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I’m so impressed with the age group! I’m 66 and figured I was the oldest NOT…! ! !
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I really appreciated the frank discussion shared on this thread.
Thanks to all the hobbyists here and the divas who engage with us, this is a community that seeks and finds enlightenment. I am so happy to be a part of it. I never dreamed this kind of action would be available to me in my lifetime. I'm mid 70's and I guess this journey only began for me about 13 years ago. Through it, I've learned to really enjoy being with the women. Each of you women is unique and special, and the game is to fashion a tryst that is satisfying to both protagonists.
I love it all, including bangin'. I guess I'm still a newbie. But I have found that not much good happens unless there are good vibes in the room. The mental and physical health benfits are underappreciated, IMHO.
This thread has a lot of congenial people contributing. Any good parties happening in the next week or two? I find myself with some nights available , including New Year's Eve. I'd like to get out there with some good mind altering substances and people and dance the night away. Does anyone know a good venue, or want to join this venture?
Thanks to all the hobbyists here and the divas who engage with us, this is a community that seeks and finds enlightenment. I am so happy to be a part of it. I never dreamed this kind of action would be available to me in my lifetime. I'm mid 70's and I guess this journey only began for me about 13 years ago. Through it, I've learned to really enjoy being with the women. Each of you women is unique and special, and the game is to fashion a tryst that is satisfying to both protagonists.
I love it all, including bangin'. I guess I'm still a newbie. But I have found that not much good happens unless there are good vibes in the room. The mental and physical health benfits are underappreciated, IMHO.
This thread has a lot of congenial people contributing. Any good parties happening in the next week or two? I find myself with some nights available , including New Year's Eve. I'd like to get out there with some good mind altering substances and people and dance the night away. Does anyone know a good venue, or want to join this venture?
Really interesting thread and over all read , I’m a little younger than the average age here but can relate that I need more than just porn style fucking to get turned on and that I really get turned on by just having a great conversation with the right women, just touching , including intimate but non sexual, admiring her beauty physically, again not the act of sex itself but just appreciating her beauty.
How a women dresses of course, her personal style choices can really amp up the attraction, her brains , omg a wickedly smart women fucking hot!
my libido has dropped a little after 40, well enough to notice , but I’m actually a little relived.
Makes it easier to focus on other things in life now lol.
I do have to be conscious now of where and how I choose to spend my energy.
That never used to be the case before I was 40.
Although sometime I do miss staying up until 6:00 am cause your hitting a new piece lol.
How a women dresses of course, her personal style choices can really amp up the attraction, her brains , omg a wickedly smart women fucking hot!
my libido has dropped a little after 40, well enough to notice , but I’m actually a little relived.
Makes it easier to focus on other things in life now lol.
I do have to be conscious now of where and how I choose to spend my energy.
That never used to be the case before I was 40.
Although sometime I do miss staying up until 6:00 am cause your hitting a new piece lol.
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At age 70, I've totally lost my desire for FS. But reverse massage followed by DATY? The smell, taste and pure joy of making my partner orgasm until she asks me to stop do it for me in a way that wham, bam, thank you mam never did!
Wow, what a thread to read. I'm going to be 63 and my needs have changed. Who cares about FS. I like a SP who would sit on my lap with you sexy clothes on, some small talk and we both caress each other. If I'm seeing my regular SP, I would buy her lingerie and with her permission take photos of her with lingerie on. Just a year ago, I also purchased for my regular SP massage oil. I gave her a sensual massage for about 30 minutes. It was fabulous. She was so relaxed that she actually feel asleep for a few minutes. I'm hoping to see her again soon.
66yrs here. Very interesting comparisons on what one wants in the fading daze of life. Agree that play is more fun then actual action, if I'm lucky enough to get it solid enough. I find massage will usually get me hardish for some intercourse. Butt yeah just messing around with a fun lady is quite the enjoyment now letting go of the pressure to fuck ones brains out(though I do miss that).
Not sensual, I actually want them to feel relaxed. I do hard at first then finish w soft .
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Getting up there in numbers, but really don't feel my age at all.
I still look after myself, try to eat right, exercise, walks...
A brisk breeze will still get me hard, so no issue with that and can still pop x2/session ( at times when the chemistry is right) but...
I have NOT been to a SP for FS. A sensual massage (both receive and give) is much more enjoyable for me.
I had one massage therapist ( non RMT), who would give me 75 minutes of an amazing, hard massage with edging, then 15 minutes of play time.
One memorable day was when I was invited to watch another couple have sex. I could not talk, participate, touch, but I was there naked and could pleasure myself while they would watch and continue what they were doing.
I still look after myself, try to eat right, exercise, walks...
A brisk breeze will still get me hard, so no issue with that and can still pop x2/session ( at times when the chemistry is right) but...
