on.
Ther a certain percentage who don’t like PERB because we don’t remove bad reviews on request.
You would be very surprised. Because I had this conversation with a supporting member here who has mostly good reviews. Maybe she was trying to please her girlfriends on Twitter, 🤷
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