selfish bastard

[maroonedsailor]

Amazing

Are we hitting on some serious repression here or what? It's simple (like most things) The guy ASSUMED VV should return his favour the way HE thought she should without consulting her as to what HER expectations were. When we ASSUME we make an ass outta you an me remember?

That said, VV next time you need sumpthin fixed email me - I want full on, raging, heart stopping, totally uninhibited sex in return. Friggin BJ? how lame LOL

 

[BS Detector]

That said, VV next time you need sumpthin fixed email me - I want full on, raging, heart stopping, totally uninhibited sex in return.

Good luck with that Eh!! But credit for stating your demands up front lol.

 

[perbertt]

It is amazing how many people think it is OK to ask your friend for a blowjob.

Doesn't matter what she does for a living, YOU JUST DON'T DO YOUR FRIENDS. PERIOD.

 

[erotic_exotica]

Read her post again Chili.. He offered to make her that panel.. she never asked him to make it for her. Her original request for help was for putting up the chandelier. He could have, at that time, said 'sure if you give me a blow job' if that is what he really wanted, or he could have declined her request for a favour.

When offering to make her the panel he should have said: 'I'll make you a panel if you give me a blow job.' That would have allowed for an honest and open transaction that she could have accepted or declined.

Playing it the way he did was stupid- his expectation was that a smart businesswoman would do something she did not agree to. Dumb.

I agree with NL on this. He should have let her know that thats what he was expecting in return for his help. By doing it the way he did, all he accomplished was taking away her God given right to choice. To choose if she wanted his help for that price. Maybe she would have agreed and if not she had every right to shop around to find a friend that would help for a more recpectful payment arrangment.

I really don't care if he knew that she was a Escort or not. Some of us actually don't act like a sexual beast in our personal life with our friends and family. To some of us it just a job! and only act like that for your benefit Even if he did know, he had NO right to go there.

 

[SeekSteadyRegSP]

She offered money, how is that inappropriate?

First of all, this male friend was no more and no less "wrong" than was any human asking another for sexual favors of any sort. But when a male "friend" asks a woman for sexual favors there is nothing appropriate about belittling him both to his face immediately and then on an internet message board behind his back.

Many of these fools want to make light of the fact that the woman works in the sex industry, but were she an auto mechanic, she certainly wouldn't go onto an online message board for/about auto mechanics and berate a "friend" for asking her for sex. (Why??? - because it isn't appropriate!)

Her only respectable "choice" in the matter was whether or not to suck his dick. Nobody condemns her for not sucking his dick if she didn't want to, but it has to end right there if that is the case.

By doing it the way he did, all he accomplished was taking away her God given right to choice.

I really don't care if he knew that she was a Escort or not. Some of us actually don't act like a sexual beast in our personal life with our friends and family. To some of us it just a job! and only act like that for your benefit Even if he did know, he had NO right to go there.

You are flat-ass WRONG !!!!

He would only "take away her... choice" if opting to take her by the head and shove her head into his lap and onto his manhood.

It sounds like you're a bit confused as to what a "sexual beast" really is (see last line).

Do you really think that a woman among a circle of friends deserves everyone to drop everything at her beck and call JUST because she has tits and ass?

As I stated earlier, the tax accountant gives free tax advice, the seamstress does occasional sewing projects, and the electrician does electrical consultation for the circle of friends. What exactly does a hooker bring to the friendship circle once she declares herself above occasionally offering assistance in her field of expertise?

Don't forget, VeryVeronica called him...

(and then no doubt spent most of the next few days expecting money from anyone who happened to phone her)

Of course it was entirely her choice as to whether she provided the blowjob or not, but the way she handled herself in the aftermath of not doing so assures that none of us want her in our real-life circle of "friends".


And don't forget we pay you to both provide sexual companionship and to not belittle us upon its conclusion.

Just because VeryVeronica didn't agree to any sex doesn't mean she was entitled to then belittle someone she termed a "friend" in her original post.

What in the hell does she do to her enemies??

 

[SexyBoy]

YOU JUST DON'T DO YOUR FRIENDS. PERIOD.

I would hope my future wife would also be my best friend.

 

[perbertt]

SeekSteadyRegSP,

It was not VV's clientale she belittled, but a friend who behaved like an asshole.

Big difference!

 

[perbertt]

I would hope my future wife would also be my best friend.

And she will be your relative also.

And STILL, you don't do your friends or relatives other than your spouse....normally. Unless you are a trailer trash or live in Alabama.

 

[.leonardo]

Practice sex with best friend
Dear Alice,

I was a virgin until about five months ago, and after three hours of foreplay, I finally penetrated and came right then. Since then, my girlfriend and I have broken up, but are best friends now. I have a strange uncontrollable urge to go down on every girl I see (I think because I enjoy a turned-on girl more than I enjoy anything).

Neither I nor my best friend are seeing anyone, and "friends" have sex all the time, so what is the best way to ask her to let me "practice"? After my first "real" sexual experience, I feel incredibly inadequate, especially since we broke up not long after that. I really want to get better. Christ, I'm nineteen and not getting any younger.

Active Tongue



Dear Active Tongue,

Alice is delighted to know that you are eager to give women pleasure, since giving and receiving go hand in glove. It's no wonder you're eager to have sex. You're nineteen; your hormones are flowing; and, it's fun, pleasurable, and exciting. In some ways, like a pump being primed, once you have had sex, you have even more sexual energy.

