Seeking Arrangement

[f158]

After reading a previous thread about SA motivated me to make a profile and check the place out.

I've been talking with a few that have interested me and just curious if it would be okay to post a link to their profile here just to get some feedback on them.

 

[johnnydepth]

I would be interested to hear Mods thoughts on reviewing girls from this site. I also recently joined and find it could be interesting. My first experience did not go so well, but in all honesty I will take most of the blame. Just part of the learning curve I guess.

 

[Sixpak]

I cannot see how the ladies or clients would think it a good idea to bring attention to sites like SA. Majority probably think it is a stupid idea to bring attention to it. Sure some of the ladies on BP are on it but it will just discourage others that do not want the attention. Most poones are reluctant to dish out the funds some do on there. Are you trying to shut the site down? It involves membership so why would discussion be distributed to non-members? Bad dog!

 

[f158]

I cannot see how the ladies or clients would think it a good idea to bring attention to sites like SA. Majority probably think it is a stupid idea to bring attention to it. Sure some of the ladies on BP are on it but it will just discourage others that do not want the attention. Most poones are reluctant to dish out the funds some do on there. Are you trying to shut the site down? It involves membership so why would discussion be distributed to non-members? Bad dog!

Really?

SA has already been discussed on this forum so your assessment of my motives are way off and not called for.

 

[johnnydepth]

I cannot see how the ladies or clients would think it a good idea to bring attention to sites like SA. Majority probably think it is a stupid idea to bring attention to it. Sure some of the ladies on BP are on it but it will just discourage others that do not want the attention. Most poones are reluctant to dish out the funds some do on there. Are you trying to shut the site down? It involves membership so why would discussion be distributed to non-members? Bad dog!

In my opinion you are completely wrong. SA is owned by parent company Ashley Madison. I can see the privacy aspect of AM as it is a dating site like POF, Match, etc... Seeking arrangements is nothing more than a high end backpage, and even at that not by much. There really should be no expectation of privacy. It's different if you are talking about a site like The Dirty where people are posted without their permission. The ladies on SA have posted their own profile wanting to exchange favor for favor. I will wait for Mod feedback on this one, but I don't see the difference.

 

[f158]

I did a quick search on Seeking Arrangement and found this

https://perb.cc/vbulletin/showthrea...ing-Arrangement&highlight=seeking+arrangement

didn't read the whole thing but pretty well sums it up. Read it and take from it what you can.

 

[Moderator-1]

We're are seeing more and more posts and discussions about the "Arrangement" type websites.

The discussion has been good. We're not sure whether to allow links and names posted on Perb yet. Seeing as most of these site are not open, but require registration, would posting links work unless the viewer is also a member?

 

[PerbMod]

After reading a previous thread about SA motivated me to make a profile and check the place out.

I've been talking with a few that have interested me and just curious if it would be okay to post a link to their profile here just to get some feedback on them.

We are working on this issue, but no, posting links to dating/seeking arrangement sites is not allowed at the moment. These ladies are not escorts (or at least, that's the theory) and exposing them here is not in our DNA as an escort review board.

 

[LusciousLouis]

Instead of linking pages or posting pics of girls you're curious about, why not simply post a question such as "Has anyone met (insert username here)?

None of the girls with profiles on SA use their real names so privacy shouldn't be an issue, and the only pooners that should be replying would already be members there and have access to the profiles. Any SA member could easily find the profile of the girl in question and share any experience - good or bad - they may have with her. I know this may have helped me when I was active on SA last year, and I certainly would have been able to share my experiences.

 

[willtrade]

Instead of linking pages or posting pics of girls you're curious about, why not simply post a question such as "Has anyone met (insert username here)?

None of the girls with profiles on SA use their real names so privacy shouldn't be an issue, and the only pooners that should be replying would already be members there and have access to the profiles. Any SA member could easily find the profile of the girl in question and share any experience - good or bad - they may have with her. I know this may have helped me when I was active on SA last year, and I certainly would have been able to share my experiences.

That sounds like the ticket if you ask me.

