The Porn Dude

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Delilah Day

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My curiosity has me this evening. On a scale of super quiet and submissive to the absolute loudest most raunchy… How do you like your women in bed? And dare I regret, why?
 
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PuntMeister

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It is not a continuuum.

Some days I want a throat goat that at best does the gughh gughh thing. 6-10/10

other days I want to anal chatty cathy until she squeels alto. 7-9/10

then there are the days that silent samantha with the big rim glasses just bucks it back. 5-10/10

oh, and lets not forget sandy mandy who just wants a good eating and to squirt all over gods green goatie. 8-9/10.

Ratings don’t matter if it hits the spot.
 

wincity23

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I'd prefer some indication she's enjoying herself vs silence but only if it's genuine. From there, it really depends on the situation. Real and engaged dirty talk can be a turn on but over the top "Come for me" is just the opposite.
 
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bigballs55

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I like my women to fall into the gf experience category. Not over the top porn star but rather seductive and sensual. Sweet and somewhat submissive with a touch of naughty to add a bit of spice here and there. Call me old fashion, but I want to make love not fuck. If you know what I mean.:)

As to the why question. I grew up with brothers devoid of interaction with females, and as a result from early on I always would look at women with awe as these magical beautiful angelic beings, that I would give anything to be with. I truly am smitten to be in the presence of a woman that exudes her femininity.
 

masterpoonhunter

"Marriage should be a renewable contract"
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I like em screaming "Fuck me Fuck me Fuck me, don't be so gentle, harder harder harder, oh oh oh"
or something along those lines.
 

GeeBeeP

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Like many others my mood can vary but for the most part I like feedback and expressiveness. Quiet makes for pretty boring romp IMO, however the combination of submissive and raunchy dirty talk is my sweet spot.
 

too timid

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i can appreciate the full spectrum from quiet and submissive to loud and aggressive but what i really like is someone that can honestly and openly communicate and share their desires and pleasures while also being open and capable of listening/accepting/participating in my desires and pleasures. Volume and raunchiness can be as much of a turn off as a cold subby starfish if faked or full of empty promises
 

rlock

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My curiosity has me this evening. On a scale of super quiet and submissive to the absolute loudest most raunchy… How do you like your women in bed? And dare I regret, why?

The sounds a woman makes in pleasure is one of the best turn-ons. I prefer ladies on the more vocal and tactile side. Not over the top levels of fakery, of course, but a decent amount of vocal feedback if she is enjoying herself, and some unscripted dirty talk.
 

ingridguerci94

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I like my women to fall into the gf experience category. Not over the top porn star but rather seductive and sensual. Sweet and somewhat submissive with a touch of naughty to add a bit of spice here and there. Call me old fashion, but I want to make love not fuck. If you know what I mean.:)

As to the why question. I grew up with brothers devoid of interaction with females, and as a result from early on I always would look at women with awe as these magical beautiful angelic beings, that I would give anything to be porn. I truly am smitten to be in the presence of a woman that exudes her femininity.

I've been intimate with a considerable number of women, and here are a few things the memorable ones did that made me consider her great in bed:
  • She touched me. It's surprising how many women think it's solely my responsibility to touch them.
  • She grabbed my junk whenever she felt like it.
  • She initiated sex.
  • She asked me what I wanted.
  • She gave blowjobs because she genuinely enjoyed it.
  • She wanted to have sex in different places, not just a single designated spot like the bed: the shower, a dressing room at the mall, the hot tub, the car, etc.
 
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strider65

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My curiosity has me this evening. On a scale of super quiet and submissive to the absolute loudest most raunchy… How do you like your women in bed? And dare I regret, why?
Some feedback is nice, especially the moans when they are real. I love it when she comes, that's about the best.
 
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bigballs55

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I like a sexually active partner that is nether to aggressive or to passive. Each of us giving and taking equally. Sometimes letting them take the lead and riding me and then switching it up for me to take a turn.
And it's always great when my partner appears to be genuinely enjoying herself or at least acting like she does.:)
 
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Big_Guy_Rye

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A lot of good answers here already, except I should add 'spontaneity'.

Give me the "Jekyll and Hyde" version of "Madonna and the Whore", so to speak.

The kind of girl who likes to take nature walks in a sundress with no panties underneath. Quiet, conservative, traditional and not so obvious... until she is; when she flips up that dress and grabs the nearest tree.
 

Mr. J

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Some playful moaning here and there, but I don't mind when the lady I'm with gets a little louder at times. Too much would be overkill for sure.
 
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