Seeing SP's outside of work

[JD1988]

I used to frequent the fox den a bit. Got to know one fox pretty well we started seeing each other outside of the fox den. Going for dinner and movies and hanging out. Was wondering if anyone else has done this at the fox den or any other provider.

 

[Chef99]

Apparently you'll be extremely surprised to learn that this topic is not new. It has been discussed before, a zillion times. You may want to use the search function....

 

[Larry Storch]

All I'm going to say is: If you're paying for all of the entertainment and/or compensating her for her time, this isn't a friendship. It's a 'session'.

 

[Man in Submission]

If you are just paying for the entertainment (movies, dinner) ... that's a date IMHO. If you go for play time afterwards and you pay for that too, then it's a session. Of course in the long run it's rarely that simple.

 

[JD1988]

Yea I payed for the movie and dinner but she did sometimes. Plus she's stayed over my place before and I stayed at her's. Even got invited to a family event which caught me off guard a bit. It's a pretty platonic relationship.

 

[Larry Storch]

If the "staying over" at each others place involves extra curricular activities, then it isn't platonic.

Being invited to see the family is a different thing though. Could be more than just hanging out. Hope it works out.

 

[UhOh]

She's a human and you're hanging out with her. You figure you're breaking new ground doing something thats never been done before?

 

[burcs]

What a useless thread. OP is clearly out to just brag. There's no substance or follow up to a dumb yes/no question.

 

[johnsmit]

It easy to make friends with SPs .now if you want sex that's a whole different story..and you do end up paying for it in many ways
Usually you just end up in the friend category and they don't want to have sex with you even if you do want to pay for it ..
It can become very awkward for both .

 

[mustangjoe]

Have we explored the possibility it's a set up to rinse you? You maybe just 1 of several fish on the hook. I don't trust em- any of em. I love paying them; love my time with them, for an hour or 2 at a time, but I don't trust em and draw the line at that.

 

[Cami Parker]

Sure. Clients are friends too, definitely. They don't try to take advantage of the fact. Business is business, friendship is friendship. Just because we're now friends doesn't mean we should discontinue the sexy part of our relationship. Also doesn't mean try to leverage our friendship for discounts lol

 

[whitemoustache]

An acronym has just occurred to me.
Friend
I'd
Like to
Fuck = FILF
:drum:

 

[Edward Lei]

Hook, line and sinker.

OP is being played and will find that out sooner or later. She will need "help" at some point.

 

[badbadboy]

Sure. Clients are friends too, definitely. They don't try to take advantage of the fact. Business is business, friendship is friendship. Just because we're now friends doesn't mean we should discontinue the sexy part of our relationship. Also doesn't mean try to leverage our friendship for discounts lol

Well said Cami :nod:

:clap2:

 

[westwoody]

My two best friends are ladies who I knew for years and have been retired for about twenty years and ten years.

Neither has ever ripped me off or asked for anything.

 

[1nitestan]

Sure. Clients are friends too, definitely. They don't try to take advantage of the fact. Business is business, friendship is friendship. Just because we're now friends doesn't mean we should discontinue the sexy part of our relationship. Also doesn't mean try to leverage our friendship for discounts lol

Exactly. I see sex workers as health care providers. Sex is a part of healthy living as it benefits us physically and emotionally (if we have a realistic outlook about it). If I can go shoot a round of golf with my doctor, then I should be able to hangout with my sex provider if she liked me enough to do so. I don't pay for my doctor's round of golf and I would expect not to pay for her portion of dinners and movies etc. She makes decent enough money and should be able to afford small pleasures.