Sending multiple inquiries out at a time?

[johnA27]

Is it common to send out multiple email or text inquiries and work out details with more than one lady at a time just in case of non responding ladies or cancelations? Just wondering how often you have to tell a lady/agency that you've found another date?

Ladies is this a common annoyance? Or is it fairly understandable? On the other hand I've had an agency cancel a booking I've made half a week in advance and left me scrambling for alternatives, since I only had the 2 days to do something with a friend.

 

[jamasianman]

I did it once and it sucked. I'd rather have some lady cancel on me and have no back up than awkwardly text two others that something came up and go with the first one who replied. She was a great time but it felt weird to lie to the others. A professional provider should not double book, neither should we.

 

[Horn_dawg]

There is nothing wrong with sending out multiple inquires to see who is available and if you have specific questions. Making actual appointments for multiple SPs when you only plan to see is a different story. I would not do that, this is their business and intentionally booking and cancelling cost them money and aggravation.

 

[badbadboy]

I'll send out two if Plan A has a high incidence of cancelling.

Luckily some Plan B's have kept me very happy recently.

ound: A Certain Plan A is now Plan D. And there is no Plan C

 

[Lady Companion]

I don't think there is anything wrong with inquiring with multiple ladies at the same time, especially if it is for something on short notice. But I do think it is very wrong to be booking with multiple ladies 'just in case your first choice flakes". That is what perpetuates the issue. When ladies get no showed or cancelled on last second, they start double and triple booking "just in case", and the cycle of disrespect continues and flourishes.

 

[badbadboy]

I don't think there is anything wrong with inquiring with multiple ladies at the same time, especially if it is for something on short notice. But I do think it is very wrong to be booking with multiple ladies 'just in case your first choice flakes". That is what perpetuates the issue. When ladies get no showed or cancelled on last second, they start double and triple booking "just in case", and the cycle of disrespect continues and flourishes.

I would have to agree with you.

In a perfect world, I would make one appointment request and not even consider a second request. As I had mentioned to the Plan A in question, I have one afternoon per week that I set aside for my pleasure. Apparently it was not her issue.

Three cancellations in each consecutive week made it necessary to have a backup plan.

So in this case, I think your comment would be best suited if it were directed at the cause of the issue rather than the effect of the cause.

I plead 100% innocence.

 

[rlock]

I've made multiple inquiries at a time - when it's short notice, not a pre-booking. Basically, first one to respond or confirm wins. Once confirmed, I have stuck to the the plan.

 

[girth-brooks]

You've got to be patient. Try to book further ahead and then have a back-up in mind if you don't get your answer within a reasonable time.