 

[GoodKat]

First of all, this male friend was no more and no less "wrong" than was any human asking another for sexual favors of any sort.

You are wrong. The reason that her friend was a douche is because he expected it. He volunteered to do his friend a favor. She doesn't owe him a damn thing. He's lucky that she offered him anything other then a smack upside the head with a sock full of quarters.

But when a male "friend" asks a woman for sexual favors there is nothing appropriate about belittling him both to his face immediately and then on an internet message board behind his back.

Since you're already reaching...can you pass me the peanut butter off the top shelf.

 

[SexyBoy]

The answer is simple don't do a SP any favors keep it always professional.

or

Stick to friends that help each other out.

or

Sex is work for a SP but not something a friend should ask for. Keep it to something that isn't her profession like baking a cake.

or

Do things for women expect zero in return.

or

Men are from Mars women are from Venus and they don't understand each other except for the guys that are pussy whipped.

or

Just give and who cares about getting something in return. Eventually you just stop making time for those friends. I personally like this one.

 

[planetsmurf]

the guy is just an asshole. and just because VV is an escort doesn't mean she going to give every guy in the world a bj. VV handled the situation as best as could be expected.

 

[ethan604]

If he wanted a simple bj from you, why not? He did some stuff for ya and if he knows what you do, who cares?

haha do u have any idea how much a bj would cost by the lovely VV? Certainly not the same as it costs to do a small job such as the one he was asked to do as a friend geez. The nerve. He's off the christmas card list.

 

[broadcaster]

Why not blow him and keep him happy?
One day you might be building a house or doing renos and need an electrician.
Unless you like paying scale i think you fucked up and should probably call him back and be on your knees when he rings the bell.

 

[chilli]

It's amazing how many men on this board are so pussy whipped.

It's actually quite sad AND DEPRESSING.

All I can say for every guy that supports VV on this, hand in your dick - you don't deserve it.

You don't deserve to be called a man.

And you certainly don't deserve to be treated like one.

Enjoy your life as you beg for pussy because you're so whipped you stopped being a man a long time ago with your wife or SO.

Enjoy your life as female friends continually use you as a doormat for whatever occupation you are in....

Ah the good life - pussy whipped.

You must be so proud of yourself. All the women like you. Your male friends laugh at you - but heh the women like you and isn't that what's really important?

 

[SexyBoy]

It's amazing how many men on this board are so pussy whipped.

It's actually quite sad AND DEPRESSING.

All I can say for every guy that supports VV on this, hand in your dick - you don't deserve it.

You don't deserve to be called a man.

And you certainly don't deserve to be treated like one.

Enjoy your life as you beg for pussy because you're so whipped you stopped being a man a long time ago with your wife or SO.

Enjoy your life as female friends continually use you as a doormat for whatever occupation you are in....

Ah the good life - pussy whipped.

You must be so proud of yourself. All the women like you. Your male friends laugh at you - but heh the women like you and isn't that what's really important?

It is soooo true!

 

[teejay69]

Lame

It's amazing how many men on this board are so pussy whipped.

It's actually quite sad AND DEPRESSING.

All I can say for every guy that supports VV on this, hand in your dick - you don't deserve it.

You don't deserve to be called a man.

And you certainly don't deserve to be treated like one.

Enjoy your life as you beg for pussy because you're so whipped you stopped being a man a long time ago with your wife or SO.

Enjoy your life as female friends continually use you as a doormat for whatever occupation you are in....

Ah the good life - pussy whipped.

You must be so proud of yourself. All the women like you. Your male friends laugh at you - but heh the women like you and isn't that what's really important?

WTF chilli ??? That is just lame. I think that begging for pussy will have a better chance (even if it is 1%) versus offering an SP a barter swap for something she does not want (at zero %). Guess you agree with having to extort/barter for some action.

You are missing the point here. He was asked to do a simple favor. It would be no different if his mom or one of his pussy whipped male friends asked him for a favor. You help people because that is something genuine and something you want to do (no strings attached).

Hypothetical situation. chilli has a gas fire place and needs help to fix the regulator. Male buddy fixes switch but also offers a cord of fire wood in exchange for a BJ. Guess chilli is obligated to give him the brokeback bj (not to be confused with bbbj).

At least VV offered to pay the fucker.

 

[albroker]

correct Chilli

Chilli, you are right on........from what I see it is ok for the lady to use the guy but if it might appear to be the other way around, WOW look out hang the bastard.....welcome to the real world

 

[Jolly Rogerer]

he comes back the next day, screws the panel in & asks for a bj. I told him no but i'll gladly pay.

Dictionary.com Unabridged
cur·ren·cy [kur-uhn-see, kuhr-] Pronunciation Key - Show IPA Pronunciation
–noun, plural -cies.
1. something that is used as a medium of exchange.
2. general acceptance; prevalence; vogue.
3. a time or period during which something is widely accepted and circulated.
4. the fact or quality of being widely accepted and circulated from person to person.
5. circulation, as of coin.
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*News-flash* You suck dicks for a living!

You treat sex as a currency so why would you be surprised or offended when some guy requests payment that way?

 

[belair]

note the difference

Favour - an act of gracious kindness
In other words, you do it for free.

Barter is a type of trade that doesn't use any medium of exchange, in which goods or services are exchanged for other goods and/or services.