Service Providers and Significant Others

[johnnydepth]

Curious to hear from SP's how things work with significant others. Do you tell them what you do? Do they care? Do you keep it a secret?
I used to see a Sp with a long term significant other. Truthfully we all had a decent relationship, did some 3 ways, and I had some solid bonding sessions with him. Biggest things was talking to her about boundaries and what bothered him.
Personally, I don't think it would bother me as long as she was honest about what she did.

 

[Miss Hunter]

I've never kept my job a secret. I'm honest and I expect the same in return. Most men, when they genuinely care, will be bothered by it in some way or another. Being territorial, in a protective sense, is healthy. At least, I think so. If it's a veteran pooner one gets close to, the chances are he already knows all about the dark side of this industry.

 

[Miss Hunter]

And I can be extremely territorial, like a ferocious lion, when I care for someone.

 

[islander1-1]

I have experienced some of my best MMFs with one of my favorite SPs and her partner.

 

[nwtl]

I imagine there are SPs in both camps. Some share, some keep it a secret. I imagine also, the more serious the relationship, the harder it is to hide what you do for a living everyday.