 

[Cappy1]

To my mind, the idea, while sound, has some issues. Our forums are not private. Just as BP ladies can access and review Perb, so can SA ladies. And I believe that many will flock here, if they're not already do so. The big question is will it help some of the poorer or less than genuine "babies" up their game or better yet, leave the site entirely.

Say we are reviewing someone who is active on Seeking Arrangement called Penny-Luv and one member believes and reports her to be operating as an escort, it's highly likely that she will be viewing her reviews and complaints here.
I'm of the belief that many of the women on SA are trying to fly under the radar for reasons such as 1. trying to avoid the "prostitution" label and 2. ability to charge premium prices.

If our reviews and arrangement discussions are going to have any long term value and be helpful, they will have to be private or restricted to try and exclude the providers.

Instead of linking pages or posting pics of girls you're curious about, why not simply post a question such as "Has anyone met (insert username here)?

None of the girls with profiles on SA use their real names so privacy shouldn't be an issue, and the only pooners that should be replying would already be members there and have access to the profiles. Any SA member could easily find the profile of the girl in question and share any experience - good or bad - they may have with her. I know this may have helped me when I was active on SA last year, and I certainly would have been able to share my experiences.

 

[westcoast555]

After reading a previous thread about SA motivated me to make a profile and check the place out.

I've been talking with a few that have interested me and just curious if it would be okay to post a link to their profile here just to get some feedback on them.

Don't link to their profiles - better to discuss general approach. The girls on their are not necessarily pros and are looking for different things. Highly unadvisable.

 

[hankmoody]

Interesting discussion. I agree having a private forum would be the best way to go. Pm would be time consuming.
I assume there is not a private review site for this somewhere else?
Seems we're not giving recommendations yet but i can advise on a few to steer clear of.
Sugars rays (used to be sugars sweettt)
Sugar-and-Spice83
Going to have to start saying shouldn't have listened to my sweet tooth instead of the little head..
Oh and Africangirl.
Stay away
(Alot of fake pics on there too.)

 

[schneider]

I think it would be very helpful to be able to discuss our experiences.
Point 2 above, in particular.
Some of them are very, um, unrealistic.

 

[adventureguy]

I have had extensive experience with SA over the summer meeting more than 10 very hot ladies (all the photos are real on that site, there have been no fakes yet)!!! And my experiences have been very very good, its a much lower cost than seeing an escort as the ladies are mostly negotiable, and they are not on a time clock so I usually spend several hours or an entire evening or afternoon with the gal including going to football games, the beach, or just out for ice cream.

And the best part is that they are all very willing to meet you for drinks or dinner to see if you click before you actually decide or agree to an arrangement! So why would anyone want a second hand review of the ladies when its virtually free to meet them yourself and decide for yourself first hand (just a couple cheap glasses of their favorite beverage is well worth the price of admission to hang out with such pretty young gals).

Some ladies I took out 2-3 times before they actually started discussing a financial exchange. And the sex I received from 5 of them was fantastic! Because most of them are actually looking for one man to spend time with, and very few are actual escorts so you don't get the mechanical service from these girls because they are actually looking to enjoy it themselves as an ongoing one-on-one relationship, not a Wham Bam, thank you Sir.

Unfortuately the monthly charge is $100, but for that amount I dated at least 4 women each month (I've been on there 3 months now off and on), and I know that I would have spent $500 to $1000 on escorts at 2-3 bills per hour and only had fun for a few hours rather than having a hot woman on my arm for most of the day or evening several times each week!

 

[johnnydepth]

It is a tough call because the women are there for many different reasons. Clearly there are SP's advertising on the site, it makes sense to review and exchange info on these ladies. The other ones, not so sure. Some of these ladies are looking for one guy or maybe a few at the most. Probably not much sense in sharing info when it is likely nobody else will get to see them. On the other hand I would assume they would pull their profile if they are not available.

 

[voland]

I have had extensive experience with SA over the summer meeting more than 10 very hot ladies (all the photos are real on that site, there have been no fakes yet)!!! And my experiences have been very very good, its a much lower cost than seeing an escort as the ladies are mostly negotiable, and they are not on a time clock so I usually spend several hours or an entire evening or afternoon with the gal including going to football games, the beach, or just out for ice cream.

