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Somadeja

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I'm interested in exploring time with an SP (or SPs), but its a bit overwhelming to navigate as a first timer and I'm looking for advice and suggestions.

I'm looking for someone or somewhere that can provide a relaxed, no pressure, low stress experience. I'm more for quality of the person (GFE?) and with enough time to get comfortable, and enjoy eachothers company. Low volume SP's might be best for that?

I've considered somewhere like the FoxDen, etc. Seems like an avenue like that might be easy and safe to start, but maybe risks not checking some of those boxes? Some of the requirements for deposits, LinkedIn profile sharing, etc with some individual SP's can be a bit intimidating as a first go too (I do get and appreciate why though).

Any thoughts and suggestions you can share?
 
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tonyjohnson

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Relaxed and no pressure comes down to time. If you're booking half hour sessions, you'll be rushed and not have a good time. Book at least an hour. If you tend to get nerves/anxiety, then even 90 minutes or 2 hours for first time is great. You might last 5 minutes but there's no pressure to perform immediately. You have time to relax and go at your own pace. Low volume SP or not, doesn't really matter - you book the amount of time you want. Volume doesn't really matter. There might be a correlation between volume and service quality but it's tenuous.

@AsianFever604 as carsman123 mentioned is probably the best bet by far. Everything is clearly priced and easy to select from and easy to book. You know exactly what you're in for, generally speaking. Of course, it comes down to you and how kind and respectful you are during the session. You get what you give, so give good energy and generally you'll get good energy back. If you're a dirty creep, you'll probably have a negative experience no matter which SP or agency you book with.

FoxDen is clean and relatively straightforward to book but a bit more hit and miss. It's harder to gauge if the person working is up your alley or not.
 
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Somadeja said:
I'm interested in exploring time with an SP (or SPs), but its a bit overwhelming to navigate as a first timer and I'm looking for advice and suggestions.

I'm looking for someone or somewhere that can provide a relaxed, no pressure, low stress experience. I'm more for quality of the person (GFE?) and with enough time to get comfortable, and enjoy eachothers company. Low volume SP's might be best for that?

I've considered somewhere like the FoxDen, etc. Seems like an avenue like that might be easy and safe to start, but maybe risks not checking some of those boxes? Some of the requirements for deposits, LinkedIn profile sharing, etc with some individual SP's can be a bit intimidating as a first go too (I do get and appreciate why though).

Any thoughts and suggestions you can share?
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I'd go with Kylie 3611, She was sorta one of my first SP's (probably 5th) and it was the first time i genuinely laughed and didn't feel the GUILTY when i left. Another girl, Naomi @ coco collective was a great. Lots of chatting before to find out what ur looking for. Both give crazy good bj's. If you're wanting more of GFE, between the two i'd go with Naomi, and for a PSE as many know lmao, Kylie. I also recommend these girls because its more of an approachable price point. If cash isn't a issue, go with a highly review SP here on perb, also use perb to vet out fake ads <3
 
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So many gorgeous ladies to choose from in vancouver. It’s a smorgasbord in this city 💕

I would suggest for a first time visit, that you start with minimum 90 minutes. Look at the ads on tryst or on here, pick somebody’s who’s pics and vibe you like the best. If the lady requests a deposit, make sure she has a stellar reputation by reading her reviews. If she doesn’t have any reviews, don’t send a deposit and move on to someone else.

Take your time looking and you’re bound to have an amazing time
 
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Thebigmeme

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Absolute easiest would be walking into a massage place.

Pink Diamond Condo has independent upscale women.

Start with 30mins. I had to jerk myself off to finish because I was so nervous I couldn't cum.

Don't get addicted. The women are unbelievably beautiful and seductive. Good luck.
 
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Some of this is repeating what others have said, but as a relative first timer myself, here’s my advice:

like Harmony said, read reviews and read the ads. Find someone whose bio you like. Think about what things are “musts” for you. Sounds like DFK, BJ (are you okay with covered?), GFE generally.

Contact the person, you want to meet, and book a couple days out. Be honest about what’s happening (“this is my first time…”), make sure you’re comfortable with the communication, and then just go and enjoy yourself.

If you feel iffy about how they communicate, then find someone else.
 
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Somadeja

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Thebigmeme said:
Absolute easiest would be walking into a massage place.

Pink Diamond Condo has independent upscale women.

Start with 30mins. I had to jerk myself off to finish because I was so nervous I couldn't cum.

Don't get addicted. The women are unbelievably beautiful and seductive. Good luck.
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Haven't seen them before. Thanks for the heads up.
 
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I mean they never schedule her, I have been looking to see if she would appear on the week schedule. I thought she might be working on her own for a time
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ah mb king! you can always ask the handler if she's taking time off/hiatus, fingers crossed she's back soon!
 
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tatsu69

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Yeah, I never seen Naomi on the schedule for weeks, but would be nice if we can still book w her even w her off the schedule
 
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