I have NOT been to a SP for FS. A sensual massage (both receive and give) is much more enjoyable for me.
I had one massage therapist ( non RMT), who would give me 75 minutes of an amazing, hard massage with edging, then 15 minutes of play time.
One memorable day was when I was invited to watch another couple have sex. I could not talk, participate, touch, but I was there naked and could pleasure myself while they would watch and continue what they were doing.
I had a similar experience with the previous owners of ocean city in white rock ( won’t mention any names but some will remember a little friendly 85lb sweetheart) we were half way into a session when she asked if her husband could watch, I said sure. He sat in the chair and rubbed one out while we played. She didn’t normally do FS but because I was a frequent regular and it was literally the last day of them owning the shop she decided to have some fun. Miss that lady
Soft on the back and then sensual after they flip over.
I think the problem with Okamoto is the sizing issue for majority of people outside of Asia with bigger average size / girth. I believe they offer an XL bigger size nowadays but difficult to obtain as well they're pricier.
Great thread, and although I am 45, not in my 60s, things have changed a lot for me after a hwy head on crash years ago.
Physically I am no longer able to do many of the things I did before the accident.
But also as we age, most people mature as a person, and their wants/desires change. We often want better things as we age, and tolerate less bullshit or drama.
Maybe we once thought an A&W hamburger was just fine, now that burger tastes like shit. We were happy to just have a roof over our head at 18, but now want a nice home.
We drove a car whose value changed with how much gas was in the tank, now want a car that makes us smile. So it only makes sense that we want different things from a sexual relationship also. Men are also visual creatures, so even if for example, we prefer slim women, maybe when younger we were happy enough to tolerate someone who needed to lose 50 lbs, but not anymore. Maybe we are into and strongly desire amazing kissing to get reved up, but at age 25 we would still have sex with someone who is a lame kisser, but now when older, that is a no go for us.
We evolve, or at least most of us do.
I'm no longer happy driving a beater $300 car, eating A&W disgusting burgers, sitting on a lumpy couch, being in an uncomfortable situation, or having sexual relations with a fat woman who cannot seem to figure out how to kiss passionately.
Honestly I am thankful for the changes in myself.
I go on nicer vacations, listen to a wider variety of music, eat better, enjoy live theater more than yet another cheesy cop show on TV, enjoy my quiet and rattle free car with comfy heated seats, and am choosier about who I get turned on by.
Embrace growing older men, and knowing what you want, instead of just accepting anything. Those are good things to be happening to you, not bad.
Physically I am no longer able to do many of the things I did before the accident.
But also as we age, most people mature as a person, and their wants/desires change. We often want better things as we age, and tolerate less bullshit or drama.
Maybe we once thought an A&W hamburger was just fine, now that burger tastes like shit. We were happy to just have a roof over our head at 18, but now want a nice home.
We drove a car whose value changed with how much gas was in the tank, now want a car that makes us smile. So it only makes sense that we want different things from a sexual relationship also. Men are also visual creatures, so even if for example, we prefer slim women, maybe when younger we were happy enough to tolerate someone who needed to lose 50 lbs, but not anymore. Maybe we are into and strongly desire amazing kissing to get reved up, but at age 25 we would still have sex with someone who is a lame kisser, but now when older, that is a no go for us.
We evolve, or at least most of us do.
I'm no longer happy driving a beater $300 car, eating A&W disgusting burgers, sitting on a lumpy couch, being in an uncomfortable situation, or having sexual relations with a fat woman who cannot seem to figure out how to kiss passionately.
Honestly I am thankful for the changes in myself.
I go on nicer vacations, listen to a wider variety of music, eat better, enjoy live theater more than yet another cheesy cop show on TV, enjoy my quiet and rattle free car with comfy heated seats, and am choosier about who I get turned on by.
Embrace growing older men, and knowing what you want, instead of just accepting anything. Those are good things to be happening to you, not bad.
I totally feel the same way but my attitude has changed too. For me, sexuality and sensuality is no longer about orgasms or fucking, it's about the journey and the experience for me now.
It's taken me awhile to come to this understanding though and there was a fairly long period of time when I was uncomfortable with being less interested in insertion and very uncomfortable with struggling with ED and erection issues. I was feeling I was losing my manliness. But I'm good with all of it now and I've become far ore adventerous and exploratory. It also helps that I've managed to find a lot of women who are kind and sensual and wanting to explore.
It's taken me awhile to come to this understanding though and there was a fairly long period of time when I was uncomfortable with being less interested in insertion and very uncomfortable with struggling with ED and erection issues. I was feeling I was losing my manliness. But I'm good with all of it now and I've become far ore adventerous and exploratory. It also helps that I've managed to find a lot of women who are kind and sensual and wanting to explore.
Some great 😊 points that resonate. My happyness, now, is predicated on good health and the time to enjoy 😊 it ☀