And the best part is that they are all very willing to meet you for drinks or dinner to see if you click before you actually decide or agree to an arrangement! So why would anyone want a second hand review of the ladies when its virtually free to meet them yourself and decide for yourself first hand (just a couple cheap glasses of their favorite beverage is well worth the price of admission to hang out with such pretty young gals).

Some ladies I took out 2-3 times before they actually started discussing a financial exchange. And the sex I received from 5 of them was fantastic! Because most of them are actually looking for one man to spend time with, and very few are actual escorts so you don't get the mechanical service from these girls because they are actually looking to enjoy it themselves as an ongoing one-on-one relationship, not a Wham Bam, thank you Sir.

Unfortuately the monthly charge is $100, but for that amount I dated at least 4 women each month (I've been on there 3 months now off and on), and I know that I would have spent $500 to $1000 on escorts at 2-3 bills per hour and only had fun for a few hours rather than having a hot woman on my arm for most of the day or evening several times each week!

@adventureguy: Can you tell us what was the average damage per arrangement?

 

[hankmoody]

@adventureguy: Can you tell us what was the average damage per arrangement?

Would be interesting to hear.
Some will do a meet and greet just for drinks / dinner to judge compatibility etc.
Of the ones i've asked 200 seems to be their starting point.
There's a thread in the lounge, talk of 3-400 per date which can be an evening.

 

[schneider]

Feeding someone is one thing, but I think it is bad practice otherwise to pay for a first meeting. I'm surprised also how many start at 300, or even 500, and proclaim how they are 'worth it'.

 

[adventureguy]

Several do chat and never meet, some chat for weeks and just cant find time to meet, and some are avoiding it because they are shy (first time sugar babies), or they are just fooling around and wasting time to see whats out there. Two seemed to want me to give her money without meeting (one wanted me to pay her for sexy intimate photos of her, but she finally sent them anyways without me paying), and the other I only texted and even video chatted with her for over an hour for free!

They have all been very sexy and some send very intimate photos of themselves, but I never gave any of them a cent without meeting. Some I have met as many as 3 times without paying, and only started paying once the intimacy was about to begin, then they discussed how much it would be once I was into them. None of the local Winnipeg gals were scammers at all. But at least half of the ladies will meet you right away within just a couple of days! Otherwise don't waste your time. Last night I was just showing my buddies photos of the ladies I dated the past 3 months and they were absolutely blown away by the photos I took together with them at the bomber game, beach, spa, and out at dinner! I didn't show them the photos I took afterwards, or the intimate photos they sent me. It was amazing how many of the women were ok with me taking sexy photos wearing outfits I bought them at the sex store, and even videos of our extra curricular activities, so I have a lot of special memories on my camera roll.

Every lady I have met has been exactly as her photos, about 60% of them I connected enough within the first couple meetings to get sex (so at first there should be absolutely no exchange of money, only paying the food/drink bill or taking them shopping). So either I'm really smooth (which I doubt), or the SA gals are really willing to meet a guy regularly and eventually provide intimacy. Some never talk about intimacy, others bring it up right away but then they want a ton of cash as schneider says. For my budget, I havent paid more than $200 max for a date that lasts several hours and ends in intimacy. A standard rate for an entire month of meeting once a week is around $800 and up, some quoted me $3,000 a month which is out of the question. But I have been able to go out quite a bit and even got sex free from 3 ladies (they were amateurs and didn't know how to ask for money), and now I am even dating one for the past few weeks! Besides buying her and her two kids dinner 3 times ($50 each time) and taking them out to Christmas events (free), I haven't paid her a cent and she is even saying she loves me, and the kids adore me!!!! So on Seeking Arrangement, its been all good and if you are a respectful gentleman and know how to play the game, then i'm sure you will all have a good time no matter what lady you choose!

curling master, please clean out your inbox, I couldn't pm this reply to you and I have more info on one of the gals you inquired about